Discussions I've participated in

Hello Everyone! I am getting married in THREE DAYS!!! And I am so excited. However, a somewhat important question remains: how is my Mom getting down the aisle? My partner's parents will already be...

What did you all put in your bridesmaids proposal boxes? Did you match the color scheme to your wedding?

Hi all! I’m very new to this whole planning a wedding process and it’s become a lot more than i was expecting! the costs are insane and I’m trying to save where I can. (Planning for Sept. 2025) I’ve...

Hi everyone, I want to make the kid's goodie bags to keep them occupied during dinner. Has anyone else made these, and if so, what did you include? Thanks Jaime

I'm debating between keeping my bridesmaids' dresses long, or cutting them short (knee length). No one seems to be doing short dresses nowadays on instagram/ pinterest, but my bridesmaids are not very...

I have not come across any discussions on centerpiece giveaways so I thought I would ask. For my centerpieces I will have manzanita trees and a floral arrangement at the base. The trees I purchased...

Curious to know who is going to be giving their guests little keepsakes? We want to find a fairly inexpensive trinket to gift to our ~100 guests that won't break the bank. Wanted to know if you brides...

Hey y’all what are your thoughts on Engagement parties? We are debating on having one but wondering if it’s worth the stress ( because we live far from family )

Hi all, just wondering which of your vendors you tipped eg. Photographer or dj or all? And what percentage of their fee did you tip or what dolllar amount is appropriate? Thanks

Brides of 2023 and onward: What are your plans for set up and take down of your decor? Do you have a venue that has decor that will set up and put away pieces for you? Or do you have all your decor...

Hello all Not sure how much conversation this will spark but did any of you have any special requests from your guests for your big day? I don't know if this is considered that different but I had put...

Hi lovely ladies! One of the first things when planning a wedding is to choose the date! There are so many factors to consider when picking your big day! From the season and weather, the desired...

Hi All! Even with my wedding being just under a year away now, I'm starting to plan out the little things (i.e., where I'll be getting ready, timeline, etc). My fiancé and I are planning on doing a...

Brides/Grooms/Wives/Hisbands, Curious to know, was it important for you to spend the night before separately and see each fresh at the wedding? Or did you keep it non traditional and stay together the...

I booked a makeup trial for before my wedding date but I am waffling on a hair trial. I (think) I want the classic chignon and from her portfolio my hair stylist is a master at them. I have classic...

Hey wonderful brides! I see a lot of new faces around the community! Welcome! How about we share a little more about our wedding colours. What colours did you choose for your wedding?! My husband and...

Hi everyone! I’m thinking about getting either artificial or dried flowers for my wedding so that I’m spending money on something that can be reused and won’t die in a week lol For anyone who got...

This might be a weird question, but who usually pays for food before the ceremony for the bridal party? We plan on going there around 10am to decorate and start getting ready around noon. The ceremony...

I feel like I’ve got control on a lot of the bigger items, organization. My issue is all the small details, small things I could miss, how do you stay on top?