Discussions I've participated in

My daughter (20 years old) is my Maid of Honor and has flat out told me she hates public speaking and would rather not speak. LOL How important is that speech from her? Should we offer that to someone...

For those that have or are having a small intimate outdoor ceremony did you go all out for the decor? I'm in such a toss between decorating and not as I do take into consideration of all the clean and...

Who is in the wedding party? (how did you decide, how many people, if you're skipping it entirely, how do you know them, or how long you've known them, if you're including siblings or future in-laws) ...

Hi everyone! I 'm getting married on August 6th and we have a meeting with our officiant next week to discuss the ceremony. I assume our officiant will provide advice, structure, etc. but I was...

Is anyone not doing a seating chart? We are doing a buffet style dinner but do have assigned seating (obviously getting seating cards) but wondering if its necessary to have a seating chart as well,...

It is very hard because i ask bridesmaid to order the dresses last year but they didnt want to and now the dress is longer available and we have to choose again i ask bridesmaid to plan bachelorete...

Is it my job to call ahead to close hotels and reserve rooms for out of town guests. Or do you leave that up to them

Hi everyone! I am not having a ring bearer or a flower girl at my wedding because I have no little ones in the family. Does anyone have any alternative ideas to share in replacement of a ring bearer...

Hey all, newly engaged and starting to think about wedding planning. Is anyone else planning a destination wedding?

Hello what has people done with there weddings have they paid all meals or a certain percent and have the people attending paying the other percent? Thanks

My wedding is planned for May. Toronto… indoor with 50 guests. I’m not sure what to think. I’m also a front line nurse dealing with covid patients and while this seems very different than previously...

Hi folks! I know some of you have mentioned you may have a cricut, or maybe you know someone with one. Did you know they can make BEAUTIFUL CARDS TOO?! I've been obsessed with making cards lately and...

How many months out from the wedding is your RSVP deadline for your guests?

Hi future brides, how are guys feeling with the new covid restrictions!? I’m so over it! And I’m loosing interest to plan my wedding since I’ve postponed twice!! My mother in law is not coming to my...

I'm starting to work on my timeline for my wedding and I would love to have us sneak out of the reception for half an hour to do some photos right before sunset for golden hour photos. Sunset on our...

Hello fellow brides and grooms I am getting married a month from today! Unfortunately, it was announced today that my province of Ontario has paused it's re-opening plans indefinitely - meaning that...

Has anyone not exchanged gifts with your spouse the day of? My FH doesn't really want to exchange gifts cause he feels we just paid for this wedding plus we are getting rings that he doesn't see the...

My fiancé and I both love movies and it’s something we love to do together. We were brainstorming theme ideas and came up with movies which we both thought could be a really fun way to showcase us as...

Hello brides! My wedding is a year away but I've contemplated on the idea of writing my own vows. My fiance is a shy guy and is most likely going to request to do the traditional "repeat after me"...

I'm just curious to see what other people paid their officiant! I've come across such a different range of prices and I'm trying to figure out what a normal price point would be.

I've always wanted to go to Greece or Hawaii for my honeymoon or even a cruise! But with covid and travel restrictions we have decided to honeymoon in BC or Alberta. We are getting married next month...

Oh boy!!!!! Ok need some advice. My fiancé’s ex has asked us to a rehearsal dinner after the rehearsal. He said he doesn’t want to go to either however I said he should be there for at least the...

I am music obsessed, I might go overboard what is the top off ideal number. I don't want to tell the dj how to do his job but like to give an idea on what music we like to hear.

Hi everyone, I haven't attended many wedding myself and the times I did I never really paid attention to the time line and the order of the events. Now that vendors are asking me to come up with a...

Hi Everyone! Let's start a discussion about our wedding dates and why we chose them! I'll go first. When I first got engaged this past March, at first we wanted to do something in the Banff/Canmore...