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Izzy
Beginner June 2023 Ontario

No Ring Bearer And Flower Girl

Izzy, on January 17, 2022 at 21:30 Posted in Wedding ceremony 0 35
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Hi everyone!


I am not having a ring bearer or a flower girl at my wedding because I have no little ones in the family. Does anyone have any alternative ideas to share in replacement of a ring bearer and a flower girl?

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Latest activity by Yami, on March 7, 2022 at 21:06
  • Yami
    Curious October 2022 Ontario
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    My fiancé’s 20 something year old cousins will be our ring bearer and flower girl! He took care of them a lot when they were little kids and it made sense to ask them for it since we’re not asking them to be part of the bridal party.
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  • Vinod
    Featured August 2017 Ontario
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    My side of the family has kids and they were part of the celebration with 2 along of 2 of husbands co workers kids as flower kids and no ring bearer. The Best Men were to hold the rings though it was forgotten to give them as it was sitting on our tray when brought out. You can have the guests hold the petals and have them throw at while you walk down the aisle from the aisle sides.

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  • Tunisha
    Featured October 2021 Ontario
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    I had my little cousin that was the ring bearer, but while they sit, the best man took over to collect the box from them to give us the rings.


    So like almost everyone is saying, the best man and MOH can be the alternatives. Both of them as they walk down the aisle can do it. Haha! That would be amazing, especially since they are the bride and groom’s right hand peeps. Haha
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  • Rayanne
    Featured June 2022 Ontario
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    I have an eight year son and a six year old daughter and we are still not having them as flowergirl/ring bearer. They will go down the aisle after all the guests arrive with my older sons and my niece and nephew. We just wanted to keep the actual wedding party small. Since my (adult) sons aren't part of the wedding party we opted out of the little ones being in the wedding party. Not to say they don't have the sweetest little outfits to wear.
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  • Izzy
    Beginner June 2023 Ontario
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    That sounds amazing! 😂😂
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  • Liberty
    Featured May 2022 Alberta
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    Thank you! I got inspiration from one I found on etsy
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  • Izzy
    Beginner June 2023 Ontario
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    Ahaha I love this show!!!
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  • Izzy
    Beginner June 2023 Ontario
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    That is beautiful!
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  • Izzy
    Beginner June 2023 Ontario
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    I didn’t even think about my maid of honor tossing petals! That’s a good idea my head went right to my uncle with a fanny pack and some up beat music lol
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  • Izzy
    Beginner June 2023 Ontario
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    That’s what I’m starting to think. I’ve gotten so many great ideas and most people are having the best man or maid of honour hold the rings
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  • Izzy
    Beginner June 2023 Ontario
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    We are choosing to have no children as well that’s why I’m trying to be creative with no flower girl and no ring bearer. Many people are suggesting the best man hold the rings which sounds like the best idea since most bridesmaid dresses don’t have pockets
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  • Carmel
    Featured December 2020 Ontario
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    Yes!!! So fun!!
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  • Carmel
    Featured December 2020 Ontario
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    Please please do it!
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  • Carmel
    Featured December 2020 Ontario
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    YES!!! I wanted to do this but have two nieces (although we did no flower tossing). The best man did do a joke first look though! He put on my sister's wedding dress from 2001 🤣 (binder clips and elastic held it together).
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  • Hank
    Featured September 2021 Ontario
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    What about a ring bear instead?

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  • Rere
    Frequent user September 2022 Ontario
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    That's a good idea.
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  • Liberty
    Featured May 2022 Alberta
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    No Ring Bearer And Flower Girl 1
    This is the pouch! I used my cricut!
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  • Farrah
    Curious April 2023 British Columbia
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    I'm not having a flower girl or ring bearer either. The best man will be holding the rings and my man of honour is going to toss flower petals on his walk down the aisle haha

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  • Samantha
    Frequent user May 2022 Ontario
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    Hey Izzy. My Fiancée and I are opting for no children at our wedding, so we will not be having either. We will have our Maid of Honor & Best Man holding the rings!

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  • Malyssa
    Featured October 2022 Alberta
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    We are opting for no children at our wedding in general, so this is a big no for us. Best man will hold rings.

    I, like Carmel, LOVE the idea of groomsmen as a "flower girl"! I think the idea is so fun!!! We may opt for this, as we do have odd numbers so may ask our 2 odd groomsmen "walk down the aisles" together tossin flowers haha

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  • Izzy
    Beginner June 2023 Ontario
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    I thought about making just having the aisle pre decorated with petals
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  • Izzy
    Beginner June 2023 Ontario
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    I actually had an uncle volunteer to be my flower girl 😂 and my younger brother and I’m like let’s do it ahah!
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  • Izzy
    Beginner June 2023 Ontario
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    A pouch that’s a great idea!
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  • Izzy
    Beginner June 2023 Ontario
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    I’ll keep that in mind! I work with small children and I love them but don’t think I would trust them with my rings lol!
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  • T
    Curious May 2022 Alberta
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    We aren't having any wedding party including a ring bearer but even if you are, don't give your ring to a small child anyways lol My nephew was the ring bearer at a wedding (when he was 5 which is young but not as young as some) and they had fake rings on the pillow. Good thing they did because he decided to hold the rings and let the pillow dangle from the ribbon they were tied to, and then it just became too tempting to spin it around...etc you get the idea, don't trust small children with expensive things lol

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  • Liberty
    Featured May 2022 Alberta
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    We aren't having either. I made a pouch for the rings so the best man can keep them in his pocket.
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  • Carmel
    Featured December 2020 Ontario
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    Please have groomsmen be flower girls 🤣😂 I'd have MOH and best man home the rings if you have them.


    https://fb.watch/aClR9nb5VN/
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  • Rere
    Frequent user September 2022 Ontario
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    We are not having a flower girl either, I honestly didn't think much of that part, don't think it will be missed.
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  • Amanda
    Featured August 2022 British Columbia
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    Of course hun anytime! Smiley heart

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  • Izzy
    Beginner June 2023 Ontario
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    Good idea! Thank you!!
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  • Izzy
    Beginner June 2023 Ontario
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    That’s a good idea thank you!
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  • Kelsey
    Frequent user August 2022 Alberta
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    Yeah we are not having them either. We will just have someone in our bridal party hold the rings 😊
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