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Hey there fellow Friday the 13th brides and grooms!! Anyone else in or around Belleville, ON?

Hey all. We aren't having a traditional party reception, we see no point in it. But we're having a hard time deciding between a brunch reception or an afternoon/early evening reception. Any...

So this is really a pointless post, just need to actually vent some frustration. So backstory, I've always been a super dark kinda person. Love Halloween, forensics, etc.. So I love Halloween and dark...

I have a hypothetical question for you all. A friend brought it up and I am just curious haha. So say you bought your wedding dress at the beginning of 2017 to get married in October of 2017. But life...

After the wonderful advice from a bunch of you lovely ladies and gentlemen, our wedding style is going to be dark, moody and gothic vibe. However we love the idea of a brunch!! Any suggestions on how...

Hey all, So we've opted for a backyard BBQ at my parents farm. The date we want is June 20th 2020. I'm worried about rain and heat. Mostly heat as we have easy ups at my moms for regular family...

Has anyone said forget it to the bigger wedding they were planning and just opted for a small, at home ceremony and reception? I'm at that point where I want to now. Life is kind of a jerk to us so...

We're having a tiny wedding. Like 25-30 people and that's stretching it. Most vendors don't even take us seriously it's so small. Actually the more I think about it the more I get confused on what we...

For me it's vendors flaking on us or not following our wishes. Gives me major anxiety. It's so bad it actually makes me not want a wedding at all! We have had venues fall through on us because after...

What part of the planning process was it that gave you the "Ohh it's actually happening/real!" Moment? I'm finding I haven't had it and it's like it isn't happening. Can't seem to shake it!

How did you know what style of wedding you wanted? How did you decide on all the big and small details? Where did your vivid, beautiful vision of your day come from? Everyone seems to have such...

What is yours? Long or short? If it's short, was there a reason you chose that? Have you ever wished you had more time to plan? Did you find it stressful? If long, did you have a reason? Do you ever...

What is a popular wedding trend that you, personally, don't like? For me it's the whole mason jar and burlap thing and the "Mr. Right Mrs. Always Right" themes. The jars can look pretty but for me...

How did you guys come up with your budgets? We're having a small, 20-30 person wedding and are having a hard time figuring out what a reasonable budget is for this size. Any suggestions?

I wanted to get married on like a random Tuesday, in the morning, with a brunch to follow. I have no idea why, just a weird quirk, I guess. But I've had to settle for a Friday. Anyone having a weekday...

Am I the only one who finds planning kinda sad and disappointing? We have no one who is excited with us. We have no friends who are all giddy and happy and excited. We have no family that way, either....

Has anyone had/having a small, backyard wedding? We have considered it heavily as we have so fre people that matter to us. We'd love some real life experiences. What did you like about it? What was...

Hey all! Am I the only one who has second guessed everything? Like nothing about this wedding we're planning feels right to me. It feels so forced from the colours to the guest list and even the date....

So we have decided to plan our wedding for December 28th 2019. We are JUST at a year!!! We have our venue booked and they take care of catering. Next we want to book our officiant and photographer....

Are there any couples getting married December 28th 2019? We've chosen to push back from September to December and are curious if anyone else shares the date! We're in Ontario.

So we were planning for a September 13th 2019 wedding and we sent out save the dates. Unfortunately we've been through some things since then and we aren't as financially or emotionally stable as we...

Winter weddings are SO gorgeous. Any December/January/February 2019 brides? We're looking at moving to a winter wedding instead of the originally planned fall wedding just to be a little different....

What are your colours? How did you come up with your colour pallette? Did you always know what you wanted? Is it a seasonal thing? Anything special that sparked your choices? I need some inspiration!...

Those things are impossible to find in my area!! I'm in Belleville, Ontario. Does anyone have any suggestions on where to rent them? We are totally willing to travel to the GTA if need be.

We hit the 365 mark yesterday! We have nothing done but our rings on layaway and have to go pay the deposit for the hall this week. I figured I'd be stressing by this point but I'm taking a super...