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The wedding reception is where the party really starts. It’s where you and your guests will celebrate your “I dos” with drinking, dancing, mixing and mingling. Find out how to choose the best venue for you, how to decorate it, and of course, how to choose the menu.

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Mickayla
Idea's for games at the reception.
Mickayla, On November 3, 2022 at 17:13

I'm looking for ideas that we can use for games at the reception. I'm not wanting *clinking* of the glasses to get the couple to kiss. My older brother and his wife did that you have to tell a story...

CarmenTupOM, sunday 6-Nov-22 3 160
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Drink costs
Frankie, On October 30, 2022 at 09:03

Hi everyone! I’m trying to figure out what is acceptable range is for the cost of drinks. My venue is offering:- $11 per ticket for drink tickets- $38 per bottle for red/white wine...

Hank, monday 31-Oct-22 2 97
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Anyone else skipping their reception?
Chantelle, On October 12, 2022 at 19:34

After looking the past few days at reception venues I’m starting to think, is this really necessary for my wedding? I’m having a small wedding In the mountains and considering just doing something fun...

Liberty, thursday 13-Oct-22 10 106
Amanda
Wedding Favors - Yay or Nay?!
Amanda, On September 19, 2022 at 18:39

Are you giving all of your guests a favor to take home? If so, tell us what you're giving to your guests as a thank you! Or does the food, booze, and festivities cover it for you? My husband and I...

Rebecca, monday 10-Oct-22 33 263
Jacquie
Kid friendly? Or not kid friendly?
Jacquie, On September 29, 2022 at 14:34

Hi all! So we’re getting married next year, on a Monday. It’s a very unpopular decision on my man’s side of the family. (I also don’t care) it’s mostly unpopular because it’s a school night. Most of...

Rebecca, monday 10-Oct-22 12 236
Sara
Update
Sara, On September 29, 2022 at 09:16

I already have my venue !! Appreciate everyone telling me to get on it but just letting people know the venue or dress or caterers are not any concern for my day - this is a very informal simple...

Carine, tuesday 4-Oct-22 4 77
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Evening reception
Allison, On September 28, 2022 at 12:30

We have been playing with the idea of having an evening reception with hors d'oeuvres and a midnight snack. We would have a small ceremony with just immediate family members and dinner with them. We...

Allison, thursday 29-Sep-22 6 88
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Keep or skip: bouquet and garter toss?
Carine, On September 19, 2022 at 11:40

What tradition are you keeping or skipping? We are doing the bouquet toss and skipping the garter toss as my Fiance doesn't want to do it.

KELLY, tuesday 20-Sep-22 21 135
Danielle
First Dance
Danielle, On July 19, 2022 at 19:27

What was/is going to be your first dance song and how did you choose it? We went back and forth on a few - Lyrics were really important to us. We thought we had picked one then Callum Scott released...

Ashleigh, monday 19-Sep-22 19 291 1
Rachel
Bartender tip jar and added gratuity?
Rachel, On February 25, 2022 at 11:20

Hi! Is it common for there to be an automatic 20% gratuity AND tip jars for the bartenders? We're having an open bar, so I don't expect that a lot of people will have cash on them. The company we're...

Kate, monday 19-Sep-22 3 231
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Destination Wedding
Alexa, On September 15, 2022 at 20:19

Hi there, I’m so lost and confused. So I have family in Mexico as my mother is from there. So I’m hoping to have one in Cancun (where most of them reside) but hotel requires 80% of guest to stay with...

Hank, saturday 17-Sep-22 2 60
Julie
Cocktail Hour Music - dj or Pianist?
Julie, On September 12, 2022 at 14:46

Our wedding ceremony/reception is in one place. Our package includes a pianist for the ceremony and/or cocktail hour. FH wants the DJ during the cocktail hour but I say, does it matter?? Not like...

Julie, friday 16-Sep-22 19 157
Jessica
Late night limo pick-up?
Jessica, On September 12, 2022 at 13:13

Hi all, What is your plan for your ride home after your wedding? Are you having a limo service or private car pick up you? Cab? Our limo service charges $250 to pick us up at 1:00am and to drop...

KELLY, wednesday 14-Sep-22 6 137
Angélique
How much does an open bar cost?
Angélique, On September 12, 2022 at 16:55

We’re getting married here in Vancouver next month. We’re scheduled to meet with our venue coordinator this weekend discuss to food and beverage breakdowns. We wanted to know approximately how much we...

Stephanie, tuesday 13-Sep-22 4 7,303
Jacquie
Reception at a church hall
Jacquie, On September 8, 2022 at 20:28

Hi all! Has anyone been to a wedding with the reception inside a church Hall? Like, without sound horrible, does it look okay? Like for dancing/eating/speeches/drinks? I’ve never been to one inside a...

Hank, sunday 11-Sep-22 5 122
Jacquie
Food
Jacquie, On September 9, 2022 at 18:05

Hi all! So we’re having our wedding next October and everything is basically taken care of and booked except for the food. Any tips or opinions on what kind of price range I should keep it in? Less...

Hank, sunday 11-Sep-22 3 72
Kate-Lynn
Seating chart
Kate-Lynn, On September 6, 2022 at 18:44

Where did you get your seating chart printed recently? I have a template that I got. Now I just need to find somewhere to print it. I dont see any foam boards at staples and vistaprint is crazy...

KELLY, thursday 8-Sep-22 6 94 1
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Length of time to allow for dinner
Derek, On September 3, 2022 at 01:21

Our wedding is just over 3 weeks away. The reception is starting at 6:30 pm and is a sit-down buffet dinner. We want to allow time enough for everyone to eat, obviously, before starting speeches and...

Rachay, thursday 8-Sep-22 9 143 1
Micaela
Cocktail Drinks!!!
Micaela, On August 30, 2022 at 19:18

My fiancé and I are planning on serving personalized cocktails during the reception. What cocktails are you serving to your guests? We would love to hear your ideas!

Julie, thursday 8-Sep-22 11 80
Amy
Car service for leaving your venue
Amy, On September 6, 2022 at 14:58

At the end of our wedding we are wanting to have a car come and pick my then husband and myself up, but everywhere is quoting us very high because it is a minimum 3 hour time slot. Any suggestions? We...

Carine, wednesday 7-Sep-22 4 82 1
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Bathroom Baskets
Tiffany, On August 31, 2022 at 11:48

Hello beautiful people!!! Just wondering if anyone did bathroom baskets and what you put in them? I am debating wether it is worth doing....I am on the fence. I know when I have attended weddings...

Teresa, wednesday 7-Sep-22 19 243 2
Victoria
Signature Drinks Named After Dog
Victoria, On August 25, 2022 at 16:18

So my fiancé and I are huge dog people. Our entire lives revolved around our 3 dogs, but unfortunately 2 of them have recently passed. I wanted to make our signature drinks after our dogs, but my...

Carine, tuesday 6-Sep-22 6 219
Meghan
Cake Flavours
Meghan, On August 29, 2022 at 11:03

Hey all, what are or did you choose for cake flavours! I just got sent a list of flavours to choose from and I just can’t decide. All I know is that I don’t want chocolate haha! Here’s a list I...

Carine, tuesday 6-Sep-22 13 106
Emily
Signature Cocktails
Emily, On August 29, 2022 at 16:48

Hi everyone! Now that I have gone to quite a few weddings this summer, I’ve loved seeing what everyone has created as their unique signature cocktails. What kind of signature drinks did you have/will...

Carine, tuesday 6-Sep-22 5 107
Micaela
Alcohol Costs
Micaela, On August 30, 2022 at 10:05

Hey everyone! How are you handling costs for your bar? My fiance and I want to stay within our budget to make sure our guests will have a great time. We were thinking of having an open bar from...

Carine, tuesday 6-Sep-22 9 178
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Wedding food
Gracia, On July 7, 2020 at 19:31

Is there such a thing as a bring your own food wedding ( well I mean I have alot of Amazing cooks in the family that to save some money I would rather buy food and then cook it at home then bring it...

Zorro, wednesday 31-Aug-22 6 207
Amanda
Wedding Cake
Amanda, On August 14, 2022 at 19:55

This is our wedding cake that Kakes By Kathie made for our big day!! Highly recommended her if you're n the Okanagan area! Best cake I have ever tasted!!

Amanda, monday 22-Aug-22 11 113
Stevie
Air Bnb Reception?
Stevie, On August 17, 2022 at 15:29

Hi friends, Congrats to everyone on their engagements! We are having a small ceremony (20 guests) and we’re considering having a reception to follow at a local Air BnB (up to 30 guests). We found a...

Stevie, saturday 20-Aug-22 12 149
Ashley
Laptop dj
Ashley, On August 18, 2022 at 13:29

Wondering what the experiences are for using a laptop with speakers and spotify playlist vs hiring a DJ Did not having a DJ take away anything from the experience? Did the guest still dance and enjoy...

Hank, friday 19-Aug-22 6 110 2
Carlie
Appetizer wedding gift money amount
Carlie, On July 30, 2022 at 11:21

Hey everyone! I'd like to hear from the brides/grooms that had an appetizer wedding (no sit down meal, just apps/snacks) and how much money their guests gave or what you would recommend? I'm already...

Eric, friday 19-Aug-22 6 528
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Bride & Groom toast ?
Alyx, On August 15, 2022 at 18:16

Are any brides doing a thank you toast/speech with your groom? We’ve decided to do one! BUT we are having a huge debate about it lol. My fiancé thinks it should be short thank everyone in summary....

Darbi, thursday 18-Aug-22 10 207 1
Alma
Cake in Canmore?
Alma, On August 16, 2022 at 16:56

I’m getting married in Canmore on July 15, 2023 and planning from Calgary for 70. I’ve been searching for a wedding cake vendor, but the only one I am seeing is Kake and I would like other options....

Malyssa, wednesday 17-Aug-22 7 97

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