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Katie
Engagement Party Q's
Katie, On June 25, 2021 at 15:23

Hi all! Got engaged in late May, and are hoping things in Ontario are open enough in Aug/Sept for an outdoor engagement party of about 75-100. Two questions: One, any outdoor venues or patios for us...

Hank, friday 25-Jun-21 8 97 1
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Week of the Wedding
Hank, On June 21, 2021 at 17:24

On the week leading up to your wedding, how many appointments and events do you have to attend? For example, you might have a ceremony rehearsal and rehearsal dinner to thank your bridal party. You...

Amanda, friday 25-Jun-21 9 169
Diana
Gratuity?
Diana, On June 24, 2021 at 19:59

Hey there! Okay, I am about to host a bridal shower this Sunday. It was originally supposed to be hosted at a cafe, but because of covid, we are doing a drive-by shower in my backyard. The cafe I've...

Hank, friday 25-Jun-21 6 100
Stacey Tc
Most memorable date
Stacey Tc, On June 21, 2021 at 13:46

Let's take a break from wedding talk. What is one of your most memorable dates during your relationship? I'll go first! For my 30th birthday (a couple of years ago) my S.O planned for the two of us...

Amanda, thursday 24-Jun-21 13 106
Michelle
Flower girl and ring bearer proposal
Michelle, On June 21, 2021 at 11:04

Hello, I’m wondering what is a nice way to ask your flower girl (6yo) and ring bearer (8yo) to be in the wedding party (they are siblings) I know I need to ask the parents first to get approval but...

Vinod, wednesday 23-Jun-21 4 80
Courtney
Registry
Courtney, On June 20, 2021 at 09:10

When does the registry start? I am trying to find ways to save money for the wedding not sure what to do. When do I start a registry

Hank, monday 21-Jun-21 4 107
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Bridesmaid proposal ideas
Pritika, On May 20, 2021 at 00:01

Hey brides to be, I’m getting married next year June and looking for bridesmaid proposal ideas!

Mandy, saturday 19-Jun-21 16 194
Lynne
Save-the-date, actual date?!
Lynne, On June 11, 2021 at 15:39

Hi fellow brides/grooms-to-bes! Can we send save-the-date cards if we don't have our date set in stone or a venue booked? We have a date we would LIKE the wedding but things can change depending on...

Jasmine, tuesday 15-Jun-21 14 230
Abbie
Bits and Bobs for Weddings
Abbie, On June 12, 2021 at 19:13

So, I find the more I read, the more things I discover I might need on our wedding day. What are some less obvious “bits and bobs” you’ve picked up for your wedding? These are some of the things I’ve...

Tunisha, monday 14-Jun-21 20 211 1
Gloria
Bachelorette ideas
Gloria, On May 26, 2021 at 12:40

Okay- so my sister in law is getting married in July. She doesn’t have a bridal party so me and my other sister in law are thinking of doing something small. What have others done for bachelorette...

Melissa, monday 7-Jun-21 10 262
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Cute, woodland photobooth prop/masks
Lilo, On June 6, 2021 at 14:18

Hi there! I'm wondering if anyone has suggestions on where I can get props (either already made, or ready to print at home) like these below:...

Lilo, sunday 6-Jun-21 2 63
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Is anyone getting married without a formal proposal?
Miao Miao, On February 1, 2019 at 03:07

Hi everyone, Has anyone getting married without a formal proposal? Do you guys have mutual discussion about marriage? how did the conversation even started ? I have always thought about getting a...

Anonymous, sunday 6-Jun-21 12 3,486
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Engagement Party and photos during Covid for wedding in July 2023
Kayla, On May 25, 2021 at 22:35

Hello Future Brides! I am currently planning for a July 2023 wedding and curious to know when others are planning to schedule the engagement photo session? Is fall 2021 to early? Spring 2022? Also...

Amanda, thursday 3-Jun-21 11 179
Stefanie
Virtual/drive by showers
Stefanie, On May 14, 2021 at 00:13

Those that are doing this type of shower who do you plan to invite? Seems with restrictions in place I assume a smaller wedding etc. What are your plans for this event. I am looking we possibilities...

Niki, wednesday 2-Jun-21 7 161
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Favorite Holiday
Amanda, On May 26, 2021 at 12:51

Is there a certain holiday that you and your significant other really enjoy spending that quality time together ? For my fiance and I we really enjoy Christmas. It's the one holiday that we're able to...

Amanda, tuesday 1-Jun-21 19 170
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Anxiety over Bridal Shower
Heather, On May 31, 2021 at 12:21

Hello ladies, My wedding is in August and my fiances mothers cousin is throwing my bridal shower. I thought it a bit odd and confusing, since she doesnt know me. I have only met her once for a brief...

Christiana, monday 31-May-21 3 152
Melanie
Is it too early?
Melanie, On May 13, 2021 at 23:44

I am getting married next summer, and was wanting to do my bridesmaid/moh proposals in the next couple of days. Is it too early? I know it’s still a little over a year away, but I’m certain the girls...

Amanda, sunday 30-May-21 17 323
Megan
Anyone else feeling this way?
Megan, On November 23, 2020 at 15:50

I don't know about you guys but I feel really discouraged about wedding planning. We have it planned for next summer and we are going to get married regardless of limitations but I just am a bit sad...

Megan, thursday 27-May-21 54 1,457 5
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Bridal party thank yous
Devrie, On May 26, 2021 at 15:41

So, with all the issues with covid my fiance and I have decided to cancel our wedding and are doing a ceremony at town hall with just his parents. We both got too overwhelmed with all the planning and...

Caitlyn, wednesday 26-May-21 6 95
Tunisha
Let us share our Proposal Stories!
Tunisha, On May 20, 2021 at 01:43

Hello Bride-to-be and Groom-to-be, We are facing some challenging times at the moment. But let’s think and reminisce about the time we said “Yes, I will marry you!” Share your proposal/engagement...

Brianna, tuesday 25-May-21 18 185
Haylee
Covid Wedding: Invitation Stress
Haylee, On May 21, 2020 at 07:54

We're almost 2 months out from our date. I've spent the past week getting my invitations ready (paper invites printed from Staples, the rest completely DIY). We're only sending them out to extended...

Richi, saturday 22-May-21 13 361
Deanna
Opinions on myregistry.com?
Deanna, On May 14, 2021 at 17:20

Hi! Just wondering if anyone has had experience and opinions to share on using myregistry.com. I have been thinking about where to register and there are so many good options. I like that...

Michelle, monday 17-May-21 5 110
Kristen
Changing Maiden Name to Middle Name?
Kristen, On January 25, 2019 at 15:42

Hello fellow brides, Are you ladies planning on taking your maiden name as your middle and assuming your fiances name as your new last name? This is what I am looking to do (therefore, I would have 4...

Lauren, thursday 13-May-21 8 1,773
Victoria
Newly Engaged - Celebrate?
Victoria, On May 7, 2021 at 11:20

So you just got engaged. How did you tell your parents? How did you celebrate? Did you just pop champagne and cake? Nice dinner? Did your parents gift you or your fiancé an engagement gift? My mom is...

Victoria, thursday 13-May-21 14 151
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Is it a good or bad idea to do forest engagement photos if you're planning on getting married in a forest?
TaylorB, On May 5, 2021 at 23:41

Hi everyone! I am newly engaged and trying to plan out my engagement photos for late spring/early summer. The area I am looking at is a bluffs area with a beach AND a forest. My fiance and I have...

Amelia, wednesday 12-May-21 6 78
Olivia
Email invitations
Olivia, On April 24, 2021 at 20:10

I am looking at going paperless for our invitations. Has anyone done this? If so what site/app did you use? Thanks!

Jennifer, sunday 9-May-21 4 117
Abigail
E-save the Dates
Abigail, On April 20, 2021 at 15:46

Hey guys! Wanting to get some suggestions on how to send out e-save the dates. I have a simple design for it, but I wanted to send it out to look nice and I wanted to use this chance for people to...

Kelsey, saturday 8-May-21 6 331 1
Victoria
Engagement Celebration
Victoria, On May 4, 2021 at 19:20

Hi everyone - how did your parents/caregivers celebrate the news of your engagement during these lockdowns?

Kelsey, friday 7-May-21 3 73 1
Bethany
Going forward with wedding ceremony
Bethany, On May 4, 2021 at 16:07

My fiance and I have been bittersweet about all of the restrictions and changes we have had to make to our wedding. We have separated our ceremony and reception, and keep moving the date of the...

Bethany, thursday 6-May-21 4 186
Liberty
Registy Ideas
Liberty, On May 3, 2021 at 22:22

Hello Everyone! My Fiancé and I have started working on our registry this week! What is something you think is a registry must?If you are already married, what is something you wish you had on your...

Christiana, tuesday 4-May-21 8 110
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Show Us Your Proposal!
Hank, On November 11, 2020 at 17:29

I proposed to my fiancee last year during on anniversary. It marked our 5th anniversary so it was a good time to pop the question but I also wanted it to be a surprise and let's face it, doing it on...

Katerina, tuesday 4-May-21 30 447 1
Cockerton
Ideas for Wedding Blog?
Cockerton, On December 8, 2019 at 22:55

I am keen to use the wedding blog on the website to create a dialogue leading up to the wedding date. What are some ideas you have done for the blog? I have put on an entry about choosing our venue,...

Mary, saturday 1-May-21 6 93

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