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Beginner August 2021 Ontario

Bridal party thank yous

Devrie, on May 26, 2021 at 15:41 Posted in Before the wedding 0 6
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So, with all the issues with covid my fiance and I have decided to cancel our wedding and are doing a ceremony at town hall with just his parents. We both got too overwhelmed with all the planning and replaning with all of the restictions. We don't have a date set, and will be doing it whenever we get a chance.



I had already gotten my bridesmaids little gifts, so I will still be sending these gifts plus thank you notes to them (as some of them live in other provinces). I need advice on thank you notes. Writing is not my strong suit and I am not an emotional person, I do not feel comfortable telling people what they mean to me, so this is making it even more difficult. Any advice is welcome.

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Latest activity by Caitlyn, on May 26, 2021 at 22:41
  • Caitlyn
    Frequent user September 2021 Alberta
    Caitlyn ·
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    When I was writing my bridesmaids proposal cards, what I found helped me a lot was doing a "rough draft" in my notes on my phone. I find that sometimes when you try and put pen to paper, your mind completely blanks and you can't think of what to write. Doing this rough draft made it so I had time to gather my thoughts and write something heartfelt to each of my bridesmaids, and once I was satisfied with what I had I then wrote it in their cards.
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  • Liberty
    VIP May 2022 Alberta
    Liberty ·
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    Maybe look for a poem that you feel relates to how you feel about them and write that as a thank you note.
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  • D
    Beginner August 2021 Ontario
    Devrie ·
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    The thing is, because we had to pause everything thing last year with the first postponement, I have not had them help with anything as we just stopped planning all together for a full year. And now none of them are invited as we are keeping it family only. I have not had any bridal showers or any events (my choice, I hate those things). So all they have really done up to this point is say yes to being part of the wedding.
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    Beginner August 2021 Ontario
    Devrie ·
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    It's not open yet, we are hoping it will open at some point this summer. They also provide outdoor ceremonies in the gardens outside the building. So hoping they will start doing that.
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    Master September 2021 Ontario
    Hank ·
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    Instead of writing what they mean to you, you can thank them for specific things like a task they took on, support they provide you, etc. And maybe your fiance can help with the wording.
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    Master September 2021 Ontario
    Hank ·
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    Is the town hall open for wedding ceremonies? Most government buildings are not open for these services based on what I find.
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