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The wedding reception is where the party really starts. It’s where you and your guests will celebrate your “I dos” with drinking, dancing, mixing and mingling. Find out how to choose the best venue for you, how to decorate it, and of course, how to choose the menu.

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Francesca
How much Alcohol?
Francesca, On October 19, 2020 at 15:35

Hi all! Due to all the changes with COVID we have had to change our wedding plans numerous times. We have finally settled to having a backyard wedding with 20 people (parents, grandparents and...

Marg, tuesday 20-Oct-20 3 186
Charlotte
First dance song suggestions!
Charlotte, On October 8, 2020 at 21:19

We have not decided on our first dance song yet! We both love country music so I’d like it to be that genre 😊 What suggestions do you have?

Charlotte, monday 19-Oct-20 10 861
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Party crew instead of a wedding party?
Marc, On October 15, 2020 at 23:52

I've been thinking of having two long tables of friends who mean a lot to us at our reception to bypass the formal wedding party selection. Possibly asking the women to wear a specific colour and...

Amelia, monday 19-Oct-20 4 412
Mtlbride
Guestbook?
Mtlbride, On August 27, 2018 at 09:39

Are you doing a traditional guestbook? Something else? Share your ideas!

Mary, sunday 18-Oct-20 33 486
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Options for Interactive live music at reception?
Marc, On October 17, 2020 at 22:25

Hi my venue is too small for a full band so we decided on a DJ and want a live music option. Preferably someone who can jam out to popular songs on the dancefloor with our guests.

Hank, saturday 17-Oct-20 1 66
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Wedding Cake Flavours
Hank, On October 14, 2020 at 19:41

Tell me about your wedding cake flavours! Not the colour or decoration but what it actually tastes like. Why did you pick that flavour? Did you taste a bunch before deciding? Did you get one flavour...

Jasmine, friday 16-Oct-20 13 170 1
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Vegetarian options
James, On September 29, 2020 at 07:32

Hi y’all , One thing I’m finding in venue shopping is that lots of places don’t seem to have vegetarian options on their menu. Most do refer to the ability to get something vegetarian, but I feel like...

Vinod, wednesday 14-Oct-20 6 124
Amanda
Who gets to speak?
Amanda, On September 29, 2020 at 09:54

Hi to all Brides & Grooms, Wondering who YOU are allowing to say a speech at your wedding? Will you be letting your parents speak? MOH & BM, maybe siblings, uncles, grandparents? What have you...

Vinod, wednesday 14-Oct-20 27 371
Amanda
Seating arrangement
Amanda, On October 10, 2020 at 09:01

Hi guys so I'm trying to figure out some logistical issues. My guest #s will be between 40-48 ppl depending on my final count I won't know until next year. I want to have either a family style dinner...

Hank, sunday 11-Oct-20 1 101
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Liquor License or Special Event Permit
Sarina, On May 15, 2018 at 12:36

We are having our reception at Cammidge House, a heritage house we are renting for the day, and I would like to know how to handle the serving of the alcohol. If we can't just buy our own and let...

Rachael, sunday 11-Oct-20 7 3,275
Sara
Wedding Cake!
Sara, On September 17, 2020 at 10:23

Hello Ladies! I met with a bakery in Ontario yesterday to discuss wedding cake and the price I was quoted absolutely SHOCKED me. The cake we envisioned is very simple, two tiers, 8" with 6" on top....

Jennifer, thursday 8-Oct-20 27 1,135
Amanda
Wedding Venue Cost
Amanda, On September 3, 2020 at 20:19

Hi guys does this seem like too much to spend on just a venue I'm green to wedding planning but from what I'm reading I'm not sure if this is a good package or not .

Jasmine, wednesday 7-Oct-20 49 957
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Video Screens for Your Virtual Wedding
Hank, On October 2, 2020 at 03:48

Has anyone seen the new set up on the Kelly Clarkson Show? Imagine all these giant monitors each for a special guest to be there "in-person" for your big day. You can see them and they can dance along...

Joey, tuesday 6-Oct-20 2 77
HauntedHeartBrides
Wedding Cake Topper: Taboo?
HauntedHeartBrides, On September 29, 2020 at 14:27

Hi! My fiancé and I are planning a witch's ball wedding and we have been going over different decoration ideas. We want it classy and elegant and not looking like a Halloween party, but we still like...

HauntedHeartBrides, thursday 1-Oct-20 10 206
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Beer vs Wine?
Hank, On September 22, 2020 at 19:26

If covid persists, we're cutting our open bar (no point since it'll be a shorter party, there's no dancing and cocktail hour). We're debating if we would prefer bottles of wine at the table so guests...

Amelia, wednesday 23-Sep-20 10 172
Jess
Tipping florist?
Jess, On September 19, 2020 at 22:45

We are 21 day’s away (hopefully anyway!). I was about to pay the invoice for my florist as it is due this week and there is an option to leave a tip. I hadn’t even thought of this and now unsure what...

Vanessa, tuesday 22-Sep-20 10 213
Nicole
Question re: photography & dinner
Nicole, On August 27, 2020 at 16:11

Hi everyone! I have the most ridiculous question. We have booked a photographer for full day photography (getting ready all the way through to one/two hours into dancing aspect of reception). My...

Jasmine, thursday 17-Sep-20 17 272
Michelle
Let’s see your inspiration photo!
Michelle, On September 16, 2020 at 20:48

Just for fun! Planning during covid has been so stressful.......would love to see some pictures! So.........ladies (and gents) drop the ONE inspiration photo (I know, we all have a crazy amount of...

Michelle, thursday 17-Sep-20 17 379
Lynnie
Green or Red Light: Top Table?
Lynnie, On March 9, 2020 at 09:05

Will you and your wedding party have front row seats at a head table at your reception? Or have you decided on a sweetheart table, or another seating selection? Are you giving the green light to a...

Amanda, wednesday 16-Sep-20 28 206
Desiree
Toonie bar
Desiree, On September 15, 2020 at 11:23

What are people’s thoughts on a toonie bar? If you did a toonie bar was it a success or a fail

Charlotte, wednesday 16-Sep-20 7 1,185
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a Reporter Showed Up At My Wedding This Past Weekend
Slma, On September 14, 2020 at 19:00

We had a beautiful Banff wedding planned for this winter. We cancelled with the intention of rescheduling. That lasted for about 2 days before we decided just to get married. We planned everything in...

Kl, tuesday 15-Sep-20 8 213
Lynnie
Green or Red Light: Table Names?
Lynnie, On March 9, 2020 at 09:05

Table names are a fun reception trend, and an easy way to get creative with your theme! What's your take on using table names instead of standard table numbers? Are you giving table names a green or...

Julia, tuesday 15-Sep-20 25 191
Amanda
Venue that is 2 hours away
Amanda, On August 30, 2020 at 12:13

I need some advice has anyone chosen a venue that is 2 or more hours away how do you go about catering etc do you find a local caterer or one that will drive to the location this also goes for...

Sharlene, monday 14-Sep-20 12 104
Arexy
Seating chart - alpha order?
Arexy, On September 13, 2020 at 17:21

Hi everyone - I am doing my seating chart by table number. Does each separate section need to be in alphabetical order? Is it alpha order by first or last name?

Vanessa, monday 14-Sep-20 7 553
Élisabeth
Bouquet and garter toss alternatives
Élisabeth, On September 10, 2020 at 22:13

Hi guys! For those of you that chose not to do the traditional bouquet and the garter toss, did you find an alternative? What was it? I’m trying to find something different before deciding to just let...

Amelia, monday 14-Sep-20 15 961
Lynnie
Green or Red Light: Wedding Band?
Lynnie, On March 9, 2020 at 09:05

Live bands can have a big impact on your reception, but they also mean big bucks!! 💰 Have you already decided on a DJ, or are you entertaining thoughts of a live band? Does a live band get your green...

Julia, monday 14-Sep-20 27 180
Lynnie
Green or Red Light: Last Dance?
Lynnie, On March 9, 2020 at 09:05

Are you planning one final private spin with your future spouse to end the reception? Or selecting the perfect song for all your guests to hit the floor for one last dance? Or is this one extra thing...

Julia, monday 14-Sep-20 24 203
Sarah
Meals for Photographers/dj
Sarah, On August 31, 2020 at 10:16

Hi Everyone! I was just curious if others included a plate count for their photographers and DJ. I was going to give them a tip but I wasn’t sure if the standard is to also feed them.

Diana, saturday 12-Sep-20 14 677
Lynnie
Keep or Skip: Cutting the Cake?
Lynnie, On August 7, 2017 at 11:31

Hello everyone! This week we're playing "Keep or Skip" with popular wedding traditions! So... Are you going to cut the cake? Or are you skipping this tradition? Wedding Traditions: Keep or Skip? Photo...

Diana, saturday 12-Sep-20 120 1,623
Kelsey
Wedding Favours?
Kelsey, On July 10, 2020 at 14:49

Hey all! My finacee and I have no idea what to do for wedding favours. My sister gave out sunglasses at her wedding, which nobody took. Another friend had little bookmarks printed up, which were more...

Diana, saturday 12-Sep-20 22 401
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Vegan wedding catering
Leonora, On August 31, 2020 at 13:09

Hi everyone, We’re planning a 100% vegan wedding next year and we were wondering if anyone has any tips or suggestions regarding catering, cake etc . We are not sure if we should have it buffet style...

Kristen, wednesday 9-Sep-20 7 86
Arexy
Seating chart
Arexy, On September 8, 2020 at 21:33

So, what’s everyone doing for a seating chart? I have a limited time frame.

Vinod, wednesday 9-Sep-20 4 127

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