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The wedding reception is where the party really starts. It’s where you and your guests will celebrate your “I dos” with drinking, dancing, mixing and mingling. Find out how to choose the best venue for you, how to decorate it, and of course, how to choose the menu.

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Amanda
Seating arrangement
Amanda, On October 10, 2020 at 09:01

Hi guys so I'm trying to figure out some logistical issues. My guest #s will be between 40-48 ppl depending on my final count I won't know until next year. I want to have either a family style dinner...

Hank, sunday 11-Oct-20 1 80
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Liquor License or Special Event Permit
Sarina, On May 15, 2018 at 12:36

We are having our reception at Cammidge House, a heritage house we are renting for the day, and I would like to know how to handle the serving of the alcohol. If we can't just buy our own and let...

Rachael, sunday 11-Oct-20 7 2,686
Sara
Wedding Cake!
Sara, On September 17, 2020 at 10:23

Hello Ladies! I met with a bakery in Ontario yesterday to discuss wedding cake and the price I was quoted absolutely SHOCKED me. The cake we envisioned is very simple, two tiers, 8" with 6" on top....

Jennifer, thursday 8-Oct-20 27 728
Amanda
Wedding Venue Cost
Amanda, On September 3, 2020 at 20:19

Hi guys does this seem like too much to spend on just a venue I'm green to wedding planning but from what I'm reading I'm not sure if this is a good package or not .

Jasmine, wednesday 7-Oct-20 49 862
Hank
Video Screens for Your Virtual Wedding
Hank, On October 2, 2020 at 03:48

Has anyone seen the new set up on the Kelly Clarkson Show? Imagine all these giant monitors each for a special guest to be there "in-person" for your big day. You can see them and they can dance along...

Joey, tuesday 6-Oct-20 2 73
HauntedHeartBrides
Wedding Cake Topper: Taboo?
HauntedHeartBrides, On September 29, 2020 at 14:27

Hi! My fiancé and I are planning a witch's ball wedding and we have been going over different decoration ideas. We want it classy and elegant and not looking like a Halloween party, but we still like...

HauntedHeartBrides, thursday 1-Oct-20 10 127
Hank
Beer vs Wine?
Hank, On September 22, 2020 at 19:26

If covid persists, we're cutting our open bar (no point since it'll be a shorter party, there's no dancing and cocktail hour). We're debating if we would prefer bottles of wine at the table so guests...

Amelia, wednesday 23-Sep-20 10 163
Jess
Tipping florist?
Jess, On September 19, 2020 at 22:45

We are 21 day’s away (hopefully anyway!). I was about to pay the invoice for my florist as it is due this week and there is an option to leave a tip. I hadn’t even thought of this and now unsure what...

Vanessa, tuesday 22-Sep-20 10 165
Nicole
Question re: photography & dinner
Nicole, On August 27, 2020 at 16:11

Hi everyone! I have the most ridiculous question. We have booked a photographer for full day photography (getting ready all the way through to one/two hours into dancing aspect of reception). My...

Jasmine, thursday 17-Sep-20 17 264
Michelle
Let’s see your inspiration photo!
Michelle, On September 16, 2020 at 20:48

Just for fun! Planning during covid has been so stressful.......would love to see some pictures! So.........ladies (and gents) drop the ONE inspiration photo (I know, we all have a crazy amount of...

Michelle, thursday 17-Sep-20 17 155
Lynnie
Green or Red Light: Top Table?
Lynnie, On March 9, 2020 at 09:05

Will you and your wedding party have front row seats at a head table at your reception? Or have you decided on a sweetheart table, or another seating selection? Are you giving the green light to a...

Amanda, wednesday 16-Sep-20 28 181
Desiree
Toonie bar
Desiree, On September 15, 2020 at 11:23

What are people’s thoughts on a toonie bar? If you did a toonie bar was it a success or a fail

Charlotte, wednesday 16-Sep-20 7 809
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a Reporter Showed Up At My Wedding This Past Weekend
Slma, On September 14, 2020 at 19:00

We had a beautiful Banff wedding planned for this winter. We cancelled with the intention of rescheduling. That lasted for about 2 days before we decided just to get married. We planned everything in...

Kl, tuesday 15-Sep-20 8 208
Lynnie
Green or Red Light: Table Names?
Lynnie, On March 9, 2020 at 09:05

Table names are a fun reception trend, and an easy way to get creative with your theme! What's your take on using table names instead of standard table numbers? Are you giving table names a green or...

Julia, tuesday 15-Sep-20 25 168
Amanda
Venue that is 2 hours away
Amanda, On August 30, 2020 at 12:13

I need some advice has anyone chosen a venue that is 2 or more hours away how do you go about catering etc do you find a local caterer or one that will drive to the location this also goes for...

Sharlene, monday 14-Sep-20 12 93
Arexy
Seating chart - alpha order?
Arexy, On September 13, 2020 at 17:21

Hi everyone - I am doing my seating chart by table number. Does each separate section need to be in alphabetical order? Is it alpha order by first or last name?

Vanessa, monday 14-Sep-20 7 343
Élisabeth
Bouquet and garter toss alternatives
Élisabeth, On September 10, 2020 at 22:13

Hi guys! For those of you that chose not to do the traditional bouquet and the garter toss, did you find an alternative? What was it? I’m trying to find something different before deciding to just let...

Amelia, monday 14-Sep-20 15 499
Lynnie
Green or Red Light: Wedding Band?
Lynnie, On March 9, 2020 at 09:05

Live bands can have a big impact on your reception, but they also mean big bucks!! 💰 Have you already decided on a DJ, or are you entertaining thoughts of a live band? Does a live band get your green...

Julia, monday 14-Sep-20 27 153
Lynnie
Green or Red Light: Last Dance?
Lynnie, On March 9, 2020 at 09:05

Are you planning one final private spin with your future spouse to end the reception? Or selecting the perfect song for all your guests to hit the floor for one last dance? Or is this one extra thing...

Julia, monday 14-Sep-20 24 176
Sarah
Meals for Photographers/dj
Sarah, On August 31, 2020 at 10:16

Hi Everyone! I was just curious if others included a plate count for their photographers and DJ. I was going to give them a tip but I wasn’t sure if the standard is to also feed them.

Diana, saturday 12-Sep-20 14 513
Lynnie
Keep or Skip: Cutting the Cake?
Lynnie, On August 7, 2017 at 11:31

Hello everyone! This week we're playing "Keep or Skip" with popular wedding traditions! So... Are you going to cut the cake? Or are you skipping this tradition? Wedding Traditions: Keep or Skip? Photo...

Diana, saturday 12-Sep-20 120 1,208
Kelsey
Wedding Favours?
Kelsey, On July 10, 2020 at 14:49

Hey all! My finacee and I have no idea what to do for wedding favours. My sister gave out sunglasses at her wedding, which nobody took. Another friend had little bookmarks printed up, which were more...

Diana, saturday 12-Sep-20 22 388
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Vegan wedding catering
Leonora, On August 31, 2020 at 13:09

Hi everyone, We’re planning a 100% vegan wedding next year and we were wondering if anyone has any tips or suggestions regarding catering, cake etc . We are not sure if we should have it buffet style...

Kristen, wednesday 9-Sep-20 7 82
Arexy
Seating chart
Arexy, On September 8, 2020 at 21:33

So, what’s everyone doing for a seating chart? I have a limited time frame.

Vinod, wednesday 9-Sep-20 4 122
Jess
dj for reception with no dancing?
Jess, On September 6, 2020 at 18:33

My wedding is coming up super fast and due to Covid I feel like I’m really planning it all in 1 month. We had hired a DJ but here in Ontario there is no dancing so we decided to only have him for the...

Jess, tuesday 8-Sep-20 8 189
Feya
No catering?
Feya, On June 25, 2018 at 10:18

Am I the only one who thinks catering is a waste? I think I'm going to just order a ton of pizzas from a gourmet pizza place because pizza is a very meaningful food to my fiance and I (we eat it about...

Cara, sunday 6-Sep-20 20 265
Lynnie
What's your Wedding Style? Adults-Only or Kid-Friendly?
Lynnie, On August 13, 2017 at 10:05

Hi everyone!! This week we want to know all about your wedding What style and atmosphere are you going for? Tell us all about it! Will your wedding be.... adults-only or kid-friendly? Adults...

Clare, friday 4-Sep-20 85 494
Stefanie
Center piece and table linens
Stefanie, On August 31, 2020 at 13:11

This is the center piece and the table linens I have to work with through the rental place that deals and with our venue. Unless I provide my own but it's all included in our package. I cannot decide...

Stefanie, tuesday 1-Sep-20 6 148
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Dj/entertainment
Sydney, On August 28, 2020 at 12:50

Hey Everyone!! If you are trying to keep costs down, how are you going about a DJ? I have the option to just rent the equipment and do our own music or get a DJ with that too... what would you do?...

Megan, sunday 30-Aug-20 6 128
Stephanie
Bar packages
Stephanie, On August 27, 2020 at 12:44

We initially were thinking about doing a $2 bar, so our guests would pay $2 and we would cover the rest. But with the uncertainty of who will drink and who won’t and how much they will...

Vinod, friday 28-Aug-20 16 380
Caitlyn
Planning the Seating Plan
Caitlyn, On August 26, 2020 at 20:31

One of the final details that we had to organize for the wedding was how we were going to seat guests. We knew we wanted to assign tables, but let guests choose their seats at their assigned table....

Kl, thursday 27-Aug-20 5 122
Elizabeth
Wedding reception timeline worries
Elizabeth, On August 23, 2020 at 22:36

Hey Everyone! I’ve only been planning my wedding timeline for a hot minute now, (been engaged for only a month), and I’ve always imagined having a later ceremony/reception, but I was met with a lot of...

Vinod, wednesday 26-Aug-20 6 171

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