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The wedding reception is where the party really starts. It’s where you and your guests will celebrate your “I dos” with drinking, dancing, mixing and mingling. Find out how to choose the best venue for you, how to decorate it, and of course, how to choose the menu.

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Seating chart
Courtney, On December 28, 2020 at 21:19

Hey everyone! I need some help with whether or not to have assigned seating. We aren't having a dinner but there will be appitizers and cocktails with some speeches. Would it make it easier for...

Courtney, monday 28-Dec-20 5 95
Rachel
Venue budget
Rachel, On December 27, 2020 at 09:19

Hey guys! I’m just wondering if there’s anyone who knows of any good deals out the for venue locations! We’re looking to have a small cheaper wedding cause of covid. Thanks!

Hank, sunday 27-Dec-20 2 128
Ashley
dj prices
Ashley, On December 10, 2020 at 21:23

Hi everyone, What is the going rate for a DJ? Our ceremony is outside and reception inside (same property) and our venue is providing a very basic sound system (mics/speakers etc) and would ideally...

Sabrina, monday 21-Dec-20 4 298 1
Emma
Help! Can't find a caterer!
Emma, On November 26, 2020 at 12:27

So, like many others, we have had to cancel our destination wedding and are moving it to home as a backyard wedding in September (10 months away). Every caterer in my area is booked that day and I am...

Emma, thursday 26-Nov-20 11 343
Jade
Wedding Favours...yay or Nay?
Jade, On October 9, 2017 at 14:26

I always end up throwing mine straight in the garbage. I get that it's nice but they seem super wasteful to me. What do we think? J

AVC, monday 23-Nov-20 20 398
Sarah
Catering - Curious whats everyone serving?!
Sarah, On August 29, 2019 at 19:28

We are having a happy hour ( sliders, chicken satay skewers, stuffed mushrooms, veggies, fruit etc) , a simple plated meal (southern fried chicken or salmon) and then late night snacks (corn dogs!!)...

Gelaine, monday 23-Nov-20 23 340
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Decor help
Karli, On November 17, 2020 at 19:19

I need to make these decisions and can't. And now I'm faced with my moms lifesaving/life risking surgery in the morning and have no brain capacity. Heeeeeeellllllllpppppppppp 1.Guest Table - Round...

Hank, tuesday 17-Nov-20 3 90
Felicia
Corkage
Felicia, On November 16, 2020 at 16:30

Hi all! I am in the beginning stages for planning my wedding, and I am curious about the corkage fees. Our venue allows alcohol, but the catering company is the one charging me the corkage fee. Is...

Hank, monday 16-Nov-20 5 244
Marleau
*help* Wedding Songs!
Marleau, On June 14, 2018 at 14:52

My FH and I can’t decide on a 1st dance song let alone the rest of it. I would love to know what you amazing people have done or are doing for 1st dance, mom and son, father daughter, walk down the...

Chris, friday 13-Nov-20 13 994
Gwen
Sweetheart vs head table
Gwen, On November 4, 2020 at 10:50

Hi everyone! Who is going for a sweetheart table at their reception? My fiancé and I are going for a sweetheart table and will be letting our families sit together all in one table or split them in to...

Amelia, friday 6-Nov-20 8 168
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Tell me about your A-typical or Alternative Wedding
GCMcGEE, On April 12, 2020 at 03:04

I need some ideas! We're having a very hard time so far with picking a venue! One major problem we're having is neither of us really enjoy traditional weddings and so we're exploring some alternative...

Krysta, wednesday 4-Nov-20 25 430
Jael
Guests Coming to Ceremony but Not Reception
Jael, On November 1, 2020 at 19:37

Hey guys! So our outdoor ceremony can accommodate all of our original guests (100 people) but due to Covid-19 restrictions our reception can only have 50-60 people. Should I still invite those people...

Alexis, tuesday 3-Nov-20 6 154
Amelia
Cake: cupcakes or tiers?
Amelia, On October 29, 2020 at 10:07

I had no idea that cake could taste different than cupcakes! I had my heart set on cupcakes because I thought it would be quick and easy. Our bakery cake tasting was cupcakes and they were delicious....

Vinod, tuesday 3-Nov-20 6 180
Amanda
Wedding Table Greenery
Amanda, On October 28, 2020 at 11:26

Hi there , can anyone recommend any faux table greenery. I got a quote for live eucalyptus and my jaw dropped . I'd like something that looks real and not cheap. Or if anyone has ideas of other...

Geneviève, sunday 1-Nov-20 12 243 3
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Wedding Tent Advice
Veronica, On October 27, 2020 at 22:25

Has anyone used a tent for their wedding reception? I love the look of these tents below, but have no idea about the cost/setup/other considerations when using a structure like this. I'm hoping that...

Mais, friday 30-Oct-20 7 142
Kim
Do vendors need to be put on seating chart?
Kim, On October 27, 2020 at 12:24

I know that vendors (photographers, DJ, etc) need to be included in your count to the caterer, but do you give them a seat at a table and put on a seating chart? If not, where do they typically eat...

Amanda, tuesday 27-Oct-20 4 2,568
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Fall wedding
Brook, On May 2, 2018 at 22:30

Any ideas for a fall wedding where we can enjoy the colours?

Veronica, monday 26-Oct-20 5 118
Lynnie
Green or Red Light: Wedding Favours?
Lynnie, On March 9, 2020 at 09:05

Wedding favours are an item that keeps coming up for debate when it comes to cutting down on wedding costs! Are you giving guest favours the red light? Or keeping them going? Photo from Baking Up...

Veronica, monday 26-Oct-20 35 292
Marg
More Hygienic/safe Dessert Table Ideas?
Marg, On October 8, 2020 at 10:58

Hi! Fingers crossed we can do our 50ish person (we have a 25 person list too) mostly outdoor wedding in May 2021 with the proper social distancing & other safety measures in place. This one...

Veronica, monday 26-Oct-20 7 368
Nat
Bride&groom table
Nat, On October 20, 2020 at 21:45

Hi I am a little lost on what I want for the reception. Do I want a table with just me and my futur husband or do we want to be sitting with our bridal party? Thanks very much

Amanda, monday 26-Oct-20 11 146
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Food tasting
Linda, On October 22, 2020 at 20:32

Hey when did you have or when are you going to have your food tasting. My venue said they book them for winter months. Im waiting for the food tasting to make our menu and send out invitations. They...

Gloria, sunday 25-Oct-20 11 161
Vanessa
Reception décor and photo inspiration
Vanessa, On October 22, 2020 at 15:47

One of the best parts about planning a wedding is choosing your reception décor! Choosing your table runners, centerpieces, chalkboard signs or any other unique ideas is such a fun time! Show us some...

Stefanie, friday 23-Oct-20 6 127
Kristen
Let them eat cake - Cake Ideas
Kristen, On October 19, 2020 at 16:15

Hey all! I seem to be going in circles in my mind of cake choices! Do I want simple white butter cream on vanilla cake or do I want a multi teared cake with something different like Earl Grey cake...

Tay, tuesday 20-Oct-20 11 123
Francesca
How much Alcohol?
Francesca, On October 19, 2020 at 15:35

Hi all! Due to all the changes with COVID we have had to change our wedding plans numerous times. We have finally settled to having a backyard wedding with 20 people (parents, grandparents and...

Marg, tuesday 20-Oct-20 3 140
Charlotte
First dance song suggestions!
Charlotte, On October 8, 2020 at 21:19

We have not decided on our first dance song yet! We both love country music so I’d like it to be that genre 😊 What suggestions do you have?

Charlotte, monday 19-Oct-20 10 361
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Party crew instead of a wedding party?
Marc, On October 15, 2020 at 23:52

I've been thinking of having two long tables of friends who mean a lot to us at our reception to bypass the formal wedding party selection. Possibly asking the women to wear a specific colour and...

Amelia, monday 19-Oct-20 4 108
Mtlbride
Guestbook?
Mtlbride, On August 27, 2018 at 09:39

Are you doing a traditional guestbook? Something else? Share your ideas!

Mary, sunday 18-Oct-20 33 461
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Options for Interactive live music at reception?
Marc, On October 17, 2020 at 22:25

Hi my venue is too small for a full band so we decided on a DJ and want a live music option. Preferably someone who can jam out to popular songs on the dancefloor with our guests.

Hank, saturday 17-Oct-20 1 64
Hank
Wedding Cake Flavours
Hank, On October 14, 2020 at 19:41

Tell me about your wedding cake flavours! Not the colour or decoration but what it actually tastes like. Why did you pick that flavour? Did you taste a bunch before deciding? Did you get one flavour...

Jasmine, friday 16-Oct-20 13 157 1
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Vegetarian options
James, On September 29, 2020 at 07:32

Hi y’all , One thing I’m finding in venue shopping is that lots of places don’t seem to have vegetarian options on their menu. Most do refer to the ability to get something vegetarian, but I feel like...

Vinod, wednesday 14-Oct-20 6 118
Amanda
Who gets to speak?
Amanda, On September 29, 2020 at 09:54

Hi to all Brides & Grooms, Wondering who YOU are allowing to say a speech at your wedding? Will you be letting your parents speak? MOH & BM, maybe siblings, uncles, grandparents? What have you...

Vinod, wednesday 14-Oct-20 27 364
Amanda
Seating arrangement
Amanda, On October 10, 2020 at 09:01

Hi guys so I'm trying to figure out some logistical issues. My guest #s will be between 40-48 ppl depending on my final count I won't know until next year. I want to have either a family style dinner...

Hank, sunday 11-Oct-20 1 79

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