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The wedding reception is where the party really starts. It’s where you and your guests will celebrate your “I dos” with drinking, dancing, mixing and mingling. Find out how to choose the best venue for you, how to decorate it, and of course, how to choose the menu.

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Maya
Wedding Cake or not?
Maya, On June 26, 2018 at 16:01

So I just found out our venue has a cake handling fee of a $1.50/ person if we serve it right after the meal and $2.50/ person if we serve it later. Why is it seem that all venues just...

Natalie, thursday 19-Jul-18 38 335
Jessie
Photography
Jessie, On July 16, 2018 at 15:57

I have been told by my Venue coordinator that we are not allowed to go off and take pictures around the golf course (which I get if we are in the way of golfers) but she told me I was only allowed to...

Jessie, tuesday 17-Jul-18 16 211
Krista
Not into dancing - need games/entertainment ideas for wedding
Krista, On April 10, 2018 at 15:19

Hey everyone, getting married with close friends and family, and it'll be garden party at a lodge style. We want some ideas for non-dance dominant weddings. Games/idea's to help guests enjoy their...

Michelle, monday 16-Jul-18 9 164
Joey
Let Them Eat Cake! - Fruit vs Chocolate
Joey, On July 9, 2018 at 07:50

The Let Them Eat Cake! quiz will help you identify the wedding dessert of your dreams, so answer our sweet series and make choosing the right dessert a piece of cake!! Do you prefer cakes flavored...

Megann, monday 16-Jul-18 26 144
Joey
Let Them Eat Cake! - Symmetrical vs Asymmetrical
Joey, On July 9, 2018 at 07:53

The Let Them Eat Cake! quiz will help you identify the wedding dessert of your dreams, so answer our sweet series and make choosing the right dessert a piece of cake!! Do you prefer cakes that are...

Megann, monday 16-Jul-18 23 220
Marcia
Sweetheart table vs. Head table for wedding reception
Marcia, On May 31, 2018 at 23:03

Hello Brides! I can't decided whether I want a sweetheart table or a head table for my wedding reception. I think a sweetheart table would be more intimate compared to a head table since we have a big...

Michelle, monday 16-Jul-18 23 1,758
Stephanie
Signature Cocktails!
Stephanie, On July 1, 2018 at 10:40

Hey everyone! I want to see and hear about everyones signature drinks at their wedding! We are doing a starry night theme so our drink will be blue with edible sparkles on top! Pineapple vodka based...

Jessie, monday 16-Jul-18 17 211
Joey
Fireworks!
Joey, On July 4, 2018 at 08:05

Will there be fireworks at your wedding? How about sparklers to brighten up your night? What about pyrotechnics for an extra snazzy statement? If you're incorporating fireworks at your wedding tell us...

Jessie, monday 16-Jul-18 13 372
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Help Me Decorate this Venue
Andrew, On July 7, 2018 at 22:10

Venue Hi Everyone. I could really use some advice for decorating my venue. Our wedding is in mid-September and we're doing it in an old school private club. It's just about the furthest thing from a...

Andrew, sunday 15-Jul-18 9 125
Marcia
What to put on a kids table!
Marcia, On July 11, 2018 at 18:41

Hello Brides! What kind of things should you put on a kids table for a wedding reception? I don’t have any kids yet so I’m not up to date on the latest toys, but I want something fun, affordable, and...

Amanda, saturday 14-Jul-18 25 159
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Big Wedding, Intimate feel
Kathryne, On July 12, 2018 at 15:18

My fiance and I are concerned that we won't get to connect with our honoured guests. Some thoughts we've considered include... - Personally serving our wedding cake to all guests. - Emceeing a game...

Kathryne, friday 13-Jul-18 5 101
Tolu
Buffet or Plated
Tolu, On June 14, 2018 at 05:50

Hey All, I’m still stuck on whether I should have a plated or buffet style for my reception. What are your thoughts? Which do you prefer and why? ANNNNND GO...

Michelle, friday 13-Jul-18 59 367
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Wedding Cake For Evening Reception?
Adam, On July 10, 2018 at 22:03

Has anyone had, having or thought about having cakes for the evening reception? I was looking through an old school friends wedding photos and she had giant cupcakes and had her caterers cut them up...

Stephanie, thursday 12-Jul-18 6 90
Rekramer
To open bar or not to open bar
Rekramer, On April 4, 2017 at 07:16

My partner really wants an open bar, but I'm not sold. Our friends are very enthusiastic drinkers and I'm worried they'll go overboard. I don't want to be cheap, and I want people to have fun. I also...

Caroline, wednesday 11-Jul-18 21 3,616
Christine
Potluck? Yay? or Nay?
Christine, On July 5, 2018 at 01:44

We are not having a very big fancy wedding. We both want it to be so simple. The ceremony is the only part that I want to go all out on. The reception we want as a big party. Nothing formal, no...

Kay, wednesday 11-Jul-18 32 323
Stephanie
Bride and Groom Speech
Stephanie, On July 1, 2018 at 17:29

What is everyone including in their speech? I always thought it was more of a "thank you" but my fiance wants to include more. So, we are each telling our side of the story about how we met (pretty...

Jessie, tuesday 10-Jul-18 11 396
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Cupcake display ideas
Emma, On July 7, 2018 at 12:22

Anyone have any creative ideas for a way to display 60 cupcakes? Right now my onlt idea is to get a 5 tier cupcake stand. Either a round or square one. But i’m trying to think of other ideas then the...

Emma, tuesday 10-Jul-18 5 1,414
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Wedding Lights & Tulle
Michelle, On July 9, 2018 at 13:04

Hi everyone, I bought these lights for my backdrop and realized that they may not be able to be placed with tulle. Can anyone tell me if theyd be safe or not? Hi-Line Vintage Patio String Lights...

Vinod, monday 9-Jul-18 4 94
Cindy
Otello's (oakville) new ownership
Cindy, On May 13, 2018 at 21:22

I had sent an email to our venue, Otello's, a few weeks ago. I didn't get a response and I thought perhaps it's just a busy time as it's wedding season. Well today I went to a shower at this venue and...

Cindy, monday 9-Jul-18 10 1,124
Joey
Buffet or plated?
Joey, On July 3, 2018 at 08:05

What serving style have you chosen for your wedding reception? Which is your fav when you're a guest? Do you love a perfect plate? Or are you all about the buffet?

Phaidra, monday 9-Jul-18 19 152
Julie
first dance songs
Julie, On March 10, 2018 at 12:26

Hello I'm looking for a first dance song - romantic but not cheesy. Maybe a classic? I want it to be unique and different... any suggestions? THANKS XX

Julie, monday 9-Jul-18 11 328
Danielle
Who sets up the reception?
Danielle, On June 15, 2018 at 00:27

Hi all! I'm having a very DIY wedding that Im keeping relatively inexpensive so I don't have a venue that offers set up services. Is this something you could ask Aunts and Uncles/cousins to do? Our...

Phaidra, monday 9-Jul-18 24 254
Marcia
Wedding Entrance
Marcia, On June 26, 2018 at 15:03

Hola !! Just thought I'd share this video. It's one of my favourite wedding entrance inspo's ever! So well executed. What are your wedding entrance plans? MELISSA MOLINARO WEDDING PERFORMANCE

Marina, sunday 8-Jul-18 15 211
Sarah
Harp for the cocktail hour?
Sarah, On July 4, 2018 at 02:28

All of the weddings I've been to, the bride and groom chose to go against live music during the cocktail hour, but our harpist has a wonderful package that includes cocktail hour. Would you have her...

Sarah, friday 6-Jul-18 19 631
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Caterer
Gauvin, On June 22, 2018 at 17:41

Hi, my venue in the west island of Montreal comes with the freedom to hire out for catering. What kind of budget should I expect ? Ideally 3-5 courses, good quality !, about a 100 people. any...

Lynnie, thursday 5-Jul-18 2 66
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Backyard reception
Kelsey, On July 3, 2018 at 12:13

So we are having our wedding reception in my parents backyard. Currently i have a hotel about 7 minute drive blocked but we have thought/talked about just crashing at my parents house the night of the...

Candace, thursday 5-Jul-18 11 117
Alessandra
Center Pieces
Alessandra, On June 29, 2018 at 21:54

I am looking into center pieces and just wondering if anyone has any suggestions about getting them done on a budget.

Jane, wednesday 4-Jul-18 14 204
Shamelle
Help! My venue space feels too small!
Shamelle, On June 30, 2018 at 05:30

The first time I visited my slecred venue, I was told that we could easily fit 150 in the room. We ended up having that exact number rsvp. Now with the wedding approaching, we went to the venue and...

Jane, wednesday 4-Jul-18 16 1,801
Kali
Slideshow apps/websites.. Help!
Kali, On June 30, 2018 at 08:30

I am trying to make a slideshow of photos to play during the reception on the flatscreen TV mounted to the wall. I am not sure if it connects to internet and can play a video off a website. I would...

Stephanie, sunday 1-Jul-18 7 137
Kristina
How to deal with food allergies
Kristina, On June 24, 2018 at 20:49

Hi Guys! The big day is getting close and I am stressing about food allergies and sensitivities. We have about 5 guests who will all be at different tables with food allergies but we aren't having...

Stephanie, saturday 30-Jun-18 10 142
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Choosing Drink Selection
Megis, On June 29, 2018 at 07:30

I have about 30 guests for my wedding. Only about 24 will be drinking. So I don't think an open bar is the best option. I'm not sure how to decide drinks. Yes will will definitely have champagne. But...

Bianca, saturday 30-Jun-18 8 119
Marie-Claire
People joining for the first dance
Marie-Claire, On June 28, 2018 at 12:20

Here's a bit of context first. My fiancé doesn't like dancing nor being the center of the attention. We even considered not having any dance at all, but eventually decided against it partly because we...

Marie-Claire, friday 29-Jun-18 13 1,236

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