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Lynnie
Are you inviting everyone whose wedding you've been invited?
Lynnie, On November 4, 2019 at 09:05

Are you planning on returning the favor for every wedding invitation you've received? What if the wedding was over 5 years ago?? Did those married couples automatically make the guest list, or did you...

Melissa, monday 25-Nov-19 22 130
Sinéad
Are you inviting your parents’ friends?
Sinéad, On November 4, 2019 at 09:05

Do your parents want to invite some of their friends? What do you think about the idea? Are you keeping your guest list intimate or are you extending the invitation to some of their friends too? Are...

Melissa, monday 25-Nov-19 31 202
Sinéad
Are you inviting plus ones?
Sinéad, On November 4, 2019 at 09:05

Have you decided whether you will give your single guests a plus one for your wedding? Do you have a plus one policy? Are you inviting plus ones? Next Question: Are you inviting your parents’ friends?...

Melissa, monday 25-Nov-19 24 594
Sinéad
Are you inviting your co-workers?
Sinéad, On November 4, 2019 at 09:05

Did any of your colleagues get invited to your wedding? Have you thought about inviting your boss? Are you inviting any of your co-workers? Next Question: Are you inviting plus ones? Back to the...

Melissa, monday 25-Nov-19 25 154
Sinéad
Are you inviting extended family?
Sinéad, On November 4, 2019 at 09:05

Where are you drawing the line when it comes to family? Are all your relatives invited? Are your cousins invited? What about your second cousins? Where does it end? Are you inviting all of your...

Melissa, monday 25-Nov-19 22 423
Sinéad
Are you inviting children?
Sinéad, On November 4, 2019 at 09:05

Not inviting children to your wedding can be an easy way to keep your numbers down, but what if that means their parents won’t be able to attend? It can be a tough call to make, and they can look...

Melissa, monday 25-Nov-19 33 269
Cliodhna
Have you ever thought about eloping instead?
Cliodhna, On November 11, 2019 at 09:05

We’ve all been there! 😉 Has there been a point in your planning where you’ve wanted to forgo the wedding plans and simply elope? Have you ever thought about eloping instead? Next Question: Have you...

Melissa, monday 25-Nov-19 28 200
Cliodhna
Are you inviting someone out of obligation?
Cliodhna, On November 11, 2019 at 09:05

The guest list, the guest list, the guest list! You spend hours pouring over it, playing with the numbers, and trying to fit in everyone you want to celebrate with. Is there someone on your list you...

Melissa, monday 25-Nov-19 19 610
Cliodhna
Have you gone over budget?
Cliodhna, On November 11, 2019 at 09:05

Have you accidentally (or intentionally!) overspent on some aspect of planning? Perhaps you decided to upgrade your linens after seeing the selection on offer? Or maybe you thought you had more...

Melissa, monday 25-Nov-19 24 159
Cliodhna
What’s been your least favourite part of planning?
Cliodhna, On November 11, 2019 at 09:05

Planning a wedding is definitely not a walk in the park! If you could hand over one aspect of planning entirely to another person, what would it be? Be honest! What’s been your least favorite part of...

Melissa, monday 25-Nov-19 22 162
Cliodhna
Have you lied to your fiancé(e) during planning?
Cliodhna, On November 11, 2019 at 09:05

We’re not encouraging lying to your partner by any means, but sometimes a little white lie here and there slips out when discussing wedding plans. Maybe you told your fiancé(e) you liked an idea they...

Melissa, monday 25-Nov-19 20 169
Sinéad
When is your wedding date?
Sinéad, On November 18, 2019 at 09:05

The big question! When is your wedding date? Does it have a special significance to your relationship, or is it the date that your dream venue had free? When are you getting married? Next Question:...

Melissa, monday 25-Nov-19 25 190
Vanessa
Inviting Co-workers - who should we invite?
Vanessa, On November 21, 2019 at 07:39

My fiance and I both work for the same company and we are going back and forth on who we should invite to our wedding. I have been here for 12 + years and he has been here for 7+ years so we have made...

Vanessa, friday 22-Nov-19 11 103
Jennifer
Booking vendors
Jennifer, On November 17, 2019 at 21:13

I’ve done quite a bit of reserach but i wanted to hear from people who are married and planned their wedding or people who are planning theirs now. How far in advance did you guys book your...

Natasha, friday 22-Nov-19 27 240
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Indoor photography venues in Hamilton
Patricia, On November 18, 2019 at 17:58

We are getting Married next October and I am looking for a place to do our wedding photos. Because October weather can be so unpredictable we wanted to get an indoor venue for the photos .. hoping...

Cliodhna, friday 22-Nov-19 5 374
Maegan
Can we have two rounds of invites?
Maegan, On November 17, 2019 at 18:37

So my Fh and I have had 2 guestlsits for a while now- the definite and the maybe's (if theres room). We just finished our invites and want to start sending them out to the definite list but were not...

Vinod, thursday 21-Nov-19 7 108
Taylor
How do I blend a bunch of stuff while keeping it tasteful
Taylor, On November 20, 2019 at 20:54

So the color is black. It is giving us almost a gothic romance feel with all the black everywhere. Its very much our taste. We are doing build your own tacos (who doesnt enjoy tacos?!) and cupcakes...

Amelia, thursday 21-Nov-19 5 102
Rachel
Postponing
Rachel, On November 19, 2019 at 14:12

Financial obstacles keep popping up, my car breaking down, etc. So we are thinking of postponing another year. The only deposit we have put down is for the venue but hard not to feel disappointed The...

Veronica, thursday 21-Nov-19 11 156
Polina
Meeting with vendors etiquette
Polina, On November 20, 2019 at 13:51

Hi everybody, it may be a bit weird question but when you meet with vendors in a coffee shop for example do you pay for them, does everybody pay for themselves? I always feel awkward and don't know...

Allison, thursday 21-Nov-19 7 114
K
How to uninvite
Katelyn, On November 19, 2019 at 23:05

So I have come into an issue. Wedding is less than a year away and I just sent out save the date emails (weddings on a long weekend and all MY family is from a different province)... My problem is, is...

Ashley, thursday 21-Nov-19 7 150
Joey
I never thought I would hire _____ for my wedding
Joey, On September 23, 2019 at 08:05

A photobooth? A luxury car? A band AND a dj? Smoke bombs? Fill in the blank with your own answer - I never thought I would hire _____ for my wedding Photo by Ruby Moments Photography & Video in...

Geneviève, wednesday 20-Nov-19 21 153
Cliodhna
Favourite Fall Bouquet?
Cliodhna, On September 30, 2019 at 09:05

Which bouquet is your favourite fall style? Do you love colorful fall flowers or bouquets full of foliage? 🍂 Which bouquet is your favourite? A) Bright fall flowers? Photo from Pinterest B) Lots of...

Geneviève, wednesday 20-Nov-19 33 300
Sinéad
Favourite Fall Colour Palette?
Sinéad, On September 30, 2019 at 09:05

First things first! Wedding colours! Which fall colours are catching your eye? A) Bright pops of orange? Photo by Will Pursell Photo in Burnaby, BC B) Moody burgundy? Photo by Nathan Walker...

Geneviève, wednesday 20-Nov-19 26 144
Cliodhna
One or more photographer?
Cliodhna, On October 14, 2019 at 09:05

Strike a pose! 📷Are you hiring a one or two person photography team? Did a second shooter come as part of your photography package? Will you have one or more photographers? Photo by Absolutely Loved...

Geneviève, wednesday 20-Nov-19 24 170
Lynnie
When did you actually start wedding planning?
Lynnie, On November 12, 2019 at 13:55

How soon after the proposal did you start wedding planning? Did you dive in right away? Did you take some time to just enjoy being engaged first? Did you set a date and then set wedding planning on...

Cristina, tuesday 19-Nov-19 24 333
Susanne
Hair and makeup for wedding?
Susanne, On November 15, 2019 at 21:47

Any suggestions of good hair and makeup artists?

Sinéad, tuesday 19-Nov-19 4 76
Sinéad
How are you capturing your big day?
Sinéad, On November 15, 2019 at 09:05

Have you hired your dream photographer for your wedding day? Have you considered hiring a second photographer? Are you going the whole nine yards and hiring a videographer to catch every moment? How...

Rachael, monday 18-Nov-19 12 112
Sarah
Invitations - names
Sarah, On November 12, 2019 at 15:23

Hi guys - I’m actually not entirely sure if some of my married female friends have changed their last name or not. I already bugged everyone for their addresses now I feel like an idiot if I have to...

Rachael, monday 18-Nov-19 13 253
A
When do you send out invites?
AmyB, On October 9, 2019 at 12:39

I'm getting married May 30 2020 and we are getting deep into wedding planning now! Or trying to, at least! How far in advance do you send out wedding invitations if you aren't sending out Save the...

Maegan, sunday 17-Nov-19 15 586
Mélissa
Invitations
Mélissa, On November 11, 2019 at 12:01

Hello ladies ! I was wondering for the invites are you guys going the old fashion paper invites or are you going with internet invites ( which website?)

Jeff, sunday 17-Nov-19 15 168
Casey
Fall Wedding Style
Casey, On October 15, 2019 at 14:05

I know there were a ton of us on here who are getting married in October, and from talking to all my vendors, Fall is beginning to be the popular season for weddings. Its not super hot like the...

Amelia, saturday 16-Nov-19 25 234
Danielle
Am I being too picky in looking for vendors?
Danielle, On November 14, 2019 at 12:37

When I email a vendor for a pricelist, I typically say "Hi [contact name if available], we're looking for a [vendor type] for our wedding...[blah blah blah]...Thanks, [both names]." The first email...

Vinod, friday 15-Nov-19 13 269

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