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Mental Health Check
Aimerance, On March 2, 2021 at 00:30

We are living through historic times and and it's been very heavy on everyone mentally. As we've hit a year of this pandemic, how is everyone doing? What ways have you found that has helped you stay...

Vinod, thursday 4-Mar-21 8 114
First Look
Darlene, On February 20, 2021 at 17:33

I’m torn on whether I want to do a first look. My photographer suggested it and has gotten so many amazing photos. My soon to be husband is very much on board. It would be nice to have that intimate...

Vinod, sunday 28-Feb-21 16 195
covid Wedding Advice
Morgan, On February 21, 2021 at 21:08

What is something you are glad you did/wished you had/or wouldn't do again?

Vinod, sunday 28-Feb-21 3 176
Would you rather...
Amelia, On February 22, 2021 at 15:13

Anyone up for a little fun? Would you rather: wedding edition! Answer mine and leave a would you rather of your own for the rest of us! Would you rather: realize at the reception that the wrong (lame)...

Vinod, sunday 28-Feb-21 10 182
Unique wedding ideas!
Sarah, On February 15, 2021 at 18:32

What is something unique or different that you had or did at your wedding? Future brides, are you planning anything unique? I recently downloaded tik tok, even though I am definitely over the target...

Shannen, saturday 27-Feb-21 8 174 1
Getting ready outfits, yes or no?
Stefanie, On March 4, 2021 at 11:05

Is anyone not doing getting ready outfits for your bridal party? I cannot decide! Are you doing them or not?

Stefanie, yesterday at 23:30 16 194
Another reschedule, or should we just say screw it and plan anyways?
Shawna, Yesterday at 09:59

When I looked today, our wedding should be 104 days away. Why do I have this feeling this is not going to happen? And then on top of that, it's been a nightmare planning, if we decide to reschedule,...

Hank, yesterday at 21:49 6 107
Open bar vs cash bar
Megan, On March 2, 2021 at 09:39

Hi all! So my fiancé and I have postponed our wedding to April 2022 now and although we don’t plan on changing any aspect of our wedding since it was already planned for this year, I’m having doubts...

Kathryn, yesterday at 09:21 22 379
Destination Wedding 2023?
Karly, On February 22, 2021 at 23:55

Hey Everyone! I am new here and just got engaged on Valentines Day. We have been together 9 years and don't want a big wedding and my fiancé comes from a very large family. I have always wanted a...

Samantha, thursday 4-Mar-21 4 87
Day of coordinator?
Jen, On March 4, 2021 at 08:42

We have narrowed down our venue search to our two favorites and now need to choose! One offers a day of coordinator for a fee. Do we need one? Not entirely sure what they do other than keep us on...

Jen, thursday 4-Mar-21 5 63
Suit time frame
Desiree, On March 1, 2021 at 19:30

How far in advance did everyone purchase or plan to buy their men’s suits before the wedding? We just bought ours and the wedding is in august my fiancé kept saying its to far in advance. but we did...

Vinod, thursday 4-Mar-21 3 93
Kirsty, On March 2, 2021 at 10:24

Do we need real glassware for our outdoor wedding? Or are plastic cups from the bartending company ok? Or should we get glassware to start the evening and transition into plastic? We are doing...

Vinod, thursday 4-Mar-21 7 45
Charger Plates
Madison, On March 2, 2021 at 19:06

I am having a hard time finding a wholesaler that has decent charger plates for a good price. I've been quoted to rent some at $3 per plate but wanted to explore other options. Anyone have...

Vinod, thursday 4-Mar-21 7 99
Torn between Muskoka venues: Severn Lodge and Shamrock Lodge!
TZ, On March 3, 2021 at 20:18

I have two awesome potential venues for fall 2022 which allow for exclusive use for the wedding. My invitee list is around 115 people if everyone brings a plus one, but we know probably 5 people from...

Vinod, thursday 4-Mar-21 2 64
Significant other invite rules
Alexis, On February 28, 2021 at 20:26

I’m curious what everyone’s thoughts are on this. Times are definitely different. Would it be offensive to only include one? We have some good friends who just invited my so to their wedding in person...

Autumn, thursday 4-Mar-21 12 286
Anyone else's parents or family not financially contributing to wedding at all?
TZ, On February 25, 2021 at 12:02

My fiancee and I crunched some numbers the other day after I've been spending the last week contacting venues and making spreadsheets for costs for every little thing for each place. Turns out with...

Sharlene, wednesday 3-Mar-21 17 310
Stylish wedd invitations
Avery, On February 1, 2020 at 23:19

Has anyone ordered invitations from Stylish wedd? I’m very interested but want more recent reviews before ordering. I haven’t been able to find too much online as of yet.

Cendrella, wednesday 3-Mar-21 18 845
Vista Print
Nicole, On February 24, 2021 at 01:25

Hi everyone! We are looking into using Vista Print for our invites. Lots of people seem to say good things about it here. I’ve seen some people say to order postcard size to save money. How do you do...

Krista, wednesday 3-Mar-21 6 111
What does a covid wedding look like?
Emma, On February 26, 2021 at 13:10

While we are waiting to see if we can even get married in September, part of me is averse to the idea of a socially distanced, masked event. For our 40-person wedding, will we even be allowed to hug...

Christiana, tuesday 2-Mar-21 20 516
Two Truths and a Lie
Kelsie, On February 27, 2021 at 22:06

Hey everyone!! Two truths and a lie wedding edition to bring some fun in this week!! I’ll post three statements below for everyone to guess “the lie” and then post three statements in your reply for...

Vinod, tuesday 2-Mar-21 4 83
April 2021 brides: How are y'all feeling? Keep or postponed
Aimerance, On November 22, 2020 at 03:04

Lately I've been having so many mix feelings about my April wedding. I really do not want to postpone but 2021 is looking very uncertain across the board. For now we've decided to wait until the new...

Aimerance, tuesday 2-Mar-21 13 344
Children at Weddings
Maria, On January 17, 2021 at 21:02

Hello! I am having a difficult time deciding whether or not I will be allowing young children at my wedding. I was considering a child age limit (no children under the age of 8)? Any...

Christine, monday 1-Mar-21 15 247
Advice for two dresses
Jillian, On February 28, 2021 at 21:58

Are you doing two dresses? Is your 2nd dress more comfy, and/or sexier than your ceremony dress? What’s the difference between the two. I’m looking for suggestions on when to change into my 2nd dress....

Jillian, monday 1-Mar-21 11 113
Covid Wedding
Devrie, On February 26, 2021 at 15:01

Does a officiant and photographer count towards your attendee numbers if we had an outdoor ceremony in Ontario this summer? We have been able to narrow down our guests to exactly 10 (this is only...

Kristen, monday 1-Mar-21 9 157
Optimal Print
Nicole, On February 25, 2021 at 18:04

Has anyone here used Optimal Print for their wedding invites?

Megi, monday 1-Mar-21 3 47
Postponing for a third time...
April, On February 25, 2021 at 13:18

Hi All, As we start the year in a lock down my fiancé and I have been discussing this for a while, above the wedding must-haves, beyond the dancefloor, the safety of our family and friends is our top...

Amanda, sunday 28-Feb-21 19 462 1
Ceremony Only? Replanning for Covid
Marie, On February 26, 2021 at 16:30

After postponing our original September 13 2020 date to June 13 2020, the covid situation doesn't seem to be looking much better but we don't want to postpone again as we are already in our 30s and...

Alison, sunday 28-Feb-21 11 271
Save the Dates
Laurie-Alex, On February 19, 2021 at 11:09

Hey fellow brides! I’m getting ready to print the save the dates here- I’m not sure that it does matter, but can I print them at like Walmart as a photo or should the be card stock?? TIA! ♥️

Vinod, sunday 28-Feb-21 13 134
Photographer Booked!
Liberty, On February 20, 2021 at 12:36

We booked our photographer today and I am so excited!! Photography is one thing that was really stressing me out because we are on a limited budget and to me photography is one of the most important...

Vinod, sunday 28-Feb-21 8 88 1
Price increase
Taylor, On February 20, 2021 at 16:01

The venue we are looking to book has a great 2022 price, I'm just looking for anyone's experience if they know how much prices increase for the next year, we were originally looking at December 2022...

Vinod, sunday 28-Feb-21 6 131
Guest survey?
Devrie, On February 25, 2021 at 11:43

So I am a 2020 bride,/ that postponed it to Aug 2021. I live in Ontario, but we our venue is in NS. We have come up with a backup plan here in Ontario as well but have to wait to see what wedding will...

Devrie, sunday 28-Feb-21 5 81
Cost of $22,000 outrageous?
TZ, On February 23, 2021 at 11:01

Hi there, My dream venue just got back to me for a wedding and reception in Oct 2022. For 100 guests, they are charging $22,000 for the ceremony and the dinner. This includes use of the indoor...

Vinod, sunday 28-Feb-21 11 289
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