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Lynnie
WeddingWire Admin October 2016 North Carolina

Are you inviting everyone whose wedding you've been invited?

Lynnie, on November 4, 2019 at 09:05 Posted in Plan a wedding 0 22
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Are you planning on returning the favor for every wedding invitation you've received? What if the wedding was over 5 years ago?? Did those married couples automatically make the guest list, or did you make your decision based on your current relationship?


Are you inviting everyone whose wedding you've attended? (Or were invited to!)


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22 Comments

Latest activity by Melissa, on November 25, 2019 at 13:43
  • Melissa
    Devoted September 2021 Ontario
    Melissa ·
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    Yes, but this is not because they invited us we feel we have to invite them. All the weddings we've been to as a couple are either family or close friends so it wasn't a thought not to invite them

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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
    Stephanie ·
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    Since we started dating, yes. But, that’s because we remained friends with them.
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  • A
    Super September 2020 Ontario
    Amelia ·
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    We haven't been to too many weddings but no.

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  • BunnyBride
    Super August 2334 Nova Scotia
    BunnyBride ·
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    Nope, we made our guest list separate from that. The last two couples we went to their weddings are on the list, but one was already asked to be in our bridal party and the other was on the list before we got their STD.

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  • Steph
    Expert June 2022 Ontario
    Steph ·
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    Nope. Just the people we want
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  • Alexandra
    VIP November 2019 British Columbia
    Alexandra ·
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    Yes but only because most of them are family or family friends or in one case a long standing friendship. It was a fluke more than anything

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  • Veronica
    Super October 2021 Alberta
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    Nope! All based on current relationships.

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  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
    Vinod ·
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    Immediate family was invited as we had attended theirs. Anyone we knew were married, single or in a relationship otherwise.

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  • R
    Devoted November 2019 Quebec
    Rebecca ·
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    Kinda of. I do have 2 friends engaged that I invited bc I thought it would be weird if I didnt then I got invited to theirs, but Im glad I invited them anyway I realized I missed them.
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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
    Allison ·
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    Yes, but only because we happened to still be close with everyone lol

    We didn't do it because we were invited to their wedding, but because we wanted them at ours.

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  • Chelsea
    Super June 2020 Alberta
    Chelsea ·
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    Nope! only people who were still close with!
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  • Ashley
    VIP August 2020 Ontario
    Ashley ·
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    NOPE! we have gone to a ton of weddings but we are not inviting all those people to ours.

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  • Michelle
    Expert October 2021 Nova Scotia
    Michelle ·
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    We're the first of our friends to get married so we haven't been to many weddings outside of my family, so this doesn't really apply haha

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  • Casey
    Master October 2019 Ontario
    Casey ·
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    Yes. Its very big with the Italian family that you invite everyone who had invited you to their wedding. Oddly enough, we invited some people whos weddings we did attend, and they didn't come...

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  • Geneviève
    VIP September 2020 Ontario
    Geneviève ·
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    No. I only went to weddings my cousins had when I was a child which doesn’t really count.
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  • A
    Devoted July 2023 British Columbia
    Amanda ·
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    Yes, because they are either family or friends I still hang out with.

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  • Amelia
    Master October 2020 New Brunswick
    Amelia ·
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    Definitely not. There are weddings I went to that I don't even know the couple any more.
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  • Valérie
    VIP September 2019 Quebec
    Valérie ·
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    No.
    We didn't invite people because we were invited to their wedding.

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  • Caitlyn
    Super January 2020 Ontario
    Caitlyn ·
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    Yes, because I've only been invited to close family weddings before.

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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
    Tori ·
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    Nope - pretty sure they only invited me to their wedding because we were kids at the time.

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  • Rayanne
    Master June 2022 Ontario
    Rayanne ·
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    I have not been invited to any weddings except close friends so yes they will be invited.
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  • Kelsie
    Master July 2021 Ontario
    Kelsie ·
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    Yes, because the weddings i've been invited to have either been friends or family lol

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