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I'm planning the smallest wedding ever. 7 guests. And i can't find a ceremony venue because its so small! Ideally canmore, Alberta. But I'd settle for Banff or lake louise if I had to. February and...

So I want a videographer for my wedding as I've heard from a lot of brides that this is one thing they really wish they did. The company I like is a duo of two. Now I'm also looking into a...

Is there supposed to be a bouquet toss bouquet AND. A ceremony bouquet forthe bride?

I meet with my officiant next week but I am still figuring how to navigate the traditional "who gives this woman to be married to this man?" part of the ceremony. My FH and I are modern and...

Hi everyone! We are having our stag and doe next March 2019 on st. patty's day weekend. We are expected at least a couple of hundred people. I'm so stumped on how to start planning for prizes. I.e......

My 8 year old nephew will be our ring bearer at our wedding. I'm wondering if anyone used a large ring box instead of a pillow for their ring bearer to carry the rings? I personally don't like how the...

So we were just notified that the hotel we are having our wedding at is being renovated. The renovation won’t affect the ballroom we have booked. But it will impact the common areas. Including the...

Hi everyone - my fiance and I need your help. We are trying to limit our guests to 80 people. However, we are unsure of how many people to actually invite as we are under the assumption that not 100%...

My fiance and I have decided not to have a wedding party, we also will not have a flower girl. In this case, how does the wedding ceremony typically run? I know that with your traditional wedding you...

Happy Tuesday everyone! I need your advice on when I should send out my save the dates! FH and I are inviting several out of town guests, and would like to give them as much notice as possible for...

How soon before the wedding do you find a florist??

Hey everyone I am going to be having my wedding October 5, 2019. I have the reception venue booked, but have yet to decide on the ceremony venue. Initially I was thinking about having it in a church,...

Hello— we will I’ll be charging $5.00 a ticket for our stag and doe which seems to be a going rate for southern Ontario. We are hoping to seek penny sale tickets, grand prize raffle and drink...

I love when weddings are different than the average traditional type of wedding! What is something you’re planning on doing or did at your wedding that was typically different than most!? It can be...

Hello everyone, I found a beautiful restaurant for my reception and just 15min walk from the place where my fiance proposed, a small park next to the lake (no jungle gyms, just paths, green and...

I am so deflated. Our wedding is in 7 days and the forecast says a high of 6 and cloudy 😕 The whole reason we picked the venue (a golf course) was because of the outdoor ceremony space (in a...

So this is a second wedding for both me and my fiancé. We aren’t doing any of the prewedding things like engagement party, bachelor/bachelorette, rehersal dinners etc. The only wedding part we have is...

How many hours is it best to have a photographer around for? 5? 7? 9? 12? And is 2 necessary or do people find 1 is adequate? Opinions please!!

Hi everyone! So I'm having buffet style and about 15 tables of people, so we'll need to find a creative way to decide what table goes first, and what table goes next after that. We thought we could...

Hi all! My wedding is coming up so soon and I’ve been thinking about tipping at the reception. We’re doing two bottles of wine on each table plus a toonie bar. Should we be tipping on the table wine...

We aren’t doing an open bar, I know that’s not a popular choice for some people. But drinks at our venue start at $10 (domestic beer) and go up from there. So, I’m thinking one of two things....

Is shopping off the rack a good or bad idea? I found one that I absolutely LOVE but they wont be able to order a brand new one for me.. I looked the dress over and there's only a couple of beads that...

I have 36ish days till the wedding and I am feeling a bit overwhelmed. People are offering a lot of negetive opions and it's starting to wear on me. Some of the comments I al dealing with is MIL...

Hello all, My fiance and I are so excited we are 2 weeks away from our big day! We would like to send a an email message out to our confirmed guests regarding a few of the last minute details. Is this...

Our wedding venue is about 45 minutes from the city, and I assume our bridal party, parents, etc will want to crash nearby and not drive home. My fiance and I were in a bridal party a couple years ago...

I have selected my bridesmaids dress colour and the groomsmen's are wearing navy suit with Burgundy tie and tan shoes. My one bridesmaid is making her boyfriend colour coordinate with her which is...

So I know some ladies get 2 garters so they can keep one and toss one. Has anyone ever done this for their bouquet, or thought of doing it? If I am spending a good amount on my bouquet, I would love...

Hi - we're having our wedding about an hour and a half from Toronto, where most of the guests will be coming from. Plus I will have family coming in from the US (NJ and Ohio areas). It just occurred...

So we've been engaged 5ish years lol had 2 kids in the meantime. No wedding planning in site. We're both super chill and laid back. Neither wanted a big thing. I'm cheap (super frugal) so I couldn't...