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The wedding reception is where the party really starts. It’s where you and your guests will celebrate your “I dos” with drinking, dancing, mixing and mingling. Find out how to choose the best venue for you, how to decorate it, and of course, how to choose the menu.

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When to do the first dance?
Alyx, On February 7, 2022 at 22:48

I planned on doing the first dance after our grand entrance so everyone is seated and in the room. But my fiancé thinks it’s awkward lol What are you guys doing first dance before or after dinner ?

Maggnard-Smanta, monday 4-Apr-22 11 190
Sascha
Seating etiquette- how to sit couples
Sascha, On March 24, 2022 at 12:07

We are doing rectangle tables with 8 guests. 4 on each side. What is the best way to arrange the couples- sitting directly across or to sit beside each other? We are having 2 moderate sized floral...

Maggnard-Smanta, monday 4-Apr-22 9 2,256
Amanda
How Many Cake Flavors and Tiers?!
Amanda, On March 31, 2022 at 11:34

Hey Everyone! One of the most fun and tasty parts of wedding planning is cake tasting! But it can be a real challenge to narrow down all the delicious choices. How many flavors are in your wedding...

Amanda, sunday 3-Apr-22 22 213
Kelly
Seating for photographer
Kelly, On July 26, 2021 at 13:14

I have 35 guests attending my wedding which is perfect for tables being 5 tables of 6 and the head table with 5. So the question I have is what do I do with my photographer? Do I put him on the...

Bill, sunday 3-Apr-22 6 235
Jamie
Any tips on writing up my thank you speech?
Jamie, On April 2, 2022 at 17:18

Any site that is helpful and any advice would be much appreciated

Carmel, saturday 2-Apr-22 2 61
Kate-Lynn
Backdrops
Kate-Lynn, On March 29, 2022 at 20:07

I am in the issue of not being able to find a backdrop in our area that is the same length (30ft) as our head table. The best I can find is 24ft. Would it look stupid to have 3ft less of a back drop...

Kate-Lynn, thursday 31-Mar-22 5 69
Amanda
Wedding Favours
Amanda, On March 10, 2022 at 08:58

Hi everyone, if you are doing wedding favours are you doing per person or per household? I'm very torn on which one to go with, obviously per household is more budget friendly but I hate the idea of...

Amanda, tuesday 29-Mar-22 4 91
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Late Night Bar
Victoria, On March 26, 2022 at 11:08

Hi everyone! So for our wedding we are option to go with a late night bar rather than a cocktail hour (we’ll be having drinks prior to dinner but no passed appetizers) and I’m wondering if anyone has...

Com, monday 28-Mar-22 3 75
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Wedshoots
Shelley, On March 21, 2022 at 00:32

Hi there! Has anyone used Wedshoots to capture your day of photos from your guests? How did you display the QR code and album # to get guests to download the app and use it? Did you display it once or...

Shelley, sunday 27-Mar-22 5 290
Meghan
Dinner Seating
Meghan, On March 22, 2022 at 13:59

I'm curious to know what everyone is doing for guests dinner seating! We are not having a seating chart so i'm looking for other ideas on seating placement beside name cards on plates! TIA

Hank, wednesday 23-Mar-22 7 175 1
Daily
Cake stand!
Daily, On March 17, 2022 at 17:42

I can’t decide whether I should go with a square or circle cake stand!! Future brides, do you guys care about the shape of a cake stand? I love Acrylic or glitters or clear. Or

Darbi, wednesday 23-Mar-22 9 102
Jonelle
Table Wine / Vendor table set up
Jonelle, On March 21, 2022 at 15:13

Just wondering what's the protocol for vendor tables? I have to have a small table for my two photographer, and I'm just wondering if I'm supposed to set it up like I would any other table - or if it...

Carmel, monday 21-Mar-22 3 115
Rayanne
Plated meal or buffet?
Rayanne, On March 15, 2022 at 18:38

There are pros and cons to any meal service which one did you decide on your wedding? What was it that appealed to you about it? We decided the best thing for us was actually family style. I didn't...

Rayanne, saturday 19-Mar-22 26 199
Colin
Afternoon cocktail wedding reception hors d'oeuvres
Colin, On March 17, 2022 at 23:51

My fiancée & I are getting married in July 2023 and are uncertain how many hors d'oeuvres we will need for an afternoon cocktail reception. We are looking at inviting 65 people (not all may come)...

Hank, saturday 19-Mar-22 9 137
Malyssa
Escort Cards vs Seating Charts?
Malyssa, On March 16, 2022 at 12:13

Hello and happy Wednesday you beautiful people. When planning a wedding, there are so many things to consider, both big and small. One small detail you may want to think about is, how you plan to tell...

Hailey, saturday 19-Mar-22 20 240 1
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Children?
Hollie, On March 13, 2022 at 18:51

To allow or not allow? curious on every ones thoughts about having children at the ceremony / reception. We are thinking about allowing children at the church but not at the reception hall or setting...

Lissa, wednesday 16-Mar-22 14 135
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Menu Tasting
Veronika, On March 7, 2022 at 19:48

Does it usually happen before or after you sign a contract or put down a deposit? I understand venues asking to do it after a contract is signed but then again, I want to taste what I'm putting a...

Vinod, saturday 12-Mar-22 10 114
Amanda
Vendors Table at Reception
Amanda, On March 10, 2022 at 10:11

Hey everyone so I’m having trouble with the seating chart we have 3 vendors (3 people) coming and I don’t know if I should get a whole table (that seats 10) for 3 people. Thoughts about putting them...

Brooke, friday 11-Mar-22 9 376 1
Rayanne
Bought the chocolate for candy bar!
Rayanne, On November 26, 2021 at 16:11

I went out to brave the black Friday crowds today to but some of the coloured lindt chocolate balls. I got a couple of the 150 boxes for only $45/box. I loved that I could pick out any colours...

Com, friday 11-Mar-22 11 152
Jordan
Wedding Party SO's
Jordan, On March 1, 2022 at 13:17

Where did you put your wedding parties significant others? Were debating between a sweetheart table or a head table with the wedding party. None of the wedding parties significant others are in the...

Shelly, saturday 5-Mar-22 17 286 2
Amanda
What are you using for your card box?!
Amanda, On February 22, 2022 at 22:58

How are you collecting cards at your wedding? Are you DIY, buying it online, buying in store or even customizing it after buying it?! I can't wait to see everyone's card box! Even if you don’t have...

Amanda, friday 4-Mar-22 13 148
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dj or no Dj?
Rhiannon, On February 25, 2022 at 09:35

So my wedding is coming up October 22, and we have basically everything booked except our DJ. My fiancé isn’t 100% keen on a DJ because he thinks we can just put someone in charge of the iPod and he’s...

Rhiannon, sunday 27-Feb-22 14 241 1
KELLY
Planning a sweet table
KELLY, On February 24, 2022 at 13:24

Hey Everyone Our venue is letting us provide our own sweet table, we are stuck on what to include. We are having a one tier cake for our cake cutting and cupcakes for our guests. The plan so far is...

Hank, friday 25-Feb-22 9 227
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Father Daughter Song
Caitlynn, On February 23, 2022 at 20:28

I need some help. My dad listens to punk rock music so any traditional song you’d find on one of those lists won’t cut it for our dance. Does anyone have any suggestions?

Malyssa, thursday 24-Feb-22 5 81
Sascha
Invites sent, Rsvps coming in and it’s setting in again that 90% of the guests with my fiancés invites
Sascha, On February 23, 2022 at 13:20

This has been an ongoing dilemma as the way my family and friends are set up I always just pictured myself doing a lavish elopement and honey moon. My fiancé wanted more of a reception, with his...

Hailey, wednesday 23-Feb-22 4 170 1
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Eucalyptus stems
Jen, On February 22, 2022 at 10:25

Has anyone ordered eucalyptus stems from Callia online? It's a reasonable price for 100-125 stems at $149 (would use for long tables). Curious how far 100 stems go? Hard to imagine without...

Jen, tuesday 22-Feb-22 52
Amanda
Bar Options
Amanda, On February 10, 2022 at 16:58

The cost of food and drinks for your guests will likely be one of your biggest wedding expenses. For your big day, what are you choosing to do with your bar option? Are you going with a Cash Bar,...

Amanda, monday 21-Feb-22 26 352 2
Amanda
Sweetheart or Head Table?
Amanda, On February 10, 2022 at 12:34

What's your seating style? Will you and your fiance be sitting at a sweetheart table just for the two of you? Or will you sit with your whole wedding party at a head table? My fiance and I have...

Amanda, monday 21-Feb-22 23 442
Mikayla
Do you think it's okay to ask the venue chef to change the menu?
Mikayla, On February 16, 2022 at 13:21

Hi, I'm getting married in August of this year. Our venue was in the process of overhauling their wedding menus when we booked the place. The new chef they hired specializes in vegan cuisine which is...

Carly, friday 18-Feb-22 6 112
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Noise in shared hall
Gaby, On February 17, 2022 at 14:30

Hello, we are thinking of booking with a site that has a shared (divided) hall. We were informed there will be a party on the other side but that noise doesn't travels but I'm very sceptical of that....

Hank, thursday 17-Feb-22 2 72
Terrin
Where to buy disposable cameras!
Terrin, On February 15, 2022 at 02:43

Hi friends!! I love the idea of having disposable cameras for each table!! Is there anywhere either in Canada or without crazy shipping that’s the best for a bulk order? TIA ☺️

Malyssa, wednesday 16-Feb-22 9 259
Erika
Dessert/donut Table Timeline Help!
Erika, On February 6, 2022 at 15:38

Hi! I'm looking for advice for our Dessert/Donut Table. We're doing a plated dinner service for our reception and included in the price is a dessert (we choose a cake to be served to all guests). But...

Hank, sunday 6-Feb-22 2 78

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