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Allison
RSVPs - dealing with the first decline
Allison, On July 31, 2019 at 19:43

We are starting to get RSVPs back for our wedding, which is great! I knew going into it that around 10-15% will end up declining, but getting the first decline today still kinda sucks. For context,...

Allison, tuesday 17-Sep-19 35 547
Megan
No bridesmaids/maid of honour
Megan, On September 6, 2019 at 13:23

I know its acceptable to not have bridesmaids or a wedding party anymore. People do all kinds of things. In my case, I want my friends to come as guests to my wedding, not be in the wedding party and...

Bianca, tuesday 17-Sep-19 13 130 1
Victoria
Tipping Vendors
Victoria, On August 29, 2019 at 12:45

Setting a side money for tips, for the different vendors not wanting to miss any. Who did every one tip and roughly how much did you tip(if your okay with sharing)?

Casey, tuesday 17-Sep-19 6 163
Sam
Wedding Hashtag
Sam, On July 25, 2019 at 21:57

So I found out about the wedding hashtag movement and obviously I need to get on board. My name is Sam Curtis and groom is Brandon Young. Suggestions?

Bianca, tuesday 17-Sep-19 7 84
Chelsee
rsvp
Chelsee, On April 28, 2019 at 20:12

When writing invitations, when should the RSVP date be in distance to your wedding. My wedding is Sept 2020, when would be an appropriate time for them to RSVP by? I know its very early to start...

Kirsten, monday 16-Sep-19 16 176
Vanessa
Clueless
Vanessa, On September 4, 2019 at 00:14

My fiancé and I have been engaged for a while. We have a date picked out but, that ispretty much it. Can anyone help with advice?

BunnyBride, monday 16-Sep-19 14 109
Sonia
When do you get your wedding cake?
Sonia, On May 5, 2019 at 11:35

I need to know when you order your wedding cake? wedding is July 11,2020 my sister told me 9 months. She keeps telling me relax there is lots of time. But me and time do not get a long. And need to...

Sonia, monday 16-Sep-19 15 294
Allison
b list with Declines
Allison, On September 4, 2019 at 14:27

I feel like a make a discussion every-other day talking about the guest list lol! Anyways, I posted a few days ago about my dad inviting his cousins. I told him that he could invite them but that...

Allison, monday 16-Sep-19 29 187
Allison
Got our Licence today!!
Allison, On September 12, 2019 at 15:52

Not really much to discuss, but my FH and I went down to City Hall and got our licence so we are able to get legally married now!! 37 more days until "I do" now! For anyone in Ontario, you can...

Allison, monday 16-Sep-19 33 181
Jillian
Bridesmaids gifts
Jillian, On August 20, 2019 at 18:13

For those paying for your bridesmaids hair and make up, how much are you paying, and are you also doing a smaller gift and how much are you spending on that?

Danielle, sunday 15-Sep-19 14 278
Kelsie
Invite Help!
Kelsie, On September 2, 2019 at 12:52

Hey everyone! I’m trying to figure out what is the “right” way to do invitations for my bridal shower and obviously the wedding. my bridal shower is May 3 and I need to provide guest count 2 weeks...

Kelsie, sunday 15-Sep-19 13 108
Eunice
Getting married on Nov/2020
Eunice, On September 3, 2019 at 08:31

Hi everyone! My fiancé and I got engaged on July/2019 and haven’t really started planning for the wedding since we’re thinking of moving in together this month. My mom, however, would like us to do a...

Eunice, saturday 14-Sep-19 11 107
Lorena
Destination Wedding
Lorena, On September 2, 2019 at 16:36

Hi there! Is anyone doing a destination wedding? If so, how many guests are you inviting? So far I've got 40 on my invite list.... I am so excited I keep adding people . Obviously not everyone is...

Lorena, friday 13-Sep-19 8 111
Valérie
In need of a virtual hug : Last stretch before the big day!
Valérie, On August 31, 2019 at 20:50

I'm less than a week out.I'm definitely keeping a straight/confident face for myself and everyone, because deep down I'm freaking the hell out. - The venue manager has been AMAZING, but she's terrible...

Dionne, friday 13-Sep-19 18 334
Rachel-Anne
Finding a printer?
Rachel-Anne, On August 28, 2019 at 13:30

Good afternoon everyone: I'm looking to purchase a lovely custom designed invitation off of Etsy. What I am looking for is recommendations of a printing company/local printer/stationer where I can...

Rachel-Anne, friday 13-Sep-19 16 141
Jamie
I don't think am going with flowers, suggestions for alternative ideas?
Jamie, On September 8, 2019 at 16:09

I don't want to have flowers because I think they are beautiful but a waste.. they die and cost so much. Thinking, on doing something else? suggestions please?

Jamie, friday 13-Sep-19 14 117
Kelly
Travel fee for vendors
Kelly, On February 1, 2019 at 10:39

Our wedding venue is an hour outside the city, so with that comes travel fees for our vendors, which I get. I was just given a quote from a vendor with a travel fee rate of $50 per 10km outside...

Meghan, friday 13-Sep-19 11 1,736
Emily
Addressing Uninvited +1’s
Emily, On August 31, 2019 at 17:20

Hi there! My fiancé and I have decided that if friends or extended family want to bring +1’s that we don’t know, they have to cover the cost of the guests meal. We are planning to send out a little...

Emily, thursday 12-Sep-19 12 196
Jennifer
Destination or big wedding here?
Jennifer, On September 8, 2019 at 11:25

Hi ladies, I'm newly engaged and wondering how did y'all decide between doing the destination wedding with a select group vs doing the big hall wedding here with everyone? My FH is Italian so it'll be...

Rebecca, thursday 12-Sep-19 13 174
Jessica
I get two weddings yay but Ahhh!
Jessica, On September 4, 2019 at 20:08

I have to plan for two weddings in two different countries with two very different cultures ... help

Joey, thursday 12-Sep-19 6 102
Colleen
I feel like there are so many things I'm forgetting...
Colleen, On September 6, 2019 at 16:19

Tomorrow marks one week until my wedding and I'm having a mini panic attack feeling like I'm missing things. My to do list seems smaller than it should be lol. How were you feeling this close to your...

Ashley, thursday 12-Sep-19 5 250
Stephanie
Wedding Flowers
Stephanie, On August 28, 2019 at 15:44

Just wondering how much people are spending on flowers for their wedding. Real, assorted flowers (not all roses or 1 kind of flower). How much for the brides bouquet? Maid of honors? Centerpieces?...

Arlene, thursday 12-Sep-19 52 1,082
Alie
Bridesmaids disaster
Alie, On August 20, 2019 at 23:27

Legit less then 3 weeks till the big day. The bridesmaids have still not picked out dresses... And i had to boot one out of my wedding patry... (Shes not longer with my brother)...

Ashley, thursday 12-Sep-19 9 111
Andrea
What to do?
Andrea, On September 10, 2019 at 20:55

Hi everyone, I am looking to get some advice in regards to my situation. Initially my fiance and I had booked a banquet hall but quickly cancelled that venue due to financial issues. We recently...

Bianca, thursday 12-Sep-19 25 165
Carly
rsvp Deadline
Carly, On August 26, 2019 at 13:44

Hi All, So I am in need of some advise. I am trying to figure out when I should set my RSVP deadline as. My wedding is May 23, 2020. I have to provide a final count by May 8. I was thinking of...

Katrine, wednesday 11-Sep-19 16 244
Lisa
Small rant - just need to get it out
Lisa, On August 27, 2019 at 14:31

I've manages to not be stressed or turn into bridezilla this entire time - but now I'm annoyed. Just got a text frfom FH - "PT is bringing a date. Hope that's okay." Ummmm... the wedding is in 4...

Lisa, wednesday 11-Sep-19 24 330
S
Couples getting married September 17th 2020.
Shannon, On August 20, 2019 at 19:32

Hello Ladies, Congratulations and how exciting where getting married. I am jumping right into planning and booked a venue first thing. Then I took a break for the summer while my FH was on vacation...

Ashley, wednesday 11-Sep-19 7 85
Natasha
Weeping Willow Wedding Wanted
Natasha, On August 21, 2019 at 00:24

Looking for a wedding venue in British Colombia with lots of Weeping willow trees! Please help.

Ashley, wednesday 11-Sep-19 4 79
M
Order of Dances
Megan, On August 22, 2019 at 12:01

So, we are getting married in a small venue location - toasts, speeches and dinner will be there, then moving to the bigger reception hall. My question is, how would you order things at the reception....

Ashley, wednesday 11-Sep-19 10 457
Sam
Flowers
Sam, On August 23, 2019 at 22:06

Are there any flower places in KW that will do just a bouquet?

Ashley, wednesday 11-Sep-19 3 57
Allison
MOH final year of school - rant
Allison, On August 27, 2019 at 15:06

I have 5 discussions I want to post since I got so much accomplished last week, but I currently need to rant! My MOH is in her final year of university this year (just has to do this semester) and she...

Allison, wednesday 11-Sep-19 23 200
Allison
Family Photos - Just Immediate or Extended?
Allison, On August 28, 2019 at 13:42

Hi Everyone! After meeting with our photographer, I'm wondering what people usually do for their family photos - We were thinking just immediate family: grandparents, parents, siblings, nieces and...

Allison, wednesday 11-Sep-19 32 216

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