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Lisa
Expert August 2019 Alberta

Small rant - just need to get it out

Lisa, on August 27, 2019 at 14:31 Posted in Plan a wedding 0 24

I've manages to not be stressed or turn into bridezilla this entire time - but now I'm annoyed. Just got a text frfom FH - "PT is bringing a date. Hope that's okay."

Ummmm... the wedding is in 4 days!!!!! And we only have 45 guests, and they have selected meals, the seating plan has been sent in... Is she bringing a sandwich??? He RSVPd for himself only!

Sorry - rant over.

On the bright side - I'm getting married in 4 days!!!!!


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Latest activity by Lisa, on September 11, 2019 at 17:48
  • Lisa
    Expert August 2019 Alberta
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    Yep, sure did!!!
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  • Ashley
    VIP August 2020 Ontario
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    Did they bring that person LOL!

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  • Rayanne
    Master June 2022 Ontario
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    I would be annoyed to. I hope you got everything worked out. All the best on your upcoming wedding.
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  • Casey
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    Omg so frustrating! Hopefully she brings a sandwich lol!! But you get married in 4 days!!!
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  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    That is a short notice to let you know about a plus one from a guest days within the wedding. I would reply back saying Names sent in already and can't make or add changes to the final list. Seating meals are taken care of. The guest has to come alone as RSVPed and no plus one.

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  • Miav
    Devoted September 2020 Alberta
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    So excited for you!! Smiley smile And, if it was me, I won't allow an extra person. Hello, seating plan and selected meals! PT will just have to manage without a date for one night

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  • Lisa
    Expert August 2019 Alberta
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    Yaaaaaas!! Lol
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  • Becky
    VIP September 2019 Ontario
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    Ahh frusterating!!! but your GETTING MARRIED IN 4 DAYS!!!!!

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  • Katelyn
    Super October 2019 Ontario
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    Well that's okay as long as no more surprises!
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  • Lisa
    Expert August 2019 Alberta
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    Sounds like they will be - we are now only 4 people away from max capacity tough! Yikes!

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  • Lisa
    Expert August 2019 Alberta
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    Yep, I told my friend and she said she'll stop at Subway on the way over to grab her a sandwich, ha ha!

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  • Lisa
    Expert August 2019 Alberta
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    Ha ha ha! I'll keep that little gem in mind... Smiley smile

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  • Lisa
    Expert August 2019 Alberta
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    Oh, the joys of wedding planning and RSVPs... I've always been the type that replies right away, so I don't understand this!

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  • Lisa
    Expert August 2019 Alberta
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    Yeah, I've got a hold of the planner already and she said no problem - I'm just thankful that he so happened to be sitting at the end of a table with room to add one more - or else I may have snapped trying to change the seating plan!

    Thanks! Can't believe it's in 4 days!

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  • Katelyn
    Super October 2019 Ontario
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    Ugh that's exhausting. Is your venue flexible if you add an extra person?
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  • Lisa
    Expert August 2019 Alberta
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    I think my darling FH already said yes, sadly. I'll roll with it, but will silently rage for an hour or so. Smiley smile

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  • Lisa
    Expert August 2019 Alberta
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    Yes!!! Part of my frustration is also that it is a SMALL wedding - there were several people we didn't invite, and I'm pretty sure he's not actually in a relationship with her. Grrrr.

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  • Janaya
    Expert August 2019 Saskatchewan
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    I had a similar thing happen... my brother texted me the night before asking if one of his friends could come.. I was like ohhh NOOO?!?! like who does that lol

    especially that you're having a selected meal

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  • Katelyn
    Super October 2019 Ontario
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    I would tell them no! It's really inappropriate to do that to someone 4 days out. If it was 2 weeks or something there would be time to change it up. But that's ridiculous!
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  • Kelsie
    Master July 2021 Ontario
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    This would irritate me as well, so you are definitely not alone!

    Is there any chance you could slip an extra meal in somewhere? If not, tell PT his date must bring their own fare!

    Congratulations on your upcoming wedding!!!!

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  • Carol
    Newbie November 2019 Ontario
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    I would NOT be pleased either and your rant is completely valid!

    We still have a month for people to RSVP but invites have been out for weeks now - what are people waiting for - driving me nuts LOL Smiley smile


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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
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    OMG... In hind sight I know it's not that bad - but how annoying is that of your FH!?!?!? Like, can you ASK me first??? If my FH did this he would owe me big time.. So not only on the plus side is your wedding coming up, but your FH is in debt to you now. Fact.

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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    Congrats on getting married in 4 days!!

    I'm still 52 away, but I would be annoyed if someone asked to bring a date 4 days out - that's insane! If PT wants a date that badly, they're bringing their own chair and food!

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