Small rant - just need to get it out

Did they bring that person LOL!

That is a short notice to let you know about a plus one from a guest days within the wedding. I would reply back saying Names sent in already and can't make or add changes to the final list. Seating meals are taken care of. The guest has to come alone as RSVPed and no plus one.

So excited for you!! And, if it was me, I won't allow an extra person. Hello, seating plan and selected meals! PT will just have to manage without a date for one night

Ahh frusterating!!! but your GETTING MARRIED IN 4 DAYS!!!!!

Sounds like they will be - we are now only 4 people away from max capacity tough! Yikes!

Yep, I told my friend and she said she'll stop at Subway on the way over to grab her a sandwich, ha ha!

Ha ha ha! I'll keep that little gem in mind...

Oh, the joys of wedding planning and RSVPs... I've always been the type that replies right away, so I don't understand this!

Yeah, I've got a hold of the planner already and she said no problem - I'm just thankful that he so happened to be sitting at the end of a table with room to add one more - or else I may have snapped trying to change the seating plan!

Thanks! Can't believe it's in 4 days!

I think my darling FH already said yes, sadly. I'll roll with it, but will silently rage for an hour or so.

Yes!!! Part of my frustration is also that it is a SMALL wedding - there were several people we didn't invite, and I'm pretty sure he's not actually in a relationship with her. Grrrr.

I had a similar thing happen... my brother texted me the night before asking if one of his friends could come.. I was like ohhh NOOO?!?! like who does that lol

especially that you're having a selected meal

This would irritate me as well, so you are definitely not alone!

Is there any chance you could slip an extra meal in somewhere? If not, tell PT his date must bring their own fare!

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding!!!!

I would NOT be pleased either and your rant is completely valid!

We still have a month for people to RSVP but invites have been out for weeks now - what are people waiting for - driving me nuts LOL

OMG... In hind sight I know it's not that bad - but how annoying is that of your FH!?!?!? Like, can you ASK me first??? If my FH did this he would owe me big time.. So not only on the plus side is your wedding coming up, but your FH is in debt to you now. Fact.

Congrats on getting married in 4 days!!

I'm still 52 away, but I would be annoyed if someone asked to bring a date 4 days out - that's insane! If PT wants a date that badly, they're bringing their own chair and food!