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Choose the ceremony and reception venue, find your dress, prepare the necessary paperwork, make the guest list, and stay on top of your budget. Here’s everything you need to know to plan your dream wedding step-by-step.

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Amanda
Videographer or not??
Amanda, On March 4, 2022 at 16:46

Hi everyone! I am struggling to decide if I want to hire a cinematographer for our September wedding, however, I can't seem to justify spending an outrageous amount of money on a video that in the end...

Brooke, sunday 6-Mar-22 12 119 2
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Engagement party invites - Greetings Island
Michelle, On March 3, 2022 at 21:38

Has anyone used greetings island to send virtual invites and track RSVPs? Wondering if I will actually be able to send the invites to everyone and track the RSVPs for about 40 people with a free...

Michelle, thursday 3-Mar-22 2 53
Lindsay
White Dress
Lindsay, On February 18, 2022 at 17:48

Hey everyone! I have a question, would it be ok to wear a short white dress to a engagement photo shoot? Reason why I’m asking is I saw this beautiful white dress at David’s Bridal in Langley and I...

Tunisha, sunday 27-Feb-22 24 170
Abbie
Virtual Bridal Shower
Abbie, On February 19, 2022 at 22:45

Has anyone here done a virtual bridal shower? I’d love to hear any tips for keeping everyone engaged and any game ideas ☺️

Hank, tuesday 22-Feb-22 3 61
Tunisha
Show me - Proposal Photos
Tunisha, On February 3, 2022 at 00:07

Hello beautiful people, How are y’all doing? How was your proposal? Show us the photos!! Mine was very simple and lovely. My mum is a cook and wanted to compare the cost of cooking versus buying food...

Tunisha, sunday 20-Feb-22 26 189 2
Liberty
Wedding Day Love Letters
Liberty, On February 14, 2022 at 17:32

My fiance and I are doing a first look and have decided to read each other letters during our first look instead of writing our own vows for the ceremony. I even made 2 sets of custom notebooks for...

Liberty, saturday 19-Feb-22 15 135
Christine
Where are my February engaged brides to be at ?!
Christine, On February 18, 2022 at 23:19

Absolutely over the moon right now!!! When are you starting to plan your weddings ?!

Rayanne, saturday 19-Feb-22 6 98
Brittany
Do we need engagement photos?
Brittany, On February 18, 2022 at 07:01

Our wedding is in July this year (2022). We weren't planning on doing engagement photos since we couldn't find a use for them. We are planning on sending email save the dates by the end of this month...

Carmel, friday 18-Feb-22 5 91
Jessica
Wedding Invitation rsvp Card - Unknown Guest
Jessica, On February 12, 2022 at 22:43

We’re in the part of the planning process where we’re almost at the deadline for guests to respond with their RSVP card. My fiancé and I received an RSVP card back with a name on it of someone who...

KELLY, thursday 17-Feb-22 7 215
Yuki
Family flying in
Yuki, On February 13, 2022 at 05:41

So most of my family lives next Provence over from me I’m not sure when I invite them if I am supposed to pay part or all of transportation and hotel stay as the bride and groom do we pay all half or...

Amanda, monday 14-Feb-22 8 75
Lizzy
Raffle ticket prize ideas?
Lizzy, On February 11, 2022 at 20:53

Hey everyone! We're starting to plan our engagement party in Ontario, and we're trying to think of good prize ideas. The tricky part is most of my fiancé's family lives in 3 different provinces, so...

Hank, monday 14-Feb-22 3 124
Jamie
i need some advice
Jamie, On February 9, 2022 at 14:57

Advice We have decided to go ahead and do just a ceremony at a local beach with just immediate family instead of a backyard wedding at my parent's place with friends and family. We will plan the...

Jamie, thursday 10-Feb-22 5 117
Narissa
Planning Stress
Narissa, On February 7, 2022 at 21:40

I am just under 9 months away from my wedding date and I have felt no stress throughout the planning process. I have the majority of my vendors booked, with the exception of a couple big ones like my...

Amanda, wednesday 9-Feb-22 10 158
Liberty
What are you most looking forward to?
Liberty, On February 7, 2022 at 11:00

Let's talk about what you are most looking forward to on your wedding day! My wedding is now only 104 days away! I'm stressed and excited!! I'm most looking forward to our first look! A first look is...

Liberty, tuesday 8-Feb-22 11 97
Elizabeth
Wedding bands
Elizabeth, On January 23, 2022 at 08:53

Hi everyone! I’m 5.5 months out until the big day (July 9) and my FH and I have been going back and forth on when we should go for our wedding bands. When is it the right time to go? I was thinking...

Malyssa, tuesday 1-Feb-22 10 198
Marissa
Moissanite in Edmonton
Marissa, On December 5, 2018 at 13:31

Considering a diamond alternative? I wanted to share my thoughts and findings on moissanite, as I spent years researching and still came up relatively short for the Edmonton area. 1. What is...

Elizabeth, saturday 29-Jan-22 8 2,593
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Videographer is it really worth it?
Jaime, On January 25, 2022 at 16:54

Hi everyone, My partner and I have our wedding in July 2023. Because of covid we've decided to start looking for our vendors now. We booked our venue last Nov so we are luckily set there. We are both...

Hank, wednesday 26-Jan-22 7 155 1
Kaitlyn
Bridesmaid & moh Gifts & Selection
Kaitlyn, On January 11, 2022 at 17:42

Hi Fellow Brides Looking for some advice on bridal gifts - not proposal gifts per se but gifts as a thank you for standing with me. My plan was to ask first and then if yes give them a USEFUL gift. I...

BreddGar, monday 24-Jan-22 9 191 1
Jacquie
Did you send save the dates?
Jacquie, On January 18, 2022 at 16:08

Does everyone send save the dates now a days? Did you decide to skip them and were your out of town guests okay with that? Our wedding is in August and I was going to send Save the Dates to out of...

Caitlin, saturday 22-Jan-22 26 264
Kathy
Rehearsal dinner
Kathy, On January 16, 2022 at 14:41

Hi everyone, we are hoping (yet again) to go ahead with our June wedding. Fingers crossed!!!! We are having a small wedding (40 people) Our venue is an hour away for most of the immediate people we...

Kathy, friday 21-Jan-22 5 103
Gloria
All the little details
Gloria, On January 11, 2022 at 14:06

Hello, After postponing twice, I am hopeful that our wedding will happen this October. With that being said, I was hoping to get peoples thoughts on a few things - are there any "little details" that...

Hank, wednesday 12-Jan-22 1 91
Emily
Should i invite my co-workers?
Emily, On January 3, 2022 at 04:45

I have been working with this group of people in a small work environment for 5 years. In the last few years, I have really had to sit down and think: Are these really people who I consider friends?...

KELLY, tuesday 11-Jan-22 9 216 1
Meghan
Wedding Day Gifts for your spouse
Meghan, On November 21, 2021 at 09:32

Has anyone not exchanged gifts with your spouse the day of? My FH doesn't really want to exchange gifts cause he feels we just paid for this wedding plus we are getting rings that he doesn't see the...

KELLY, tuesday 11-Jan-22 12 151
Hank
Where did you get engaged?
Hank, On January 3, 2022 at 21:20

Welcome newly engaged couples! Curious where you all got engaged at. Was it at a spot that had meaning to you? Did it happen at home or was it somewhere you travelled to? When I proposed, I wanted a...

Farrah, monday 10-Jan-22 13 189
Anne
Storing Dress Before the Wedding Day
Anne, On January 9, 2022 at 17:39

Hi everyone, My dress came in earlier than expected. I was told it would be here in May when I ordered it last year but it came in just this week. I need to store it away until end of July for our...

Amanda, sunday 9-Jan-22 6 97
Farrah
Electronic Save the Dates? When is the right timing?
Farrah, On January 6, 2022 at 15:22

Hi! My wedding is April 2023 in BC and I have been looking into sending out electronic save the dates. My only concern is I have a few relatives who are older and don't have email. Has anyone been...

Katie, thursday 6-Jan-22 5 134 1
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Bridesmaid selection - wedding etiquette
Claudia, On January 3, 2022 at 02:10

Hi everyone! I have a question about if this is a faux pas or not. I have a friend group that includes me an 2 other girls. We are all friends from highschool however one of them has been in my life...

Malyssa, wednesday 5-Jan-22 3 101
Lise
Toxic Bridesmaid ?
Lise, On December 30, 2021 at 01:57

So I have a situation... One of my bridesmaids is exhibiting some toxic behaviours and I want to know if I should absolutely cut her out of my wedding party or just stick it out. I'm just feeling...

Maggnard-Smanta, monday 3-Jan-22 12 451 1
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Bridesmaid gifts
Alyx, On December 17, 2021 at 02:11

Did you guys do bridesmaid proposal gifts , bachelorette gifts and day of wedding gifts? My bridesmaids have already been asked so I think doing a proposal gift is a little silly? But I also want to...

Hank, sunday 19-Dec-21 8 145 1
Meghan
rsvp
Meghan, On November 3, 2021 at 11:05

Hey ladies for your guests to RSVP are you having them RSVP through your wedding website? or are you doing the traditional way with having a card in the invitation for them to send back to you? TIA

Alyx, saturday 18-Dec-21 31 368
Amanda
Fire a bridesmaid?
Amanda, On December 13, 2021 at 00:39

Hey guys so im just hoping for some advice. my brothers girlfriend who im somewhat close with is being super distant from me lately. she avoids my messages, refuses to go help my mom find a bridal...

Jenn, wednesday 15-Dec-21 8 110
Laura
After two years engaged, finally... photos!
Laura, On December 8, 2021 at 22:43

We finally did our engagement photos and they turned out so great! We are in Tofino, BC for a while so we wanted photos done here to help commemorate our time here, and we were so lucky with the...

Kara, friday 10-Dec-21 11 118 1

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