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Enderby, British Columbia · From January 2018

I'm the modern milkmaid at Birdsong Farm, and I am marrying the love of my life on September 7, 2018. We are both dairy farmers (he's a Holstein boy and... View more

I'm the modern milkmaid at Birdsong Farm, and I am marrying the love of my life on September 7, 2018. We are both dairy farmers (he's a Holstein boy and I'm a Jersey girl), and we joke that the only thing in my life that *might* be more important than my fiancé are my beloved cows.

Happily married 🎉

September 7, 2018

1352days 6hrs
Wedding Photo Albums
Naomi, On December 15, 2018 at 17:57

Our wedding photos are back from the photographer, and I want to make photobooks as keepsake gifts for our parents and grandparents. Any recommendations for where to get photobooks done?

Rekramer, thursday 20-Dec-18 8 156
Bridal Party Help
Danielle, On October 4, 2018 at 09:28

Hello! We are having a dilemma over choosing the wedding party. Originally I wanted to keep it very small - 2/3 bridesmaids - of course that didn't happen. With my sister and my closest childhood...

Faema, sunday 30-Dec-18 18
Mani for the Groom?
Naomi, On August 14, 2018 at 17:46

This feels like a weird question, but are any of you sending your FH in for a mani before the wedding? I love the look of work-worn hands on a man, but my FH is a farmer so I'm debating if I want him...

Naomi, tuesday 4-Sep-18 19
Seating Charts
Naomi, On August 20, 2018 at 14:15

We're having a buffet at our wedding reception so I don't need to assign seats, but I would like to assign tables. If you have a seating chart, are you doing organizing it by tables or alphabetically?...

Naomi, tuesday 4-Sep-18 12
Alie, On August 19, 2018 at 23:23

What does anyone think about cake toppers for the big day?

Alie, monday 20-Aug-18 9
To cake or not to cake?
Maegan, On August 7, 2018 at 12:45

So my FH and I were talking recently and we can't get over how expensive a wedding cake is! All we wanted was a 3 tier cake with 2 slabs being plastic or styrafoam and only the top one edible. This is...

Naomi, monday 20-Aug-18 38
Bachelorette Ideas
Amelia, On August 20, 2018 at 09:30

Hey Ladies! I'm 46 days away from my wedding!! And now I'm starting to think about what to do for a bachelorette party! My bridesmaids are all for helping me plan it, i just have to come up with an...

Peggy, monday 19-Nov-18 9
AJ Juras
Bridal shower?
AJ Juras, On August 14, 2018 at 16:02

Who’s had a bridal shower? What is the point in the bridal shower? Do you recommend having one?

Holly, sunday 19-Aug-18 14
Wedding day makeup and hair
Jessica, On July 17, 2018 at 13:34

I’ve done some research and have been coming up with different answers so not sure what is right... who pays for the bridesmaids hair and makeup? I know I have to pay the deposit because I’m not...

Meagan, thursday 23-Aug-18 30
Marriage License
Grace, On July 9, 2018 at 20:55

How long after I get married do I have to change my last name to my fiancé last name? Is there is a certain time period after you receive your marriage certificate to change it over?

Holly, monday 20-Aug-18 29
Videographers / Photographers
Petra, On August 13, 2018 at 17:33

I’m not sure how anyone else’s wedding planning has been going in terms of videographers and photographers but I’ve contacted a few and they’re so expensive. I’m not getting married until mid 2020 but...

Anja, friday 14-Dec-18 26
rsvp Woes
Naomi, On August 11, 2018 at 12:17

I mailed all the invitations a couple of months ago, and we’ve had a few RSVPs trickling in. Yesterday was the RSVP deadline, and 65 of our 145 guests still haven’t responded! Is it normal to not hear...

Jessie, tuesday 14-Aug-18 8
Do you have nightmares regarding your wedding day?
Melissa, On August 13, 2018 at 16:52

If so, please share your stories! Do you laugh them off, or do they make you anxious? Since I've started planning my wedding, I've periodically had nightmares regarding the wedding day and things...

Stephanie, friday 17-Aug-18 22
Colour palette for menswear
Naomi, On June 18, 2018 at 18:46

My bridesmaids' dresses arrived and we absolutely love the lavender shade we picked! (The original colour palette was royal purple for the bridesmaids and a jewel-toned turquoise for the groomsmen)....

Naomi, sunday 29-Jul-18 12
Gifts for the Bridesmaids
Naomi, On July 29, 2018 at 10:03

40 days until the wedding, and I'm still can't decide on gifts for my bridesmaids! Would a gift certificate for their favourite shop be too "cheap"? I was thinking of a $50 gift certificate to...

Geneviève, friday 3-Aug-18 10 151
What to do when there's no honeymoon after?
Gabrielle, On July 19, 2018 at 20:20

So I know me and my fiance won't be able to go on our honey till a few months after.. we are having our reception at a hotel hall. I'm afraid that the party will end at around 10:30 and there will...

Genis, sunday 5-Aug-18 18
Who is invited to the rehearsal dinner?
Naomi, On July 17, 2018 at 21:59

Who gets invited to the rehearsal dinner? I've read that we need to invite immediate family (parents, siblings and their spouses, grandparents), members of the wedding party and their spouses, and the...

Vanessa, saturday 28-Jul-18 14 206
When do you wear your engagement ring? 💍
Lynnie, On July 17, 2018 at 16:05

Depending on your pre-proposal jewelry habits, adjusting to wearing an engagement ring can be a little tough! When do you take off your wedding ring? Do you take it off to sleep, workout, or cook?? Do...

Kaisha, wednesday 1-Aug-18 47
Bridal shower games
April, On July 17, 2018 at 13:30

Hey everyone! I am trying to find some fun games for everyone to do during the shower, any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!

Carmela, wednesday 18-Jul-18 7
No one planned my bachelorette
Kelsey, On May 29, 2018 at 14:12

No one planned my bachelorette party even though I asked more than a 2 months ago, My wedding is on saturday and Im just so upset with my wedding party I want to call them out but don't want to start...

Alexis, tuesday 23-Mar-21 18
How much time before the wedding.
Jessica, On May 29, 2018 at 10:55

I am only currently booking the Thursday and Friday off before my wedding. Some people say that is crazy and I should be taking off most of the week before if not all of it ? Are you guys taking the...

Sydney, friday 8-Jun-18 36
How to ask for plus ones?
Naomi, On May 9, 2018 at 20:13

We are only inviting plus ones for guests that are in a serious relationship. I will be addressing the invitations only to guests on our list and have asked them to RSVP on our wedding website, where...

Sara, monday 14-May-18 12
September wedding
Farelle, On May 9, 2018 at 18:24

How can I get help to find a wedding venue for this year? For September! Does anyone have non-conventional venues to suggest please?

Farelle, tuesday 29-May-18 17
What did you pay for your photographer & videographer?
Denai, On April 27, 2018 at 11:20

I am just curious what the average bride & groom spend on their photographer. And if you decided to go with a videographer, how much did you spend? Pictures and video are the most important thing...

Lor, friday 11-May-18 35
Wedding invites - Inlaws upset
Rosalyn, On April 28, 2018 at 21:55

Ladies, Did you include parents names in your invites?? We didn’t and my motherinlaw made a comment about it. Now I feel bad. I looked at so so many invites and it was 50:50 with including or not...

Vanessa, wednesday 9-May-18 33
Friday Morning Bridal Shower
Naomi, On May 8, 2018 at 21:36

My grandma and best friend are co-hosting a bridal shower for me a couple of months before the wedding. They have planned it for a Friday morning, and I am concerned that quite a few of my family and...

Naomi, wednesday 9-May-18 8
The head table
Carmela, On May 2, 2018 at 11:20

Hi guys, I’m so lost to when it comes to decorating your reception. My wedding reception is going to take place in Vaughan, and I’ve notice the expensive price tag that comes with it. How, where and...

Carmela, saturday 12-May-18 18


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