Do you have nightmares regarding your wedding day?

I had two:

Someone started a Facebook group for our wedding and invited a bunch of people. A friend from high school who I haven't talked to in a decade and lives in another province said that she was coming!

The second one was that my husband called off the wedding and I was only upset that I wasn't going to get to wear my dress!

I have multiple each week. I think I’ve got some major anxiety issues, lol. But they really stress me out. Some wine completely irrational, others are not.

View quoted message Wow that’s rare these days, everyone thinks I’m a weirdo 😆

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Oh goodness! That would not feel good. I feel ya, I don't drink pop or anything carbonated.

View quoted message Yup they tried making me chug a fizzy cooler and start our first dance after, I was like “NOPE you’re Gonna give me 5 first” lmao pop doesn’t sit well with me!

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That's a good idea. Something light but healthy. I'll probably get some fruit to go with it.

That's not a lot of food lol I understand why though, don't want to feel bloated when everyone is watching the first dance

View quoted message I’d recommend snacking on veggies while getting ready and on your way to pictures. I only had a yogurt all day up until supper.. I was starving and had to make sure I didn’t eat too much for the first dance haha

I once had a dream about showing up to the wedding rehearsal in my dress and feeling the horror as my FH saw me in it lmao.. another one was making countless trips home for decor that I kept forgetting, then being in my dress trying to decorate and do my makeup, only to realize the guests had been waiting for an hour and none of my vendors showed up, I was sobbing on the phone trying to reschedule everything when I finally woke up. I was stressed out all morning from it!

I've had multiple nightmares about the wedding, especially as I'm in the middle of planning : some I laugh off, some I need to talk about with my FH in the morning.

Laugh off: 1) My mom dragging me and my dad down the aisle. 2) Being stuck having to dance to the same song all night.

Need to talk about: 1) walking to the aisle to an empty 'altar'. 2) Guests laughing at my dress or our wedding in general. 3) My FH calling it all off.

My worry for our wedding day is that I am going to be so nervous yet excited and I won't be able to eat or drink and then not feel good. I get like that when I have interviews or important things like when I picked out my dress. I just want to feel my best and enjoy every second of our day!

I had nightmares while planning. I used to dream that people didn't show up, things were missing, I didn't have a dress, my husband was not the same person anymore...all odd, none of which made me anxious too much though.

The one ive had a couple times is that our nieces mom (my FHs brothers ex) creates some excuse on why she can't come to the wedding. And this happens 1-2 days before our wedding.
These nightmares happen as her mom does this all the time when our family has stuff going on.
Luckily nieces stepmom reached out to the Ex about lots of things including our wedding. And she was receptive. So fingers crossed keeps this line of communication open.

I have nightmares about my dress. Specifically that they didn’t order my dress and I don’t find out till a couple of months before hand. That is really the only thing has got me stressed out.

I haven't had many nightmare yet! A few worries about the day of but nothing crazy! My fiance and I dont live together yet, I had a dream where we got married and then that night we slept in our different homes and THAT was a nightmare hahahah!! Were planning on getting a place started for us soon to move into right away but the nightmare was still a weird moment hahah!!

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A friend of mine is from Kenya and when he and his wife got married, their guests ate all the food before they got back from taking photos! And that was only one of the crazy things that happened at their wedding.

YES! I have had a few of these over the last few... not having chairs so guests end of sitting on the floor for dinner, forgetting to order flowers, forgetting candle holders, forgetting to book a hair dresser.. the list goes on and on!

They definitely make me more anxious in the moment, but then I remind myself that I have 1.5 years until the big day, and I have already done 25% of the work!

I personally haven’t but I know on another post like this someone mentioned having a dream where they were releasing doves only instead of doves they were bees and every time I remember that I can’t help but laugh

People showing up in jeans...

Getting to the church and realizing I dont have my dress on...

Getting to the reception and seeing a bunch of strangers eating our food LOL

The usual nigtmares

Yes!!! I have had only two... but both about the same thing!
i keep dreaming we get to our wedding day and I haven’t booked hair and makeup!! And then someone always comes to save the day (I cannot to makeup at all😂) guess it’s a sign to book my hair and makeup!!

I didn't know there were anything but work nightmares until I got engaged. I occasionally have nightmares regarding where I'm at with planning. The one I had last night was that I had forgotten to book a hair and makeup artist, then my cousins were not going to make it because they got stuck in traffic.

I'm on the cusp of booking hair and makeup so that's definitely why I had this dream lol.

I had a dream about hiring a wedding photographer. They sent us the poctures and they only took pictures of the tables, decorations etc and non of my FH and I or people in general. In my dream I planned a new wedding so that we could have nice pictures done

I have had a few - they were so vivid, and still are. Ranging from me running around like crazy, through muddy fields, on my wedding day in my dress trying to set up seating for guests in a greenhouse that was falling down (We are getting married in a church in the middle of the city, so this doesn't make any sense, but it's a dream, so I suppose it doesn't have to) to one where my groom didn't show up because he decided that he wanted to run away on some adventure so he left me standing at the alter.

I try and laugh them off; I really hope they don't get more intense as I get closer to the wedding!