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The wedding reception is where the party really starts. It’s where you and your guests will celebrate your “I dos” with drinking, dancing, mixing and mingling. Find out how to choose the best venue for you, how to decorate it, and of course, how to choose the menu.

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Beth
Alternatives to the usual head table
Beth, On April 9, 2018 at 14:13

Hi all, I was wondering if any of you have (or are going to have) something other than the traditional head table setup. I'd like to be able to communicate with as many of the wedding party members as...

Erin, friday 13-Apr-18 16 2,915
Joey
Let's talk chair covers and sashes
Joey, On March 15, 2018 at 08:05

Everyone's dressing up for the wedding - and that includes your chairs! Are you renting chair covers? Using any chair sashes? Are you using them to bring your color scheme into your decor, or are you...

Jessica, wednesday 11-Apr-18 25 548
Janine
Seating Chart for 25 Tables - Two part question
Janine, On April 5, 2018 at 22:23

How did you do your seating chart for a large wedding? My Fiance thinks that we should do the seating chart by table number (tables of 10 people) and I think we should do it alphabetically by last...

Alissa, sunday 8-Apr-18 14 441
Crimson
Wedding Decor
Crimson, On March 28, 2018 at 17:23

Hey there! My wedding is coming up in July, I am just wondering how many out there are doing most of the decor themselves? I'm doing a rustic theme and we're going to put everything together for a...

Evagrin, friday 6-Apr-18 14 224
Alissa
Invite wording
Alissa, On March 30, 2018 at 01:55

A friend and I are both hosting similar parties and discovered we are having the same issue. While we won't be serving a dinner or buffet, we plan to have a ton of food being passed out and on trays...

Breanne, tuesday 3-Apr-18 7 154
Emilie
10 bohemian wedding ideas
Emilie, On September 23, 2016 at 12:05

Hey chic brides! The boho style was definitely trending this summer 2016. Also called the "slow wedding" it's a chic but also simple way to stay close to nature. Would you go for a boho wedding style?...

Michelle, tuesday 3-Apr-18 3 112
Joey
Will you have a candy bar?
Joey, On March 9, 2018 at 08:05

What do you think of the trend of having a candy bar at your reception? Will you have one? What will, or would, you stock your candy bar with? My idea of heaven! Photo by Homemade Jam! DJ in...

Joey, friday 30-Mar-18 15 163
Phania
Caterer or one place gives all
Phania, On February 1, 2018 at 18:08

Hi everyone, I'm wondering if it's better to rent a location and bring your own caterer or find a place that offers it all. We're getting married in Montreal in the fall and we want to save as much as...

Nat, thursday 29-Mar-18 7 355
Randa
Gifts for guests
Randa, On March 19, 2018 at 23:09

Is it inappropriate to not give tokens or gifts to the wedding guests? I'm a second time bride and many years ago it was an Italian tradition to give bonbonierres to the guests, that was the only time...

Vinod, thursday 29-Mar-18 14 143
Laurel
Bridezilla? Or fair request?
Laurel, On March 24, 2018 at 14:11

One of my BMs informed me should would have a newborn at the time of our wedding. I am thrilled or her!! My dilemma: Her husband is in the party and her parents are invited. She wants to have her...

Helen, thursday 29-Mar-18 19 361
Bell
Brunch wedding-music
Bell, On March 28, 2018 at 19:05

Hi there, We are having a brunch ceremony and reception in September. I am curious as to what others have done re music options. We certainly want to have music at the reception however are unsure if...

Bell, thursday 29-Mar-18 9 820 1
Hailey
Food options
Hailey, On March 24, 2018 at 13:14

FH and I are thinking roast beef dinner for the wedding, is it necessary for us to provide another option (chicken or beef)? it’s a buffet with potatoes, green and yellow beans and carrots as the...

Breanne, thursday 29-Mar-18 15 222
Bethany
Hashtag
Bethany, On March 26, 2018 at 23:27

So ladies I think I came up with my hashtag, not sure if it's too cliché, sounds stupid or not. Let me know what you think (my fiancé really likes How I Met Your Mother and I thought this would tie in...

Jennifer, thursday 29-Mar-18 16 193
Aaron
Venue not in Weddingwire
Aaron, On March 28, 2018 at 12:31

Finding locations in NZ. Wont locate our venue

Jen, wednesday 28-Mar-18 4 101
Tara
Clinking glasses or kissing games?
Tara, On June 8, 2017 at 19:41

Hi ladies! I am trying to come up with some unique ways to avoid the ever-persistent glasses-clinkers! I have heard of different games that we can get our guests to play in order for us to kiss!...

Michelle, tuesday 27-Mar-18 10 1,281
Liz
Has anyone used Flowers Direct in Mississauga?
Liz, On February 1, 2018 at 15:41

They are set up on wedding wire a legitimate business but cant seen anything else about them online - i.e. a phone number or address for them. http://www.flowers-direct.ca/ They ask for 25% up front...

Liz, tuesday 27-Mar-18 2 41
Jodi
Cocktail wedding
Jodi, On February 27, 2018 at 09:44

Hi Ladies we are getting married in September! we found a great venue with great vendors for a great cost! however there is no alcohaul at the venue. It is a short ceremony with a small reception to...

Jodi, tuesday 27-Mar-18 4 127
Phania
Private homes
Phania, On December 2, 2017 at 14:26

Hi everybody, I was wondering if any of you know of private mansions that one can rent to have their wedding receptions/ceremony. I live in Montreal and I see these gorgeous homes that are humonguous...

Bianca, monday 26-Mar-18 2 65
Ashleigh
Basic Seating Chart Sign
Ashleigh, On January 31, 2018 at 11:29

Hello everyone! You have such great advice and idea's so I've come here with a small dilemma. Our wedding is a cocktail event, with no formal sit-down meal. Lots of food will be served by wait staff...

Ashleigh, monday 26-Mar-18 10 144
B
Vendor tipping
Brittany, On March 23, 2018 at 11:37

What percent do you tip your restaurant vendor? We are having our dinner at a restaurant and renting the back room. They already include 15% gratuity with each meal. Thanks!

Stephanie, friday 23-Mar-18 6 106
Mirna
When to send out invites?
Mirna, On February 26, 2018 at 23:35

My wedding reception is a month after my wedding ceremony which 11 months away. I am only going to have my closest family at ceremony but my recpetion will have about 100 people. When should I send...

Mirna, friday 23-Mar-18 11 157
Natalie
Wedding Giveaway Question
Natalie, On March 11, 2018 at 09:42

Hello! We are thinking about giving some sort of edible away at our wedding for our guests but I was wondering how to determine the number to order. If you are having 100 guests, do you buy one per...

Becky, friday 23-Mar-18 8 110
Kelsey
What order do things go for the reception?
Kelsey, On March 22, 2018 at 12:46

So I have made my invitations say Cocktails at 5:30 dinner at 6. so we eat dinner at 6. say like 7 were done. what do we do then? should we do the first dance? then the cake cutting? or the bouquet...

Candace, friday 23-Mar-18 9 3,582
Keena
What does reception include
Keena, On March 22, 2018 at 08:09

Ok so I will be inviting some other people to the reception for celebration but not to the wedding ... Just wondering if first dance bouquet toss garter toss etc is part of reception ? Would I invite...

Courtney, thursday 22-Mar-18 5 77
Brianne
Have a cake decorated?
Brianne, On March 21, 2018 at 21:16

Hey! Has anyone here made their own cake and then had a bakery assemble it and decorate it? I’m just thinking it may cut down on some of the stress, but I’m very particular about cakes and would like...

Becky, thursday 22-Mar-18 5 102
Ericabraam
Trader Joe Wine
Ericabraam, On March 16, 2018 at 08:58

Has anyone used the $2 Trader Joe wine for their wedding? Did people enjoy it? What kind did you get for red and a white?

Bianca, thursday 22-Mar-18 10 153
Lynnie
Band or DJ?
Lynnie, On March 21, 2018 at 13:05

What did you decide on for your wedding reception? And how did you decide?? Band? Photo from The Intentions! in Toronto or DJ? Photo from Mystica Entertainment in Edmonton For more conversations about...

Michelle, wednesday 21-Mar-18 9 90
Anna
Wedding Cake Recipe
Anna, On March 19, 2018 at 13:15

Hi Ladies, Have any of you ever had a professional bakery use your own family recipe? I love my mom's cake recipes and I was originally planning on making a cake with her for the wedding, however I've...

Brianne, wednesday 21-Mar-18 7 93
Danielle
Looking For Djs in Huron County
Danielle, On March 11, 2018 at 11:28

LOOKING FOR DJS IN HURON PERTH AREA. I LIVE IN BLUEVALE, ONTARIO (1 HOUR NORTH OF WATERLOO) I'M THINKING OF HAVING MY WEDDING IN BLYTH, ONTARIO WHICH IS 15 MINUTES FROM MY HOUSE AT COWBELL BREWING CO....

Danielle, wednesday 21-Mar-18 4 284
Rhea
Early Afternoon Ceremony and Reception - do we need an afterparty?
Rhea, On March 15, 2018 at 19:12

We will be having a small ceremony at 1 pm and stand up reception until 4 pm - only about 40 guests. I am wondering if anyone is having a similar timeline and if you are planning anything for the...

Rhea, wednesday 21-Mar-18 14 174
Lindsay
How much alcohol
Lindsay, On March 21, 2018 at 15:00

We are doing a toonie bar. We have 130 guests. How much beer/liquor would you buy?

Jennifer, wednesday 21-Mar-18 6 235
Bethany
How much liquor does one buy? More or less?
Bethany, On March 18, 2018 at 13:03

I have attached the Costco price list for alcohol! My question for you is... If you are having for example 150 people and you know they aren't all going to be drinking, would you just go with the 125...

Jennifer, wednesday 21-Mar-18 11 213

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