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The wedding reception is where the party really starts. It’s where you and your guests will celebrate your “I dos” with drinking, dancing, mixing and mingling. Find out how to choose the best venue for you, how to decorate it, and of course, how to choose the menu.

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Kait
Reception Greeting/Entrance
Kait, On September 23, 2018 at 11:57

Here's my situation ceremony on a Thursday reception on the sat. Because of this we (myself/husband and our 2 & 12 yr old) will be there before guests. We seriously we're just going to sit in the...

Melissa, wednesday 26-Sep-18 7 156
Melissa
Ditching some traditions? Father-daughter dance, garter, etc.
Melissa, On August 23, 2018 at 12:25

FH and I are not traditional and we’re finalizing timelines and activities. We are considering not doing the garter, parents toasts, father-daughter and mother-son dances. Is anyone else not doing...

Bianca, wednesday 26-Sep-18 14 187
Joey
Place Cards!
Joey, On September 25, 2018 at 14:58

Let's look at some stationary! Your guests need to know where to sit, and if you're not doing a seating chart you'll probably be relying on escort cards, or place cards. How will you be personalizing...

Allison, wednesday 26-Sep-18 10 499
Crystal
Gratuity on table wine?
Crystal, On September 25, 2018 at 11:23

Hi all! My wedding is coming up so soon and I’ve been thinking about tipping at the reception. We’re doing two bottles of wine on each table plus a toonie bar. Should we be tipping on the table wine...

Bianca, tuesday 25-Sep-18 11 161
Lynnie
Song requests - yea or nay?
Lynnie, On October 26, 2017 at 16:59

Will you asking your guests for song requests? Or letting your guests make song requests directly to the band or dj? Who's keeping total control over their playlist and who is letting the guests go at...

Vinod, tuesday 25-Sep-18 10 526
Emily
Father Daughter Dance songs
Emily, On September 23, 2018 at 17:58

For brides that are doing this... what song did you chose? Looking for some inspiration!

Gallia, tuesday 25-Sep-18 14 178
Gina
Alcohol Opinions!
Gina, On September 24, 2018 at 14:42

We aren’t doing an open bar, I know that’s not a popular choice for some people. But drinks at our venue start at $10 (domestic beer) and go up from there. So, I’m thinking one of two things....

Allison, tuesday 25-Sep-18 23 271
Lynnie
Do you remember the 21st night of September?
Lynnie, On September 21, 2018 at 16:28

(I hope you're singing the song already!) It is officially the 21st of September, and it's the song's 40th anniversary! September is the song that is guaranteed to get me on the dance floor no matter...

Tori, monday 24-Sep-18 2 445
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Gap between lunch reception and after-party
Woolakidas, On September 19, 2018 at 21:27

Hello there. We are having a morning (10:30am) church ceremony followed by a lunch reception at a restaurant until about 3:30pm. We would like to have an after-party and are considering having it...

Woolakidas, sunday 23-Sep-18 6 496
Peggy
Bride/groom speech - thoughts?
Peggy, On September 11, 2018 at 16:39

So I am way ahead of schedule, but I like to be prepared and have time to practice. We want it to be humourous, and short. This is what I have so far - thoughts? Peggy: Jared and I would like to start...

Monica, saturday 22-Sep-18 10 194
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Alcohol at wedding
Jessica, On September 16, 2018 at 13:47

Hello ladies, We are buying our own booze for the wedding and are having around 350 people between the reception and dance .. wondering if any of you have had around that number and have a list of how...

LaDawn, thursday 20-Sep-18 10 127
Monica
Guest List
Monica, On September 18, 2018 at 14:24

I asked my fiance’s sister (future sister-in-law) for help with finalizing their side of the family’s guest list. She mentioned if we would be inviting her husbands parents, brother + wife (+1 kid),...

Monica, wednesday 19-Sep-18 15 220
Julante
Make guests to pay or not !?!
Julante, On September 8, 2018 at 23:23

Hey guys! I am in a dilemma and need advice. We are planning our wedding for 2019 and looking at the cost it's way more that we were expected. Now I don't want to make my guests pay, but with all the...

Emma, wednesday 19-Sep-18 22 358
Monica
Number of guests
Monica, On September 17, 2018 at 20:39

I was just working on reviewing our guest list with my mom - relief that we don’t have over 200. We initially started with a small guest list of about 100 people max - but this slowly crept its way up...

Allison, tuesday 18-Sep-18 6 115
Leanna
Registry and Gifts
Leanna, On August 24, 2018 at 10:05

My FH and I are planning on doing a "Jack and Jill" shower, instead of me just having a bridal shower. I'm wondering if we should set up a gift registry. My only problem is, I don't want people to...

Elaine, tuesday 18-Sep-18 3 127
K
Wedding Speech
Kim, On September 10, 2018 at 20:59

Hi Brides! Did or are YOU going to give a speech or similar at your wedding reception? I'm a bit stuck here... what did you say beyond "thank you for coming"?

Elaine, tuesday 18-Sep-18 13 164
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The bar
Amanda, On September 10, 2018 at 20:54

So I am not sure what to do about the bar. Do we have a cash, toonie or open bar? There are pros and cons too all options. I've even had it suggested to offer 2 drink tickets per adult and than they...

Vinod, monday 17-Sep-18 16 191
Joey
Show me your non-floral centerpieces
Joey, On September 11, 2018 at 08:05

Who will be skipping the flowers and doing something non-floral for your reception centerpieces? What will you create your centerpieces from? Show us your inspo pics, your mock ups, or your photos of...

Kay, monday 17-Sep-18 9 199
Lynnie
Buttercream or fondant?
Lynnie, On June 11, 2018 at 13:05

What kind of icing will you have for your wedding cake? Are you team buttercream for the taste, or fondant for the design potential?? Buttercream? Photo from Sammy Cakes in Brampton Or fondant? Photo...

Rekramer, monday 17-Sep-18 19 148
Emilie
Your wedding cake! Check?
Emilie, On March 15, 2017 at 07:03

Hey lovely brides! Looking at wedding cake designs is one of my favourite steps of the list. Did you already find your baker? How do you want your cake to look like? Next step >> Wedding...

Kaisha, saturday 15-Sep-18 27 404 1
Emilie
The venue and catering. Check?
Emilie, On March 15, 2017 at 06:57

Hey amazing brides! This week, you've shared the amazing vendors you're working with to plan your perfect day! Did you already book your venue? We want to see a picture of your venue! How does it look...

Kaisha, saturday 15-Sep-18 43 638
Katrina
What song are you planning to walk down the aisle to and what song are you going to use for your first dance?
Katrina, On August 12, 2018 at 14:50

Hello ladies and gentlemen just curious to see what other people are thinking when it comes to walking down the aisle are you going to go with their traditional wedding march maybe a song that means...

Adamay, saturday 15-Sep-18 49 1,439
Kira
How cold is too cold for an outdoor wedding reception
Kira, On September 10, 2018 at 10:10

Our wedding is Sept 22 and as of today, the weather forecast is calling for a high of only 15 degrees Celsius during the day and ceremony won't begin until 5:00 pm so it may be considerably colder. I...

Julia, friday 14-Sep-18 14 2,953
Casey
2nd Bouquet for toss?
Casey, On September 13, 2018 at 15:41

So I know some ladies get 2 garters so they can keep one and toss one. Has anyone ever done this for their bouquet, or thought of doing it? If I am spending a good amount on my bouquet, I would love...

Jennifer, friday 14-Sep-18 10 162
Melanie
Tips on meal planning!
Melanie, On August 19, 2018 at 20:14

Hello, So I was just curious on any ideas on meal planning!? Thinking of doing a buffet idea between 2 main meats. One sea food the other chicken. Our families are big sea food waters... Except my...

Elaine, thursday 13-Sep-18 6 109
Joey
Will you have props for your grand exit?
Joey, On August 28, 2018 at 08:05

Sparklers, bubbles, streamers, petals, balloons, fireworks... There are lots of ways to make your grand exit extra special. What do you think makes the best props for a grand exit? Will you have any...

Bianca, thursday 13-Sep-18 8 112
Leanna
Table Number Holder
Leanna, On September 11, 2018 at 16:39

Where did everyone buy their table numbers from? I'm looking for something similar to the one in the attached photo. I've tried etsy and party city and they have nothing. Any tips? Thank you!

Tyanna, wednesday 12-Sep-18 4 106
Vanessa
40 foot chiffon table runner?
Vanessa, On September 8, 2018 at 17:03

Hey there! So I have been searching high and low to find a chiffon table runner about 40 feet long for our head table (similiar concept to the picture). I have thought about purchasing smaller ones...

Terri, tuesday 11-Sep-18 7 760
Kelsea
Cocktail Hour
Kelsea, On September 3, 2018 at 02:01

We are doing a cocktail hour before dinner while we are off doing photos. During that time we will have a small assortment of appies. We have looked at some ideas for platters, but I am curious what...

Kelsea, tuesday 11-Sep-18 9 364
Joey
Will you have a champagne toast?
Joey, On September 8, 2018 at 14:05

At your reception, will your guests be toasting you with champagne? Prosecco? Or whatever drink is in their glass? What will YOU be toasting with? Raise a glass (or a can!) Photo by Grey Loft Studio...

Brittany, monday 10-Sep-18 12 582
Kaitlyn-Anne
Catering research
Kaitlyn-Anne, On September 10, 2018 at 15:20

Hi everyone. We're still in the very early stages of engagement, but I wanted some input for the food I Invision. I'm planning a fall wedding that's rustic to incorporate the beauty of nature and...

Brittany, monday 10-Sep-18 7 98
Genis
Wedding Favours
Genis, On September 9, 2018 at 06:00

Hi all!! So we are currently working on wedding favours (depending on whether its affordable or not) We have family & friends travelling from Australia so we are hoping to think of something...

Brittany, monday 10-Sep-18 7 140

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