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So we had decided not to spend the money to hire a professoonal photographer. It just isn’t in the budget and we felt it was a lot of money to spend, when we had other things that were more important...

I’m going to have a dessert table on my wedding, and I’m thinking to order a 2-tier cake. Is there any suggestions as to how many other desserts should I include and what kind of dessert? I‘ll be...

For those doing an A list and B list, are you still sending Save the Dates to the B listed people?

I know guest lists are one of the major stressors of wedding planning, but I'm a little surprised by my fiance's sudden insistence that I invite family members I haven't spoken to in over a decade,...

My fiance is Lebanese, so we'll be having pre-wedding parties at both of our houses on the day of the ceremony, zaffe dancers, drummers, and a sword to cut the cake. To honour my Ukrainian heritage,...

How do you politely ask people to leave their kids at home for your wedding? having a small, intimate wedding at a restaurant; really not the atmosphere for young children at all... We don't think...

Hi all! Before I get judgement. Please read everything below. Im 26, planning to get married next year June, I have 3 younger siblings, 10,15 and 21. My fiancee is the secondary breadwinner in his...

Has anyone had a wedding with a $2500 flower budget? How many flowers did you have and how was your venue decorated? pictures would be appreciated! cheers!

Was there something that you thought was a must have at your wedding day, but ended up not using it at all? Was there something in particular that your guests could have done without? perhaps you did...

This is for anyone getting married, or has gotten married in October (of any year!). What is your date? We're getting married October 19, 2019! What made you decide to do October? For us, October is a...

Hey Ladies, We Just had our Engagement Photo Shoot done! We are getting married September 21st 2019... when should we send out our save the dates?

How much is average to spend per guest on gifts for them to take home at the end of the night?

Hello ladies, I am trying to figure out how much time I will need a photographer for on the day of. I want the getting ready photos, the first reveals of both FH and my dad, and the first dance with...

Me and my fiancé have been together 6 years and lived on our own before that, so we do not have a need for any items. Instead we would like to register for cash items, however, I know some people...

The stress of planning this wedding is making me want to just go to Vegas with just us and our kids. Not saying I’m going to but it’s tempting. Anyone here actually planning a vegas wedding?

Strictly for venting post. Haha. For the past couple months, we have been planning our wedding. We’ve put deposits on Venue, Photographer, DJ and photo booth and already booked the officiant as well...

We're 11 days away. I've been pretty diligent with my planning, so we're just counting down the days at this point. However, my ceremony venue (Graydon Hall Manor) wants to cause some bumps in the...

Hi all! My wedding isn’t until next year in June and we’ve already chosen our bridal party. If our groomsmen happens to have a girlfriend in between this time, do we invite their girlfriends too? Of...

Hi ladies! Just wondering if anyone else will be doing inner and outer envelopes? I know for the ones that we’re mailing out, we’ll definitely use double envelopes so the invites don’t look all dirty...

Hey folks! I'm just wondering what you might be getting your spouse for the day of the wedding. I have a few ideas on what I might get my FH, but I was curious what others are planning. Or if they are...

Has anyone just lost sight of what they wanted their wedding day to be? All this planning, pinterest, youtube diy's, all I wanted was a super simple, intimate wedding without all the bells and...

Hi, Question for the already married folks out there, so much of Pinterest and what you see is photos of the details of your wedding, and not a lot of people. I'm making a final photo list for my...

Tell me about your wedding! We get so caught up in the planning and stress that sometimes we forget to gush about our dream day! Ceremony: My FH and I are getting married in a Catholic church. Both of...

We're playing a just for fun game of " Most Likely To " to find out who might make a faux pas on your wedding day. Can you picture a groomsman forgetting to pack his socks? Are you worried the best...

Hi There! I have 5 ladies in my bridal party and have decided against having a MOH. I’ve already decided that my brother will be the one to act as the witness during the ceremony but I wanted to have...

Hi Everyone, Wondering how much do you approximately spend on flowers and a backdrop? I have about 20 centrepieces, 4 BM bouquets, 6 boutonnières, 2 ceremony floral arrangements, reception backdrop,...

Hi everyone, How many times did you meet with your officiant prior to your wedding? We met a vendor at a wedding show that seemed really good, but they don't seem as involved as I thought the...