Activity of Shla

I have a hypothetical question for you all. A friend brought it up and I am just curious haha. So say you bought your wedding dress at the beginning of 2017 to get married in October of 2017. But life happened and you had to postpone the wedding....

After the wonderful advice from a bunch of you lovely ladies and gentlemen, our wedding style is going to be dark, moody and gothic vibe. However we love the idea of a brunch!! Any suggestions on how to make that work? Or would that be super weird?

So this is really a pointless post, just need to actually vent some frustration. So backstory, I've always been a super dark kinda person. Love Halloween, forensics, etc.. So I love Halloween and dark themed weddings, of course. This is my second...

Hey all, So we've opted for a backyard BBQ at my parents farm. The date we want is June 20th 2020. I'm worried about rain and heat. Mostly heat as we have easy ups at my moms for regular family gatherings that will work for rain. Does anyone have any...

Hey all. We aren't having a traditional party reception, we see no point in it. But we're having a hard time deciding between a brunch reception or an afternoon/early evening reception. Any suggestions? We have a lot of kids and retired people on the...

Has anyone said forget it to the bigger wedding they were planning and just opted for a small, at home ceremony and reception? I'm at that point where I want to now. Life is kind of a jerk to us so planning has not been smooth and I'm honestly over...

What is yours? Long or short? If it's short, was there a reason you chose that? Have you ever wished you had more time to plan? Did you find it stressful? If long, did you have a reason? Do you ever get tired of waiting? Are you enjoying it and is it...

I wanted to get married on like a random Tuesday, in the morning, with a brunch to follow. I have no idea why, just a weird quirk, I guess. But I've had to settle for a Friday. Anyone having a weekday wedding? Why'd you choose it and what's your...

How did you guys come up with your budgets? We're having a small, 20-30 person wedding and are having a hard time figuring out what a reasonable budget is for this size. Any suggestions?

We're having a tiny wedding. Like 25-30 people and that's stretching it. Most vendors don't even take us seriously it's so small. Actually the more I think about it the more I get confused on what we wanna do. Anyone else out there with a super tiny...

How did you know what style of wedding you wanted? How did you decide on all the big and small details? Where did your vivid, beautiful vision of your day come from? Everyone seems to have such beautiful, vivid visions of their perfect day and I'm...

What part of the planning process was it that gave you the "Ohh it's actually happening/real!" Moment? I'm finding I haven't had it and it's like it isn't happening. Can't seem to shake it!

For me it's vendors flaking on us or not following our wishes. Gives me major anxiety. It's so bad it actually makes me not want a wedding at all! We have had venues fall through on us because after we booked a bigger wedding approached them so they...

Has anyone had/having a small, backyard wedding? We have considered it heavily as we have so fre people that matter to us. We'd love some real life experiences. What did you like about it? What was the hardest part of the planning? Any regrets?