The plus 1!!

I'm relieved that our plans for +1s seem to match what others are doing!

I only put us 1 if I know they're seeing someone and it's somewhat serious, or they won't know anyone so they're not alone and bored.

We are only inviting +1 to couples that are in long term relationships

Thank you Breanna, for asking this question as I didn't even think of the plus +1 option. I hope all works out for you.

Hi Breanna!

I'm happy you're asking this question, it's a very important thing to consider when planning your wedding. We all know making a guest list can be a hard task! And especially when it comes to +1. When it comes to etiquette, not everyone has to have a +1.

I agree with Valerie that guests who are also a couple should be invited with both of their names on the invitation. And I think it's a great idea to allow a +1 for guests who do not know anyone at the wedding except for the bride and groom.

But you're the expert here because when it comes to your budget, you're the only one who knows how many guests and +1 you can actually afford. You can also use the My Guests tool to make your guest list easier to manage.

I know it can be hard to make those choices when making your guest list, but sometimes it's also good to be able to laugh about it! Have a look at this discussion:

10 things couples think about when making their guest list

You can also see Amanda's discussion who was also wondering what to do about hers. Cant agree on guest numbers

I was also curious about what type of venue you ended up choosing after your discussion What works?

Were the tips useful? Let us know how it goes.

How many guests do you plan on inviting at your wedding?

Hi Kristy! Welcome to the community!

I'm glad to see your comments in here! It's really good to see how you decided to plan things for your wedding!! I see that you're getting married at the end of this month! Congratulations! How do you feel about your big day coming so soon? Is there anything we can help you with?

If you have any doubt or question, let us know! You can create a discussion anytime and we'll be there for you. I'll also always be there to give you inspiration or insights if you need it before the big day - and even after!

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We just went through this as well. We have a fairly small guest list and tried very hard to keep numbers down. We did not give anyone a +1. All of our invitations we addressed to who they were for. Everyone with a long term significant other, are both invited, otherwise, sorry but my numbers do not allow you to bring some random!If you do put an empty spot on the rsvp for how many, DO right in the number yourself!!!

The etiquette is anyone in a relationship should have their significant other invited by name (rather than "+1"), as for single guests, I went on a case by case basis. If a guest would ONLY know me and/or my fiance, then I gave them a +1, and if guests are travelling from very far I gave them a +1. Mainly I just thought as a guest I wouldn't want to go to a wedding alone or have to travel alone and spend the night in a hotel by myself so I wouldn't ask my guests to do that.

Hope that helps!