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I always thought the wedding party is supposed to plan the stag and doe but my bridal party has been giving me a lot of push back saying it's my responsibility. Everything I google says its the bridal party...

I am having a hard time paying these high amounts for a limo or party bus for my bridal party when no one is going to see us in it and we only need the ride one way. Does anyone have any alternative solutions for getting 8+ people to the wedding?

I am in a sorta unusual situation as me and my fiance both have divorced parents who have remarried, so we have 8 parents. But i'm curious what normally happens before the ceremony. Where do the grooms mom get ready? Does his dad need to be with him...