Activity of Amanda

Can anyone give me a bit of insight onto the "order" of a ceremony? From what I have gathered it goes; intro-vows-rings-signing-kiss.. does this sound right? I've also read that the signing isn't supposed to be done during the ceremony but...

Any of y'all having or had a family member or friend officiant their wedding? My future brother in law is officiating our wedding and he's applied for his temporary marriage commissioner license and has received that- but now we're a bit confused on...