What wedding decision did you make first?

The first few decisions we made took forever, we chose the date first (due to his deployment schedule) then the venue.

We decided on the date and location first!

We decided on our venue first.

We decided on a venue first.

The first annoying wedding question we got was "why are you rushing things? Is there something you need to tell us?" We got married 9 months and 5 days after we got engaged which apparently meant people were entitled to ask awkward questions lol

I made the decision of who to marry!

And then it was the time of year. And then venue.

Photographer, then venue and date.

So far the only thing we have decided on is the date, and even that isn't set in stone.

Will definitely be January 2021. Tentative date at this point is January 21, but that's flexible.

We are doing a DW and can't get pricing for either our guests or the wedding itself for pretty much another year so we are kind of in limbo.

View quoted message Literally us!! hahahaha!!! Goodluck friend

Our first decision was the general time we'd want to get married (summer 2019), then budget!

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I am in a similar situation Emily! I have been with my fiance for over five years, and we are both 24 (although I could easily pass for 18). Everyone mentions or adds in their opinion that we are too young to be married - but we've already been through so much together and have lived together for a year now!

I wish you all the best!

As soon as we got engaged, my first decision was when and where we were going to get married. Then funnily enough, we ended up changing the year, season, and the venue! It was really funny how everything worked out (for the better!)

The date! But to be honest I've had that picked out since about 2 weeks into us dating 😂

After that was my colour palette!

We had the venue and the wedding date before I even had a ring lol!! We were waiting to officially announced our engagement for family drama reasons, but I knew how fast venues booked up so we booked early anyway

The most annoying question is less of a question more of a statement. When people hear we're engaged they 99% of the time say, first, "How old are you?" (We're 23) followed quickly by, "Wow, you're so young!" Yes random person whoes oppinion doesn't matter. I'm glad you reminded me of my own age. I had almost forgotten. Forget the 6 years we've spent loving and supporting eachother.... people are just great :p

Our first decision was our venue.. after being engaged for two years we finally decided to visit a hall and set our date a week later!

Our first decision was a wedding or eloping- luckily we had spoken about it before and were both leaning towards an elopement. So we decided that within the 1st month

I think first we decided on a theme, though thst was pretty much decided before we got engaged!
Who my maid of honor was going to be was probably my first decision after engagement. We planned wedding date around vacation time

My fiancé and I started with our guest list; we determined roughly how many people we wanted to invite, and started to look at venues online that would work within our estimated budget and number of guests.

We knew we wanted it to be on a 24th, that date has a lot of meaning to us so we did what we needed to have our date on a 24th!
Annoying question was always "When and where"... like we knew a 24th but calm down we've been engaged for a few weeks we dont have everything done yet hahah!!

We went on our first cruise when he proposed and we decided we were definitely going on a cruise for the honeymoon! Then when we got back to reality we picked our date and then our location (what city).

Our first decision was where to go for our honey moon. Sounds funny, but we were on a 2 month backpacking journey through Europe when he proposed, and we were already thinking about where we were going next.

Our first and series of first annoying questions was when we were actually going to get married. We decided to have a long engagement and were in no rush to put an official date to it. We still get asked this question and the why so long question when people find out our wedding still isn't until next year.

The first decision we made was to get custom rings Since I proposed with bracelets I got to design my engagement ring and he designed our wedding bands.

I'm with Brittany on the most annoying question.... It took us 2 months before we found a venue that we fell in love with. For that little time in between we kept getting asked "when is the big day????" .... Like... chill. Let us enjoy being engaged please.

We picked the venue first, which also secured our date. But, after our engagement, the first thing we decided was our guest list

We choose out date first

Location date and then venue. In that order 😊

The date and venue since we both could afford a small wedding. Everything else followed after to complete.

We picked the date first, then the location.

Date- we picked a wedding date within the first two weeks

Wasn't sure if I wanted a wedding ceremony. Then I decided I wanted to celebrate with close friends and family.

The first wedding decision was my dress

I think it was either the date or type of venue. We were talking about both at the same time but I'm not sure what we agreed on first.
We knew we wanted 2019 but we're back and forth on an exact date, I think we decided the date within the first week of our engagement.
The venue we knew we didn't want the traditional banquet hall etc we wanted something different and something that is us, we decided we wanted a barn, would settle for a farm or vineyard too. Luckily we did get the perfect barn, but I think we decided on the date before anything.

We chose the date first, since our window was very small (pretty much only August) and we wanted to secure a venue and tell people to save the date as soon as possible (we had a 6-months engagement).

The city. We had thought about Arizona, Whistler, the Okanagan... but our first official decision was keeping it local. Then we had the budget discussion with parents, which let to time of year, and venue.

First annoying wedding question: "So when's the wedding?" Less than 24 hours after getting engaged...