A all the way. I’ve even rationalized that I’m more comfortable spending money on a “family weekend” than “wedding”, so that’s what I’m calling it. But in all fairness I will eventually try to have a budget...just one that satisfies my wish list of must haves as well.
I am definitely #2, but they aren't asking me they are asking my family and then my family asks me. I also have my sister questioning it when I say no.
I started with a might be "budget", then the budget was quickly scrapped and ended up doing it the way you did it. I'm #1, #2 except it's "if your relative is invited", and #3.
Definitely 3. I have a magical Pinterest wedding planned.... and we will see what actually follows through when I go to make those detail things... haha.
A. Definitely A... I don’t have a budget. We added in the numbers to wedding wire, and said “ok, this is about what it will be” lol. Probably a bad way to do things lol. What would yours be?