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Lynnie
WeddingWire Admin October 2016 North Carolina

Cohabitation - Traditional or Modern?

Lynnie, on April 9, 2018 at 11:10 Posted in Living together 0 34

When are you and your partner moving in together?

Did you take a more modern approach and live together before the engagement, or were you very traditional and waited until after the wedding day?


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34 Comments

Latest activity by Robyn, on November 1, 2018 at 22:00
  • Robyn
    Super June 2019 Ontario
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    Traditional, mostly because of our families though. Modern in every other sense, and I am actually kind of nervous that the wedding will coincide with moving in together. It feels like two big events getting smooshed together, and I worry it will be overwhelming for us both. That being said, we have vacationed together, and spent a week away at friends' places here and there, so we are very aware of things like our respective tidiness levels, chore-sharing, and alone-time requirements. Hopefully we'll be too excited by the novelty to be overwhelmed.

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  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    I moved into his home and country surroundings. Time went by and made our apartment after selling the home modern and moved again to same area as before different section. He seems to like the granny antique décor as I wanted modern. Modern is going to be done for sure.

    As for before or while being engaged. We weren't engaged though he had 2 rings that didn't fit him and it fit me. We decided I would keep it and 2 1/2 years later, he said he didn't mind a small wedding as the ring was the proposal.

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  • Kaisha
    Super March 2019 Nova Scotia
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    Modern, we have officially lived together for 2 years before getting engaged.

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  • Jennifer
    Frequent user February 2024 Ontario
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    Totally modern, we meet when he moved into the apt above mine and about a month later my roommate had to move out so I moved him in and we've been living together for 9 years. My parents are divorced so I always wanted living together first.
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  • Michelle
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    We officially moved in together after only two months dating. A year later and newly engaged so it worked out!

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  • Jessie
    Expert September 2018 Ontario
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    Modern. We lived in separate rooms as roommates and then started dating so naturally we just moved in together before we got engaged.

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  • Emily
    Devoted November 2018 Ontario
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    Please excuse the last response I gave you. I hit reply before I finished typing lol. I


    That's so awesome to hear! We're saving it all for marriage as well! We're also young by today's standards (23) and started dating when we were 17 Smiley smile I'm happy to see there are others like us. Stay strong!
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  • Emily
    Devoted November 2018 Ontario
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    That's so awesome to hear! We're saving it all for marriage as well! We're also young by today's st
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  • Sara
    Devoted October 2018 Ontario
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    Modern!
    we moved in together two years in August and will be getting married in October.
    We both thought living together was the most obvious path for us.
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  • Rosalyn
    Devoted August 2018 Alberta
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    Modern
    been together over 8 years
    lived together 7 years
    engaged 2 1/2 years
    wedding in 3 months!

    Im glad I lived with him first. So much to teach this man!
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  • Denai
    Curious June 2019 Alberta
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    Traditional! Got engaged after dating for 3 and a half years and will be married after 4 and a half years of being together. Saving everything for marriage! We are young Smiley smile

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  • Leah
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    Moved in together in July.
    Marrying next April.
    Pragmaticism trumps romanticism.
    (But he’s my best friend and I wouldn’t have it any other way)
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  • A
    Frequent user October 2018 Ontario
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    Moved in together beginning of this year, got engaged a month later and getting married in October (8 months after engagement)
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  • J
    Devoted June 2019 Ontario
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    Traditional. We are moving in after.
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  • Alexandra
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    Modern! We’ve lived together a year on May 1st and we’ll have been living together for two years by the time our wedding comes next year!
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  • Kaisha
    Super March 2019 Nova Scotia
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    Modern I guess, although my parents did the same thing. We lived together for a while then moved to another province together. Living together definitely helped us truly get to know each other.

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  • Jennifer
    Super August 2018 Alberta
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    Modern. We moved in together after dating for six months and we’ll be married around our three year anniversary. Smiley heart
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  • Stephanie
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    Traditional! Dating for over 4 years and living apart! (however only about 5 minutes apart haha!)

    We will be looking to get a house before the wedding... still not sure if we will move in together before we are married or save it for right after!

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  • Brittany
    British Columbia
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    Very modern. We lived about 45 minutes apart when we started "dating"... so we already mostly lived together right away... then he officially moved in about 2 months in, and we got our first place together after 6 months.

    We have now been living together over 5 years (6 years by the wedding).

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Admin October 2016 North Carolina
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    Modern! We had been living together for at least 2 years before the wedding Smiley heart

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  • Erin
    Master September 2017 Ontario
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    Modern. We'd been living together for over a year when we got married.

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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
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    Modern. We've been living together 4.5 years and it will be a month shy of 6 years when we get married Smiley smile

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  • Michelle
    Super September 2018 Alberta
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    Modern, living together for almost 5 yrs

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  • Gina
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    Modern.... we’ve been living together for almost 9 years..
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  • Jen
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    Modern.. we moved in together less than a year into dating.

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  • Ashley
    Frequent user October 2021 Manitoba
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    Modern we have been living together for 3 years before he proposed.
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  • Becky
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    Modern- bought a house before we got engaged. lived together over a year before happened

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  • Amanda
    Super August 2018 Alberta
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    Modern - We will have already lived together for 6 years when we get married.
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  • Holly
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    Modern. We moved into very early in the relationship, 4 months. Then about 8 months later he popped the question!
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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
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    Traditional. I will move in with him after the wedding until our leases are up a month later. Then we will find a place together.

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  • Stacey
    Frequent user October 2019 Ontario
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    We are going to be a mix of both. Currently we are traditional - living separately right now but that is because I am in school and it doesn't make sense to move in together if I can't contribute towards the living expenses. At the end of the month i should be graduating school, but we are moving into a condo together in October which will be one year before the wedding. At that point we will be modern Smiley smile

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  • Chloe
    Super May 2018 Ontario
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    Traditional. We live apart. I’m starting to move my stuff over, but I won’t be living with him until after the wedding.
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