Your wedding in numbers! How many people in your wedding party?

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I'm going overkill on calling him my husband on our honeymoon, I guarantee it... Haha.

View quoted message Yes.. I need to start practicing the word husband! Haha and that totally makes sense, I’ll have to run it by my future husband and see what he thinks

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That's exactly why we are doing it. You don't spend too much time sitting at your table, so I think it will be nice to have that time just with my (then) husband *eeeee*.... For dinner & speeches. Plus I like when people are all directed towards the bride/groom, not distracted by other people at the head table. And our table would be super lopsided anyways. Haha.

View quoted message Those are awesome ideas! I’m kind of thinking about a sweetheart table too.. some oh my bridal party’s dates won’t know anyone at the wedding and I’d really prefer that everyone is comfortable so we’ll have to figure something out.. plus i really want to make sure I have quality time with my fiancé in the day of so that might be a good idea too

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I completely agree! We are having the guys enter from the side first, not going down the aisle, so the girls will walk in on their own. Walking out, each girl will walk between 2 guys.

The only way my OCD brain is functioning with this is the fact that it's perfectly doubled.

Also, all but 2 of our bridal party are in relationships with other people, so we aren't doing a head table. We are having a sweetheart table, and 3 "bridal party" tables, where they can sit with their significant others.

View quoted message There’s really no law on how they stand and walk down the aisle, you could always have the guys pair 2 to 1 of your ladies? Just a thought, I completely understand where you’re coming from. Oh the stresses 🙈

4 bridesmaids, 4 groomsmen, MOH & BM, 2 flower girls, & 1 ringbearer! So 15 including my fiancé and I ☺️

As of right now we have four, but we still haven't decided if we are going to have any children in our wedding.

Ughhh my worse nightmare right here. I have 4 girls, and my FH has 8... EIGHT!!! groomsmen. I've suggested getting bleachers for his side of the aisle.... And I'm only kind of kidding. They will be in two rows staggered. It was the hill he was willing to die on... so that's the way it's going to be.

We have 4 Groomsmen and 3 Bridesmaids. Unfortunately one of my girls can't make it.

We are only having MOHs. We didn't really have friends we knew well enough that we wanted as bridesmaids and our small guest list would look strange with most of our friends in the party.

We had 6 bridesmaids and 6 groomsmen however 3 months before the wedding we have had 7 drop out for various reasons. So now down to 2 bridesmaids and 3 groomsmen

5 of each bridesmaids/groomsmen

3 flower girls (this isn't for sure)

2 ring bears (this isn't for sure)

Ushers we haven't decided on who they will be!

9-10 depending on one of the groomsmen being able to make it from Australia!

Including us there will be 9 !

There are 8 people in our wedding party, with us makes 10

Including us, there are 11.

We have 10 people in our wedding party

There are 11 people in the wedding party 2 ring bearers and one flower girl. Plus our dog.

6 bridesmaids & 6 groomsmen (we have a lot of friends!)

I am doing a Harry Potter wedding, so I am having 2 grooms men (blue and green) and 2 bridesmaids (red and yellow). I decided not the have a flower girl or ring bearer, because I'm keeping my wedding 18+. I didn't want to ask any of my friends to borrow their children only to tell them that they can't come to the party after.

When I go to weddings I always watch as board children run around causing mayhem or their parent spend the entire event trying to keep them entertained, then leave at 9pm because they have to put their kids down to bed.

Our wedding is going to be so small that there's not really a wedding party. I have a flower girl, my mother is standing up with me, my brother is walking me down the aisle, and my FH is having the dog function as the ring bearer and his best man

In a perfect world, it would just be the two of us, however, my fiancé wants to have several groomsmen, therefore we've had to adjust accordingly.

Most-likely, we will have - including us - 16 people. This is not a concerte number tho, since I think it's way too many for the size of our wedding (100-120).

View quoted message My fiance's mom keeps telling me to "just add someone" well "just" adding someone does not work. I have my favourite girls by my side and I'm happy, so is my fiance 😊 as long as we are happy!

View quoted message Of course! We keep getting told “add another groomsman or remove a bridesmaid! Even your side out!” But we asked all the important people. We couldn’t imagine asking someone as an “after thought” or asking someone to step down—we’re happy with our numbers too!

View quoted message My family keeps asking me how it works and I always have answers, I love the way we have it and it doesn't have to be even! Glad someone understands!! 😁

View quoted message You have uneven numbers too! I’m glad I’m not the only one!

5 bridesmaids, 4 groomsmen, 1 flower girl and 1 ring bearer.

3 each side, 1 flower girl, 1 ring bearer.

Five bridesmaids/groomsmen, a flower girl and two ring bearers.

5 bridesmaids/groomsmen and a flower girl!

14 including myself and FH. More than I originally wanted but it’ll be a giant fun party group!