Would you rather... plan your wedding in two months or two years?

I had it mostly done in two months and that wasn’t even trying. I’d go 2 months any time. 0 time to stress

2 months, the only reason we didn't plan a close wedding was so guests had time to figure things out.

2 years. I already took 13 months. And I know when I got engaged I thought, it has to be next winter because next Summer is too far away... but I'm over 2 months away from the big day (78 days) and I'm already stressing about getting everything done.

Plus I ordered my dress, and I adore it, and even coming in months early it took 3 months to arrive!

Two months! Two years without being able to speed up doesn’t sound appealing, and chances are the money would be allocated better the less time I had to think about it because I wouldn’t focus on trivial details (and my fiancé and I’s guest list would probably be even smaller!)

2 months, I agree with those who said that they change their opinions too often to plan for such a large amount of time

We are having a two year engagement and it has been such a blessing. We booked all our vendors ASAP and have been messaging them and meeting with them for months now.
we are currently just over 6 months away and all our vendor packages are formed up, paid for, and organized. We have 90% of things done and/or planned and we are just breezing through the rest of the stuff because we have no time crunch. 10/10 recommend a longer engagement if you want a medium-large wedding (ours is 115-120 people)

2 years and save the money over to pay within the time frame and get all vendors confirmed for avaialablility.

Definitely would rather have 2 years so that I could book all of the vendors that I really wanted to make the wedding beautiful

2 months. I keep changing my mind on everything because i planned too ahead of time.

If I had a bottomless budget, 2 months. If not, 2 years (hence the reason why FH and I are having a nearly 2 year engagement lol).

I think I’d rather 2 months. Less time = less options and quicker decisions, and less stress and then boom! Married!

Started planning our Wedding In Mid June of this year. I think it's up to every individual how fast or slow they wanna get married, myself the longer it takes the more I get done, now the real question here is that, I was married before, so I know of all that needs to be done. I'm excited about everything that has been done, I'm only now getting help from everyone that's in my party. Mostly having problems with the girls dresses. Being July I thought to the knee, it seems that their all wanting long. I mentioned to all that as long as their Blue that's great. Because I myself will be probably, no I know I'll be sweating.

I’m currently in the middle of planning a wedding with 2 months notice. We are doing a Vegas wedding with a package so not relying on many different vendors and fewer than 10 guests attending. The thought of some people taking a year or more honestly stresses me out. Desicions are being made quickly and I should have everything done with a month to spare so I can actually just enjoy the day. It’s also great for keeping other people’s opinions out of it and just doing what we want.

2 years for a few reasons.

1) everything tends to book a year in advance

2) more time to pay things off

3) if you have a certain vision you don't want to just settle for who is available, you want your first or second choice!

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I agree!!!! if money wasn't the object. definitely 2 months. we are only 1.5 years due to pay things off slowly.

Definitely 2 years! I would be so stressed out if I had to plan it on two years. I’m the worst at making decisions on the spot.

Two years, definitely! More time to plan, more time to save.

2 years... it's been 3 years but I think I could do it in 2 lol

We are doing it in 2 years! Got engaged May 2nd, 2018 and will be getting married June 6th, 2020!

Oh my.. definitely 2 years please!! 2 months would be way too stressful. Full on bridezilla mode, no lie!!

Two months. I pretty much knew what I wanted so even 9 months seemed a little long.

2 years. I am having only a 10 month engagement and the stress as it is is killing me!! COULD NOT IMAGINE 2 MONTHS

2 years that way you can save.

2 years! I dont like rushing and stress...

If I financially could do it, and I had my choice of vendors I’d do it in two months. I like getting things done. But realistically my fiancé and I need the two years between when we got engaged and when we got married.

Two years! Lol I've needed the four years we have. I can't imagine it in 2 months!

Two years, since that's what we are doing anyways! I cannot imagine only 2 months.

I’m going to go the total opposite here and say 2 months.. less time to second guess myself! I’m good at thinking quick on my feet and I wouldn’t have time to stress over silly little details that no one will care about. We have planned our wedding in a year (and changed plans completely 9 months in. Now with 6 months to go, I’m ready to just be married already

2 years! I hate feeling stressed and rushed!

By the time we get married we will have been planning for almost 2 years, and I would not change that at all. It has given us time to enjoy the engagement, and slowly book vendors as we go.

Two years! Which is what we have been doing! And since we have been doing it I know for sure I'd never want to do that in 2 months. Plus we are in no rush, we will love each other in two months and two years!

Two years! Though it currently feels like I'm slowly ripping a band-aid off right now.

2 Years. Definitely two years. I will have been engaged for a total of 1 year and 9 months and let me tell you - you don't need that much time for planning but it sure helps. Plus we wouldn't have been able to have a wedding social, or even have our custom rings ready!