Would you rather... plan your wedding in 3 months or 3 years?

3 months. it would be stressful but 3 years is way too long of an engagement.

I would rather have 3 months!

3 months! As much as I have only been with my FH for just over a year - we want kids as soon as the wedding day is over! If I had to wait 3 years to start trying for kids then we wouldn't end up having kids until he was in his mid 30's! I mean - I wouldn't be, but he has wanted kids since he was in his early 20's.

3 months better over years

3 months almost actually did that :s

Definitely 3 months.. I am not patient enough to wait 3 years...

3 months!!

3 months!

The wait would drive me insane

3 years. Tons of time to save money can carefully plan everything. Been planning this wedding for almost 2 now so another yr won't kill me

Definitely 3 months! We're having a 6 months engagement, and it already feels long, so I can't imagine waiting for years.

3 years! It took me so long to make some of my first initial decisions, so if I had to do it in 3 months I'd have major anxiety lol.

I would definitely pick 3 years if I had to! 3 months is not nearly enough time to pull off the wedding of our dreams.

3 years! The stress would kill me. By the time we get married it'll be a 2 year engagement anyway.

3 months...I would probably change my mind a million times if I had 3 years!!!

View quoted message Likewise. money & time were key factors, along with our date which carries meaning in my culture.

3 months, I can do small and intimate wedding. Looking for vendors can be tough but I've seen cancellations and great discount for those who takes it.

Definitely 3 months. 3 years feels way too long and I would much rather just do something small and simple in 3 months.

3 months! I don't think I would want to wait that long and we would like to have kids shortly

3 years! For sure. No way could I handle all the stress I’ve endured planning this wedding crammed into 3 months!

3 months! Less time to add all those little extra things that just keep adding up.

3 years! Long engagements for the win!

I have/am still planning our wedding over three years, and it’s not so bad!

3 months as well. If financially I could do it 3 months.

3 months !!! I wouldn’t want to wait or think of wedding planning for 3 years...oh boy.

3 months, I couldn’t I imagine ever doing that lol but I am way too impatient to wait 3 years

3 months! We would elope and then have a party!

If it wasnt for the money factor 3 months.
Biggest reason we are over 15 months from date is to save up.

3 months! I did it in 9 months, so while it would have been hectic at 3 months, I would have been able to pull it off!

If I had to pick, 3 months. But it would be city hall and back to his parents home for dinner with our friends and family. 3 years I'd probably continue the plan I currently have..but it's such a long time..

3 months, I feel like most of the important stuff could be done in that time and anything else wouldn't really matter. 3 years would have me overthinking and second-guessing everything.

3 months! Just have to make quick decisions. 3 years would just seem to drag on.

3 months!! The stress of planning over 3 years would kill me!!! I already planned my wedding in about 7-8 months so it wouldn't be too bad lol