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Lynnie
WeddingWire Admin October 2016 North Carolina

Would you rather... have no wedding party, or a 30 person wedding party?

Lynnie, on April 23, 2018 at 12:00 Posted in Plan a wedding 0 31
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This question's a tough one! Are you torn between more people = more problems and drama, or trying to include everyone?!

Would you rather have no wedding party, or a 30 person wedding party?


Would you rather... have no wedding party, or a 30 person wedding party? 1

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31 Comments

Latest activity by Jessie, on June 19, 2018 at 13:44
  • Jessie
    Expert September 2018 Ontario
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    No wedding party. We only have 6 in ours and it's hard enough with that many.

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  • Clarissa
    Expert October 2018 Saskatchewan
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    No wedding party. As it is we only have 4 (2 and 2)
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  • Marcia
    Super August 2018 Manitoba
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    No wedding party!

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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
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    No wedding party. I don't think that I would be able to come up with enough people! As is I have a small group of friends and believe it or not - even less cousins.

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  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    30 guests wedding
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  • Amanda
    Curious July 2019 Alberta
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    No wedding party. I think I am going to struggle with 4 !

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  • Sara
    Devoted October 2018 Ontario
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    Have no wedding party!

    30 people is way to much.

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  • Michelle
    Super September 2018 Alberta
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    No wedding party.

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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
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    No wedding party! I'm already having mild anxiety over having a 10 person wedding party, so 30 people would destroy me lol.

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  • Jen
    VIP June 2018 Ontario
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    NO WEDDING PARTY! lol we have a wedding party of 6 and wish that we went with nobody but ourselves and our flower girl (my daughter)

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  • Alexis
    Devoted October 2018 Ontario
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    No wedding party
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  • Leah
    VIP April 2019 British Columbia
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    No wedding party.
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  • Becky
    VIP September 2019 Ontario
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    I would rather none then 30, just seems like too much people and that would be huge cost

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  • Amanda
    Super August 2018 Alberta
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    No wedding party. We actually almost went with this option. But then we thought we’d be missing out on an aspect of what a wedding “should be”. So we have a small party.
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  • Meghan
    Frequent user August 2018 Newfoundland and Labrador
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    As much as I love having a wedding party I’d much rather have no one stand than 30 people!
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  • Sarah
    Beginner February 2020 Alberta
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    No wedding party, 30 people is way too much

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  • Valérie
    VIP September 2019 Quebec
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    No wedding party, which is what we’re doing!
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  • Mandy
    Devoted July 2019 Alberta
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    No wedding party
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  • Jennifer
    Super August 2018 Alberta
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    Lol no wedding party I don’t even have that many friends
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  • Jessica
    Super March 2018 Ontario
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    No wedding party! While I had a fabulous drama-free bridal party, coordinating 30 people would be madness and certainly create drama.

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  • Holly
    VIP June 2019 Ontario
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    No wedding party!!! I have 4 and he has 5 and that's more than enough for us! Anymore we'd go insane!
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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
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    No wedding party! Even 5 on each side would be too many for me!
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  • H
    Curious September 2018 Ontario
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    No wedding party, I can't imagine trying to wrangle that many people.

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  • Erin
    Master September 2017 Ontario
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    No wedding party for sure! Who could even deal with that many people and opinions!?

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  • Brittany
    British Columbia
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    No party for sure... for the exact reason I'm dealing with now. I wanted 3 girls (sisters and best friend), my FH has EIGHT groomsmen... so I picked a 4th girl so that at least we'd have 2 guys per girl for the recessional and photos... It's the one thing I don't like, but also the hill my fiance was willing to die on... so... we're coping.

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  • Alexandra
    VIP November 2019 British Columbia
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    No wedding party for sure! 30 people is a lot! I don’t think I could handle the stress of coordinating that many people!
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  • J
    Devoted June 2019 Ontario
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    That's way too many people. I'd rather have no wedding party.
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  • Stephanie
    VIP May 2019 Ontario
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    No party for sure between the two... and for the main reason you can see in that image posted, you can barely see the Bride and Groom. It's their day but they are so overshadowed by the huge party. No thanks! Not for us!

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  • Chloe
    Super May 2018 Ontario
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    Yikes. No wedding party. I would not want so many people.
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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    No wedding party, I have no idea who we'd ask for our 30 person party!!

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  • Gina
    Super April 2019 Alberta
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    Have no wedding party. I really wanted to have no wedding party for a bunch of reasons, just have friends sit with us at the head table. But FH really wanted a wedding party, so we will end up doing it
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