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Who is the planner in your relationship?

Lynnie, on September 25, 2017 at 10:43 Posted in Plan a wedding 0 44
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This week we're talking all about your relationship with your fiance(e), and asking who each question best describes - you or your fiance(e) ?


Planning a wedding requires you to be super organized and very on top of things!! Who is the better planner so far for your wedding - you or your fiance?


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Next question: Who is inviting more guests?


44 Comments

Latest activity by Jessica, on February 21, 2020 at 14:35
  • Jessica
    Curious August 2021 Alberta
    Jessica ·
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    ME 100% lol no further comments needed Smiley xd

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  • Amanda
    Devoted July 2020 Ontario
    Amanda ·
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    I am the planner, but he is more organized typically. I do the research and present the ideas or I list the things that need to be done and he picks one to do. He's actually really great at planning as well, he just needs me to point him I the right direction of what to do Smiley smile
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  • Steph
    Expert June 2022 Ontario
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    That would be me! I do all the research and present ideas, but we make all final decisions together and then I nail down the details. Also, I'm way more organized when it comes to these things lol
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  • Kaisha
    Super March 2019 Nova Scotia
    Kaisha ·
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    Me but only because he is deployed so I am left to make a lot of the decisions.

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  • Brittany
    British Columbia
    Brittany ·
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    Me for sure. About everything... to the point where I drive him nuts. He only plans ahead if it's something he wants/needs to do...

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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
    Bianca ·
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    Me! I would be scared to let him take over planning this.

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  • Leanne
    Expert September 2018 Ontario
    Leanne ·
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    95% me, surprisingly my husband was very interested in helping with the planning, but as the date got closer he got less and less interested.

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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
    Tori ·
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    Me. I like lists and spreadsheets Smiley tongue

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  • Sarah
    Beginner August 2019 Alberta
    Sarah ·
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    I am I also hired a wedding planner
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  • Jessie
    Expert September 2018 Ontario
    Jessie ·
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    Definitely me. He is a procrastinator haha

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  • Becky
    VIP September 2019 Ontario
    Becky ·
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    I am the organized planner! he doesn't see why you need to book more then 6 months in advance lol

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  • Karen
    Expert September 2018 Ontario
    Karen ·
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    I am the planner. But i do seek advice from FH so he feels included to the planning.
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  • Vinod
    Featured August 2017 Ontario
    Vinod ·
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    I always am
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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
    Bianca ·
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    100% me! I am naturally more organized, therefore it didn’t surprise either of us when I began planning ASAP lol
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  • Bethany
    Super July 2018 Alberta
    Bethany ·
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    Definitely me!! I ask his opinion on everything though because I want him to be included in everything!
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  • Sonja
    VIP September 2017 Ontario
    Sonja ·
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    I was the one who planned almost everything. We chose the venue and the food together, and that's about all.

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  • Shaina
    Frequent user April 2019 Ontario
    Shaina ·
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    It's looking like I am, lol. But I'm sure he'll help with some stuff.
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  • Nicole
    Curious September 2018 Prince Edward Island
    Nicole ·
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    Me, but he helps a lot and gives a lot of input.

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  • R
    Curious June 2018 Quebec
    Rouguiatou ·
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    Again we plan and discuss everything together (except for wedding attires of course!)

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  • Barbara
    Devoted July 2018 Ontario
    Barbara ·
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    Mostly me, but he has helped a lot. i told him i wouldn't do it if i didn't get his help.


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  • Lisa
    VIP May 2018 Ontario
    Lisa ·
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    Definately me! Without question!
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  • Michelle
    Super September 2018 Alberta
    Michelle ·
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    ME! He just goes along with ideas or says no. There are times he puts ideas into things but that only comes up when I mention something like center pieces

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  • Michelle
    Curious October 2018 Ontario
    Michelle ·
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    We both are because I have a hard time making decisions on my own! His input is so important - but I definitely do most of the research!

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  • Vanessa
    Expert August 2018 Manitoba
    Vanessa ·
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    Me! And asking him too! I have my wedding planning certificate and apparently am driving him nuts.
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  • Valérie
    VIP September 2019 Quebec
    Valérie ·
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    Oh, I am! I find it adorable when he says "I really want to help!" and then freaks out a bit when he sees how much thought/work goes into it.

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  • Diana
    Curious December 2017 Quebec
    Diana ·
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    I am definitely!!

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  • Lee Ann
    Curious August 2018 Ontario
    Lee Ann ·
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    I'm planning s lot of it with help of him and his mom and maid of honour his sister!
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  • Chloe
    Super May 2018 Ontario
    Chloe ·
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    I've been planning. He's in charge of planning honeymoon details and he's been doing a good job on that!
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  • Jenn
    Frequent user September 2018 Ontario
    Jenn ·
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    Me for sure! He is more than willing to help, but I'm a control freak and gave a natural knack for planning!
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  • Alanah
    Frequent user July 2018 British Columbia
    Alanah ·
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    Definitely me! I show he examples of things I like to get his opinion but it's ultimately my choice.
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  • Erin
    Master September 2017 Ontario
    Erin ·
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    Mostly me. I like having plans and backup plans lol

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  • Amber
    Devoted September 2018 Alberta
    Amber ·
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    Me, but mostly my wedding planner! We both work a lot and really long hours so hiring a planner has been the best money I have spent so far. We make all the finial decisions but she keeps all the contracts and paper trails. I have a notebook for décor and other ideas.

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