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Lynnie
WeddingWire Admin October 2016 North Carolina

Who did you share your engagement news with first?

Lynnie, on July 8, 2019 at 09:05 Posted in Before the wedding 0 37

Who was the first person that you told about your engagement? Was it one of your friends, or a family member?


Who did you share your engagement news with first? 1

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Latest activity by BunnyBride, on August 12, 2019 at 09:25
  • BunnyBride
    Super August 2334 Nova Scotia
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    Family. He proposed on Christmas. We had planned to do the calls to wish everyone a Merry Christmas right after finishing opening presents. He proposed as the last present. Made sense to stick with the original plan in sharing the big news!

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  • Ashley
    Frequent user October 2021 Manitoba
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    Yea he had my mom take my phone after he posted so she could video tape and I didn’t even notice my phone was gone so I couldn’t check.
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  • Melissa
    Curious September 2020 British Columbia
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    That's so interesting that he posted it on social media first! Thank god you didn't check it and ruin the surprise.

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  • Melissa
    Curious September 2020 British Columbia
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    One of our best friends was actually with us when FH proposed, so he knew first! As soon as we got home we both called our parents. Then called our best friends, and texted the others.

    I'm not much of a phone person, and my best friend was working at a craft show when I called her. Her dad was with her and she was like "I have to take this, Melissa's calling, which means she's either engaged or something very bad happened." Thank god it was the first one!

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  • Rayanne
    Master June 2022 Ontario
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    We told family first and friends that are family.
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  • Michelle
    Expert October 2021 Nova Scotia
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    Family! Though my mom didn't pick up the phone when I first called her so I had to call twice haha.

    My FH had asked for my parents' blessing though so they already knew when it was going to happen

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  • Miav
    Devoted September 2020 Alberta
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    My parents! brother and sister (MOH), then my bffs who I asked to be bridesmaids

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  • Mikaela
    Frequent user August 2019 New Brunswick
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    My grandmother!
    I tried to call my family group chat like 5 times and got really frustrated that no one answered me... Turns out they were in a taxi from the airport on their way to my house as a surprise my Fiancé had coordinated with our engagement 🤣
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  • Erin
    Super May 2022 Ontario
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    It feels so long ago, I think my parents, then his mom and then friends.

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  • K
    Frequent user September 2024 Nova Scotia
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    My little sister! We’ve had Pinterest boards planning our big days since we were little kids
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  • Missa
    Frequent user August 2019 New Brunswick
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    We called his family right away as it was late at night and my parents were sleeping haha!
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  • Andrea
    Devoted January 2021 Ontario
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    My beloved sister

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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
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    It was my sister, then one minute later my mom Smiley smile

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  • Veronica
    Super October 2021 Alberta
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    Best friend, then cousin! Within minutes of each other so both.

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  • R
    Devoted November 2019 Quebec
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    I told my best friend first then we told my fiances family first then mine. My mom was actually the last to know because if she was first everyone would know before we told them lol
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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
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    We called everyone right after it happened. Our families first, then friends
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  • Jenna
    Frequent user February 2021 Nova Scotia
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    My best friend was there to video the whole thing but then we told our moms first.
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  • Holly
    VIP June 2019 Ontario
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    Family first, then close friends.
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  • Ashley
    Frequent user October 2021 Manitoba
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    Well my fiancé told both of our families and he posted to social media all before he even proposed... but he proposed on Christmas Eve while we were with my family so my family was first to see from me although they all already saw and knew lol.

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  • Alix
    Expert June 2021 Saskatchewan
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    My fiance proposed on my birthday and had a big birthday supper planned with our closest friends and family. So almost everyone was told at the same time.

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  • Kat D
    Frequent user April 2021 Manitoba
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    My mom & dad first (it was 10pm), then my best friend & MOH in the morning ☺️
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  • Madisyn
    Expert February 2020 Ontario
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    I three-way called my two best friends (both MOH) just a few minutes after it happened! Followed by my parents, then his. Smiley smile

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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    Some of our friends were there for the engagement, but we definitely called parents before posting on FB lol

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  • Caitlyn
    Super January 2020 Ontario
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    We shared with family first. We facetimed our parents and siblings, then called our grandmas and then we facetimed our best friends.

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  • Kathy
    Frequent user August 2019 Ontario
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    Lol. Oh my. I shared with friends first because I posted it on Instagram. Looking back now I shouldn’t have done it that way. But I was excited 😆
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  • Janaya
    Expert August 2019 Saskatchewan
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    Family & a couple close friends. at the time a lot of my family wasn't very supportive so we called our parents and grandparents and the rest hear on instagram / word of mouth

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  • Valérie
    VIP September 2019 Quebec
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    Family - We called them one-by-one. After that, we texted/called close friends...and finished with a joint instagram post.

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  • Chelsea
    Super June 2020 Alberta
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    Friends! i texted them right away, but we waited to tell our family
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  • Kelsie
    Master July 2021 Ontario
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    Definitely family. We Skyped with both of our parents and siblings!
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  • A
    Super September 2020 Ontario
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    We told my family first although they all knew it was happening anyway. My one sister actually almost ruined the surprise lol.

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  • Seleena
    Super September 2019 British Columbia
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    My sister was the first person I told 🙂
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  • Marissa
    Expert August 2019 Ontario
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    My parents and sister were the first people I called, but they already knew about it before me Smiley tongue (my mom helped him pick out the ring, and my sister kept me out at the mall all day to distract me while they were buying it).
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