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Joey
WeddingWire Admin May 2015 Maryland

Which wedding detail was hardest to agree on?

Joey, on May 8, 2018 at 08:05 Posted in Plan a wedding 0 12

Did you have one plan that you just couldn't (or can't!!) agree on with your partner? A plan where you two have totally different views and opinions? How do you work through it? What sacrifices or compromises are you making to get it resolved?

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Latest activity by Vinod, on May 13, 2018 at 08:41
  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    The cake since mu husband wanted a showpiece display as to just being enough to serve everyone. I was more practical based on the cost.
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  • Marie-Claire
    Devoted August 2018 Quebec
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    The biggest disagreements were actually the first choices: the city, the budget and the number of guests.

    The idea of finding a venue and vendors around where we live (Montreal) stressed me so much that he eventually agreed to do it in my hometown, which is much smaller and where I knew who to call.

    I initially wanted a small, very low budget wedding, but since he relented on the city choice, I decided to do the same with the number of guests and budget. It's still a fairly low budget by today's standards, so I can live with it.

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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
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    Currently, we can't agree on a late night table. He's insisting on having a porchetta table while I couldn't care less for it.

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  • Andie
    Expert May 2019 Ontario
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    I love your honesty!
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  • Courtney
    Super July 2018 Ontario
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    We've agreed for the most part. He bought ugly ass ties.. that's about it.

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  • Marleau
    Devoted October 2018 Ontario
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    So far there hasn’t really been anything that we haven’t agreed on for the wedding yet, but with 5 months to go I’m sure something is bound to come up lol
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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
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    I would say DJ. He is still unsure about our decision to not have a DJ but I think it will work out fine
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  • Jessica
    Super March 2018 Ontario
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    The only thing we didn't agree on was the venue. My fiance was all about cost-saving and we had one venue picked out, but I fell in love with another one and it was more expensive. We ended up making a pros/cons list and checking budgets out for both venues. We were able to make the second one work by removing some other costs, so I was really pleased we were able to figure it out together.

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  • Erin
    Master September 2017 Ontario
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    I don't think there was anything that we at odds about when we were planning our wedding.

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  • Jocelyn
    Expert August 2018 Ontario
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    Nothing.
    he left most of the work to me, BUT helped me pick out the wines, menu and offered to split catering cost
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  • Stephanie
    VIP May 2019 Ontario
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    So far nothing? We still have a lot to book though! The only thing I was 100% set on were the flowers (blue orchids) but I'm pretty open to anything else! I have made some suggestions that my fiancé didn't like so we changed them!
    With the rest we have to book for the day I'm not 100% on anyone so I don't see too many problems arising. I want to keep this all super easy going so if there's so ethinf he's stern on I don't see me disagreeing
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  • Andie
    Expert May 2019 Ontario
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    For us it was the DJ! It really surprised me... but that was something we just couldn’t agree on. I wanted certain things, he didn’t, etc. We basically tossed a coin in the air!
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