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Which came first - Choosing your processional song or choosing your first dance song?

Joey, on April 30, 2018 at 09:13 Posted in Plan a wedding 0 34

The music of your wedding is hugely important to setting the tone of the day. Many planning couples spend a lot of time choosing the perfect songs to compliment the special moments of the wedding, searching for songs with sentimental meanings and just the right sound. Which important song did you decide on first?

Your processional song?

Which came first - Choosing your processional song or choosing your first dance song? 1

Photo by Brandy-Lee's Lens in Cobble Hill

Or your first dance song?

Which came first - Choosing your processional song or choosing your first dance song? 2

Photo by Ben Lariviere Photography in Toronto

Thanks for playing along with our game of firsts! To make sure you didn't miss any question about wedding planning firsts you can start back at the beginning of the game.

34 Comments

Latest activity by Brette, on November 8, 2018 at 17:58
  • Brette
    Beginner June 2019 British Columbia
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    I've had my processional song picked out from the moment i heard it. It will be an acoustic version of "La Vie En Rose"... Important to me because of the movie "Sabrina" with Humphrey Bogart and Audrey Hepburn.


    The first dance song is something my fiance and i will pick out together. We have a March Madness style bracket set up in our den for making wedding decisions so that will be how we make our decision Smiley smile

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  • Andrea
    Devoted January 2021 Ontario
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    Processional!

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  • Kaisha
    Super March 2019 Nova Scotia
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    Processional, still not sure about first dance.

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  • Leanne
    Expert September 2018 Ontario
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    To be honest i can't remember, but I think our first dance song was first.

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  • Jessie
    Expert September 2018 Ontario
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    We picked our first dance song first and then our processional song.

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  • Andie
    Expert May 2019 Ontario
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    For us it was the processional song! He proposed after we saw Phantom of the Opera so we knew “All I Ask of You” would be our processional song!
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  • Tatiana
    Expert April 2018 Ontario
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    We choose our first dance song first, loved our song

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  • Marcia
    Super August 2018 Manitoba
    Marcia ·
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    I chose my processional song first, still haven't decided on our first dance song!

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  • Marleau
    Devoted October 2018 Ontario
    Marleau ·
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    We haven’t even thought about this yet haha 😂 we have a few songs we like but nothing set in stone or talked about yet.
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  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    While searching for songs, we chose our first dance song then processional song.
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  • Charmaine
    Curious September 2018 Ontario
    Charmaine ·
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    Processional came first. My fiance and I still can't agree on a first dance song, but we still have a bit of time yet.
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  • Amber
    Devoted September 2018 Alberta
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    My processional song was picked long ago, and that is the only piece of music I have chosen so far. It is a tough job!

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  • Michelle
    Super September 2018 Alberta
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    First Dance song. This one was chosen before we even got engaged. We are doing Ed Sheeran Thinking out Loud, but if I could find a version that is a mix of Perfect & Thinking Out Loud that would AMAZING!

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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
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    This is a tough one because I'm literally always keeping my ears open for songs for each.

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  • Tracy
    Devoted September 2018 Ontario
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    First dance song. I still haven't decided on processional.
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  • Summer
    Devoted May 2019 Ontario
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    We’ve definitely decided on our first dance song first!!
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  • Amanda
    Super August 2018 Alberta
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    First dance song. I’m still not sure on my processional song...
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  • Leah
    VIP April 2019 British Columbia
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    Not having a first dance but know what I’ll be walking down the aisle to and know what will play as we exit the ceremony.


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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    Haven't chose either yet, but probably first dance first!

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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
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    First dance! That one was easy since it is “our song”
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  • Courtney
    Super July 2018 Ontario
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    Our first dance song came first.. but the song for the processional was something I always knew I would pick.

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  • Erin
    Master September 2017 Ontario
    Erin ·
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    Processional song came first I believe.

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  • A
    Frequent user October 2018 Ontario
    Amanda ·
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    Processional song is traditional church wedding song; our first dance song was decided long before we were even engaged, as it's "our song". You had me from hello, Kenny Chesney
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  • Brittany
    British Columbia
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    First dance... haven't even thought of our processional/signing/recessional songs yet... I really want the first dance to be "From the Ground Up - Dan & Shay"

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  • Holly
    VIP June 2019 Ontario
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    We haven't picked either yet. I'm in charge of the processional song he's in charge of the first dance.
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  • Valérie
    VIP September 2019 Quebec
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    First dance - Our song is 'Baby I Love Your Way' by Peter Frampton and we can't imagine dancing to anything else Smiley heart

    The processional came shortly after, with a nice cover of Edit Piaf's 'La Vie en Rose'.

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  • Marie-Claire
    Devoted August 2018 Quebec
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    We still aren't sure of either, but we got an idea for the processional song earlier. The first dance song is still a very big question mark (we've actually considered just not having any dance, so you can see how unimportant it is to us).

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  • Sydney
    Expert August 2018 Ontario
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    We’ve always kind of known our first dance song, so that one was first! I also have the processional song chosen, but that’s a surprise to the groom
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  • Jessica
    Super March 2018 Ontario
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    First dance song. We had a feeling we would pick a specific song for our first dance, before getting engaged. It ended up being our dance!

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  • Chloe
    Super May 2018 Ontario
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    We’ve known our first dance song since the beginning of our relationship. So that came first. I’m still figuring out our processional music.
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  • Jen
    VIP June 2018 Ontario
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    First dance song. We've known since we got engaged which song we were going to use.

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  • Jocelyn
    Expert August 2018 Ontario
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    First dance.
    apparently, I need permission from our pastor to have the music i'd prefer...
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