What are you tired of hearing?

My fiancé was gracious enough to let me pick out my own engagement ring, so getting unsolicited advice on what MY ring should be is really bugging me 😁

Other people’s suggestions. Everyone has an opinion about what they would like to our wedding; to which my answer always is “oh i’d love to see this. On your wedding “

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I'm honestly asked it at least once a day while I'm at work. All of the girls want to know how everything is going. I'm so tired of repeating myself even though I love talking wedding.

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Totally agree!!! I accidentally asked a co-worker the other day "how's planning going?" then instantly said "wait - you don't have to answer that, I hated that question!"

When I was planning the wedding, I got tired of hearing "are you getting nervous yet" and now that I am married, I am tired of hearing "when are you having kids" !

"How is planning going?", "maybe you should do this?" and "when are planning on having kids?" These are the top questions that have and continue to annoy me. I had someone at work ask me when the next baby shower would be...in front of the whole office! I just said "whenever you get pregnant". What I really wanted to say was "my reproductive organs and timeline are none of your effing business!!" I bet if I were a man no one would ask me these damn personally offensive questions.

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This! Especially the closer we got to the wedding! I felt like this question was taking over my life! As much as you look forward to the day, there are certain times where you just don't want to be focused on the wedding and your To-Do list!

"How are the wedding plans going?" You literally asked me this last week when you last saw me! Stop asking me, Susan. Nothing has changed. I still stressed AF about it, having the nightmares and trying to lose weight but wanting to eat all sorts of bad crap. Ugh lol

Same boat as Andrea, people keep saying "at my wedding...". Odly people really get offended if you don't take their advice, which is strange because they took no ones for their day lol

My top one was: "WELL, at MY wedding..."

"When are you having babies?" or "Why don't you do this instead?"

These two drive me nuts, especially the second one because its usally after something has already been booked and decided.

"Sorry, we don't work with same-sex couples".

I went wedding dress shop dressing 6 days after getting engaged, and my mom, who lives 5 hours away, came down for that. We also had our venue (which included catering) booked before we were engaged. I think because of that, my mom thought we were ahead of the game for planning, so the weekend she was here she kept asking me "what about this, what are you doing about that" and I just kept repeating "it's still early. We haven't talked about it yet".

My mom and brother also continually ask if my nephews will be involved. We have finally decided how they will, but for awhile, fiance and I could not agree on this!

"Are you stressed?" Or "You must be so stressed".

We honestly were never stressed at all during the whole process but every time we would speak to family members they'd always ask those questions and we'd be like no?? Lol it was just so annoying because they asked every. Single. Time. It's like they wanted us to be stressed haha