Ive been having the worst sleep. 128 days to go and im having nightmares. My dad not showing up on time, my mother ruining (literally trashing lol) my wedding, my wedding being that day and nothing is ready....anyone else have this problem?
Yes! I still have over a year and their starting! Same types of things: Mom not paying attention during wedding, hair and makeup falling apart, being late and not being ready yet, my dress being two inches too short, the list goes on! Do you find your stressed during the day? I don’t think I but the nightmares say otherwise...
Yup I’ve had them twice now! The first day I spent my morning so stressed out, literally none of my vendors showed up, I had no makeup on, and I was trying to decorate my venue before finally have to call it off! It was way too real. The second time, I had thought It was the day of and no one knew the order of walking down the aisle, I didn’t have my ring, and everything was super chaotic.. only to realize it was just the rehearsal and I was already in my dress in front of my fiancé... I do not need another dream like those, but I feel you. If anything they’ve given me a good kick in the ass to get everything planned haha
No nightmares yet and hope it stays that way. I’m pretty easy going person. My wedding is still over a year away so who knows what will happen when it’s say 3 months away. Good luck and try not to stress because in the end you will marry your best friend. Even if things happen that you didn’t plan on happening. Keep smiling.
Just last week i had my first wedding nightmare. The ceremony went to crap! Nothing went right. I told my FH about my dream and he thinks something is internally bothering me. Im just worried about his family! ive had 2 more dreams since then, but nothing i can do about it. 138 days!
I have already had 2 nightmares about my wedding and its not even a year away!! My flowers were wilted in their vases, the centre pieces looks terrible, my wedding dress was velvet green with spaghetti straps, I didn't have the guest seating... I woke up in a panic and sweating!
I hope that this was my last one, b/c they are terrifying! hahaha
Omgosh I love these dreams! Laughing out loud although it isn’t funny when it’s you! I had a dream last night my FH’s parents didn’t show up and we had to hold the wedding until they got there at 430! Our ceremony is scheduled to start at 2! Yes it’s definitely unpleasant to have stressful dreams!
I still have 6 months to go and every now a then I will have these nightmares. My last one was not to bad. I didn't have a dress, and only half finished decor, but in the dream I remember thinking that all I wanted was to marry this man, the decor and other people just didn't matter. I hope the next dream I have I remember that as well.
You may also want to book some me time with some friends to get your mind off of the wedding. Take a trip, spend a couple day acting young and stupid, then come back to your responsibility refreshed.
This just happened to me for the first time the other day.. we had to call everything off because all my guests were waiting for an hour, I had no vendors show up, and I wasn’t even ready. I spent the whole morning stressed because of how realistic it was ! 😕
Definitely! All the stress that doesn't manifest during the day attacks at night. This will come and go during the process but just remember that you have everything together and that no wedding ever goes perfectly according to plan.
I have had some of these as well, they come and go for me. I think it's just all the stress working it's way out of my system because I have most things planned perfectly fine so far. Just breathe and know that things will work out in the end
I have at least one wedding nightmare a week. I'm just scared of it not all coming together and about money (I've always been a worrier about money though). Plus I'm scared of my decorator and I have dreams about her not showing up!
I had them all! Dad not showing up, dj not showing up, caterer not showing up, husband showing up in shorts and tee shirt, girls in the wrong dresses...the good news is that none of your dreams will likely become reality and everything will run smoothly, it's just your brain reacting to the stress of wedding planning. Just do your best to shrug them off and keep going!
I just had a nightmare last night that my fiance called off the whole thing! I was most devastated about not getting to wear my dress (which is when is stopped feeling real because that is not the thing that would devastate me most)