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Natalie
Frequent user August 2019 Ontario

We’re getting married on Qixi: Chinese Valentines Day

Natalie, on August 16, 2018 at 23:59 Posted in Plan a wedding 0 7
So my fiancé and I finally settled on a date that worked with our venue and we couldn’t be more excited. Wednesday August 7, 2019! We live in China but are having our wedding in Ontario, and since most of our guests are coming from well out of town or are family that are teachers with summers off, we had no problems booking a weekday wedding. We got engaged a few months ago and didn’t want to have to wait two years to have the wedding as most of the Saturday dates for 2019 were already taken at places we wanted, so a weekday wedding it is!

But we chose this day in particular because it’s even more special now as next year on this date it will be Qixi! (AKA China’s Valentines Day). I thought I’d share the story. It’s a story that dates back about 2600 years found in Chinese poetry and takes place among the stars ...

(Copied from wiki)

The tale is a love story between Zhinü (the weaver girl, symbolizing Vega) and Niulang (the cowherd, symbolizing Altair).[3] Their love was not allowed, thus they were banished to opposite sides of the Silver River (symbolizing the Milky Way).[3][10] Once a year, on the 7th day of the 7th lunar month, a flock of magpies would form a bridge to reunite the lovers for one day.[3]

Hopefully we’ll be able to spot Vega and Altair in the night sky on our wedding night. Supposedly the star between them is the bridge of magpies. It’s a festival newlyweds celebrate to bring prosperity and happiness to their marriage so we’re really excited to have this element as a part of our wedding as we’ve lived in China for nine years and it’s basically our home now.

Anyway, I’m so happy we’ve got our date! Just wanted to share!!! This year, Qixi falls on today, August 17. So I’m wishing you all a very happy Qixi festival! 七夕节快乐!

To my Niulang;
Tim你是我的爱人❤️❤️


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Latest activity by Cherry, on August 17, 2018 at 13:04
  • Cherry
    Devoted October 2019 Quebec
    Cherry ·
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    It's a very nice day for wedding. Congratulation!!

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  • Jennifer
    Super July 2019 Ontario
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    What an awesome way to commemorate living in China and still doing the wedding in Ontario. that's fantastic!

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  • Natalie
    Frequent user August 2019 Ontario
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    A more detailed version:

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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
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    They got married in China in the winter; a few people from here joined them and her family since they live there. I'm not sure which city they live in actually.

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  • Natalie
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    Oh that’s so cool! What city are they in in China if you don’t mind my asking? We originally wanted to have our wedding in China but none of our Canadian friends or family seemed up to coming for it and expats living in China are already quite mobile and love to travel so we opted to just do it in Canada. I wonder if your friends had the same issue Smiley tongue
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  • Natalie
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    Oh that’s so cool! What city are they in in China if you don’t mind my asking? We originally wanted to have our wedding in China but none of our Canadian friends or family seemed up to coming for it and expats living in China are already quite mobile and love to travel so we opted to just do it in Canada. I wonder if your friends had the same issue Smiley tongue
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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
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    I just heard about this today! My friend has been living in China the past 5 years and met his wife there. They are having their Canadian wedding this weekend and were talking about this tonight! Love hearing stories from different cultures!

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