True or False? - I started planning before the proposal

False, partially because I wanted to plan together, also because he proposed as a surprise on my bday after 2.5 months

Yeah, definitely.

We're getting married on the 10-year anniversary of our first date and we both agreed on the date years before we actually got engaged. 4 people in my family are in the wedding industry so my whole life has basically been me dreaming up what I would and wouldn't do on my wedding day. No shame whatsoever haha I've been planning this wedding so long I'm over a year out and have only been "officially" planning for 3 weeks but I swear if my wedding was next month I'd be ready.

False.

I never want to start something like that until it's a reality (a.k.a been proposed too). Otherwise, you're investing a lot in something that might not happen.

I knew he was gonna propose and did not know when. I was secretly researching wedding venues, but I was keeping it hush hush, cause I didn't want to SERIOUSLY look until we were officially engaged. So when we FINALLY did get engaged, I started showing Fh and My mom the places I'd picked.

I think it's okay to dream about where you will get married, or what sort of wedding you want. But I don't know about really seriously planning until after the proposal.

But I also think that every relationship is different, and if you and Fh don't have a very traditional relationship, then I'm sure it's fine.I have a special planner https://www.betacalendars.com/october-calendar.html . First, you must set your budget. Secondly, pre-order a restaurant, a place to register, etc.

False. I didn't think I'd ever get married again

True, we picked the venue a little less than a year before. I also strongly encourage you to plan your calendars (https://www.dreamcalendars.com/calendar/2020). Happiness!

True - I started to do venue research and looking at dresses.

True, we picked the venue a little less than a year before

Very True! I live 22 hours from home, so when I was home last before the engagement I did a little bit of research on venues...

In order to prepare this holiday, you need a lot of effort. It is necessary to plan everything clearly, prepare in advance. I have a special planner https://onplanners.com/planners/best-hourly-planners . First, you must set your budget. Secondly, pre-order a restaurant, a place to register, etc.

False, I knew he had the ring and actively stopped myself from planning at all.

🙄🙄👰yes lol I did

Ohh heck yeah. I even took event planning for school, with a wedding planning course, so I got to use that for an 'excuse' for a bit too... Haha.

Definitely True.. I've been planning for years...

YES I love looking at wedding details and getting ideas for the one day dream which is now real!

True.
The only thing i didn't do was the proposal box since it was a small wedding.

True - selected our venue ahead of time so we didn’t lose our date!

True in one sense- we had talked about whether to get married here or in England(my hometown) and I had looked to compare prices. Other than that, nothing

True. I had Pinterest boards but nothing beyond that point.

True-ish. I fell in love with my FH early on in our relationship, so I'd been daydreaming about a wedding for a while.

True... My fiancé and I were dating for 11 years before he proposed! Needless to say for the last year I knew it was coming and we had talked about it quite a bit. But I did have a full Pinterest wedding board and even had a couple quotes from possible venues. I'm a planner! I also have to say it made it a bit easier and less stressful when it came time to do the planning

True..
I had a wedding Pinterest board with ideas but that's about as far as the "planning" went

False, mostly. We had talked about getting married a long time before he proposed so we had thrown some wedding ideals out there but never actually planned anything it was just ideas.

True? and False... I have been "planning" my wedding since I was a little girl! lol as for actually looking into rings and venues, etc. - no. We talked about marriage about 2 months prior to me proposing and then we started looking into it for real.

False. Neither of us planned anything before the proposal!

True! We actually booked the venue before the proposal. And I had been planning since before I even met my husband! He didn’t like all my ideas but we used the colours and centrepieces ideas I had been thinking for years.

True! It wasn't any hardcore planning obviously, but I had a Pinterest Board of wedding colour palettes, dresses, and random decor. I also had a rough list of venues for various cities we might've gotten married in.

True!

I have had a Pinterest board for quite some time before I got engaged. Just collecting any ideas, I had a lot of pins to go through once I got engaged to narrow down my plans and vision

False. minus when I was at a wedding and it was "oohhh I would do that...or I wouldn't do that". but nothing else planned. I always felt it would be bad juju

True- I'd had a wedding Pinterest board I started a few years ago

True! I’d been “planning” what I wanted my wedding to be like since I was a kid