The unexpected

Oh no! So sorry you're dealing with this. But like everyone here says, life will throw ball curves at you and you just have to handle it as best as you can. That's all anyone can expect of you but I'm sending good positive vibes your way! Planning a wedding is stressful enough- no more extra stress, Life!

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We definitely moved on from that. I held a grudge for a pretty long time though - I am bad for that, where my husband is more forgiving and he can move on from things quickly! It got even harder because I quit my job just before my wedding as well, because I was being bullied and I just couldn't continue going to work feeling the way I was feeling. So now I was out of a job as well, but luckily I got on EI because there was proof of this person bullying me! But it is not nearly as much as I was making when I was working, but we get through it and we budget very differently!

My husband's car had some issues right before our wedding as well. It was a couple of thousand dollars to fix which wasn't great at the time. Don't worry, you will make it through!

That sucks 100%. I am not sure if they have vehicle auctions in Alberta but sometimes you can get used vehicles with low mileage and get someone to replace your engine for half the cost. My fiance is a mechanic so i'm lucky on that part when he has the time to fix my car.

View quoted message Omg that’s so not cool. I’m sorry you guys had to go through that! I would’ve pursued the girl too but she probably didn’t even use her real name and it would’ve dragged on before it passed or it would’ve cost you guys more to try and find her.
I hope you guys were able to move past that and just know that by having each other you guys can do anything

We had to get a new car in March and the lady who we bought it from turned out to be a con artist and she blocked our numbers and stuff. Turned out the car needed a new transmission so suddenly we had to pay about 7g for the new car, and new transmission, that came right out of our savings for the wedding. If we didn't need the car and the transmission, we would have come out of the wedding with a positive amount of money, because of all the money we got as gifts. BUT, we ended up being in debt a couple grand because of this lady. And my husband didn't want to take her to a small claims court for some reason! So I understand what you are going through!

Aww man I'm so sorry to hear that. Money stress honestly is the worst kind of stress, especially for me. I can deal with other stress no problem but as soon as money is involved I'm done. I hope things get better for you guys!

Those sorts of things keep happening to us! My FH was getting ready to book our hotel room for our honeymoon when his house's water heater broke and he got a flat tire! Things happen! It will all turn out in the end!

That really does suck, but as was mentioned, just give it a few days, clear your mind, and then you'll be able to handle the situation with a clear head. Everything will work itself out.

Awwwww boooo that’s the worst! I mean we can’t expect these things to happen and they definitely put a damper on things and make everyone stress. But just remove yourself from the situation for like 2 Minutes. Just to breathe and think of a game plan. I’m sure everything will work itself into place