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Lisa
Expert August 2019 Alberta

That big moment - when are you sending out your invites?

Lisa, on January 6, 2020 at 16:54 Posted in Plan a wedding 0 34

There are so many milestone moments to look forward to when you are planning your big day. One of the most pivotal moments for us was sending out the invites. I was so excited when everyone let me know they received them - and was excited as people started RSVPing and adding sweet notes along with their meal selections...it was so real and exciting and meant we were getting closer!


When are you sending your invites? Are you excited, nervous, both??? I want to hear all about this milestone!

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Latest activity by Tracy, on February 4, 2020 at 12:44
  • Tracy
    Frequent user August 2021 Ontario
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    Rule of thumb is 8 weeks but for us I tried to consider a few things. Those who have to travel especially by plane we sent out 8 months in advance so they can look at flight deals etc.

    Also we are on a Friday and it's in the summer so we are giving 3 months notice. This way people can plan accordingly and all of us know how quickly summers are planned!

    And yes we are both nervous and excited!

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  • Miles
    Newbie October 2021 British Columbia
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    8 weeks before your wedding would be the latest you would want to with the RSVP cut off to be 3-4 weeks beforehand. that’s just for postage so it gets to where it needs to go in time! -coming from a post office employee(my fiancé)
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  • Gloria
    Expert October 2022 Ontario
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    Our wedding is August. We plan to send ours out June. And get them back by July.
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  • Marissa
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    Thank you!

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  • Lisa
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    Wow, those are great!!
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  • Marissa
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    Thank you!
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  • Kelsie
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    These are so cute!!! I love them!
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  • Marissa
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    I'm excited to see them now! I hope so - I ordered twice as many of these as the amount I ordered for save the dates. I plan to invite a few more people, but I think I accounted for that. I'm so disorganized with the guest list lol

    Invites & RSVPs frontThat big moment - when are you sending out your invites? 1Invites & RSVPs backThat big moment - when are you sending out your invites? 2


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  • Lisa
    Expert August 2019 Alberta
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    That's so exciting! It's so nice when you get to see them - makes it so real!

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  • Sherisse
    Curious September 2022 Ontario
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    I’m sending out my engagement party invites in April! I’m so excited
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  • Kimberly
    Frequent user July 2020 Ontario
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    I got them on Friday and am super happy with them!

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  • Nadia & Steven
    Beginner September 2021 Ontario
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    Just got my Save the Dates last week. Planning on sending them out this weekend hopefully! I wasn't planning on doing STDs but I didn't want to send our invites too early, so I'll be sending those closer to July-August for our October wedding. So nervous!!
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  • Lisa
    Expert August 2019 Alberta
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    That’s so exciting!
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  • Lisa
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    No,
    Never heard of it! Sounds interesting, will have to check it out!
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  • Veronica
    Super October 2021 Alberta
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    No sadly - I used Canva - not sure if you have heard of it. But it is a great drag and drop tool to help you design your own graphic designs for really anything you want!

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  • Chelsea
    Super June 2020 Alberta
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    I’ve got 22 RSVP’s so far!!
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  • Lisa
    Expert August 2019 Alberta
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    Very exciting! Have you seen many early replies yet?

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  • Lisa
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    Do you have enough extras in case your remember a person or two that you hadn't thought of? You must be exited to see them when they arrive!

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  • Lisa
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    That's so exciting that you designed your own? Is this something you have some expertise in?

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  • Lisa
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    Me too - we sent ours out early too (but we also got married out of province, so that was my excuse, anyway!) Smiley smile

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  • Lisa
    Expert August 2019 Alberta
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    You must be excited to see them! Do you expect they'll arrive soon?

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  • Lisa
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    That's so funny!! Glad you all had such a great sense of humour about it!

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  • Ashley
    VIP August 2020 Ontario
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    We havent sent ours out yet!! but im so excited!!

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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
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    We sent out our invitations four months before, gave our guests two months to RSVP. We did online RSVPs. People entered their name, if they were coming or not and how many people were coming. Well, we received one that entered 742 for the number of people coming! The name was also Sidney McDavid, which is a combination of the names of the captains of our favourite NHL teams. We figured out who it was (my brother!) and he confessed before we had a chance to comment about it!

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  • Kimberly
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    Our wedding is in july and I plan to send our invites out in april. and I have already ordered them so they will be all prepared before then.

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  • Emily
    Expert September 2020 Ontario
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    We’re going to send ours out in about May or June I think! Our wedding is October but I like things done early 😂
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  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    The invitations were sent out way longer than needed 9 months in advance when it could have been 3 months before. Sometimes, it all works out for the best.

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  • Candice
    Frequent user October 2021 Ontario
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    The plan is to send everything out in April 6 months out. We are very excited as everything is finally coming together.
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  • Veronica
    Super October 2021 Alberta
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    I just finished designing our invites! We imagined we would do e-invites for so long but ended up making a switch to mail invites and we are happy about it! We are going to send out in April, 6 months before the wedding. I can't wait to send them out!

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  • Rayanne
    Master June 2022 Ontario
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    I have to get some info from the venue still so I can order my invites. I have the date set but not the time of ceremony and reception which is just down a hallway. I don't think we'll be sending ours out till Oct/Nov for February next year wedding...
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  • Marissa
    Frequent user October 2021 Alberta
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    I'm excited! And also nervous if I haven't invited everyone that I should have. I ordered invites and rsvps yesterday, I'm not sure when I'll send them out maybe March or April.
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  • Chelsea
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    I sent mine about 10 days before christmas!! so exciting!!
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