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Donna
Devoted July 2019 Ontario

Return of R.s.v.p

Donna, on February 9, 2019 at 22:20 Posted in Plan a wedding 0 10

Family members think word of mouth we're coming, friends I'm going to be there the Rules are for everyone, neither send them back before April 15 that's the cut off. No excuses for anyone.

Daniel my fiance' said to a family member on his side either sent it or not come at all the cut off is April 15th, she said would Donna do that, yes we're in this together.

"You know the story we're coming, I'll be there then there be an excuse sorry I can't make it, there's a meal down the drain"

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Latest activity by Stephanie, on February 11, 2019 at 16:59
  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
    Stephanie ·
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    We had online RSVP’s. People would rsvp by text or email so I would direct them to the website and just said it creates a list and automatically counts people. It didn’t, it would just send an email to me but I wanted people to think they had to rsvp through our website! It’s annoying to chase people down!
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  • Brittany
    British Columbia
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    Ugghhh I literally had someone say to me "I don't need to RSVP do I? You know I'm coming".. and as they said that it was the first time they had brought up the wedding to me... so it's like, "um, no I didn't know that, please RSVP"... and then they wait past the deadline TWO MONTHS after our conversation, I have to track them down, then they bail the day of.

    I only had to track down about a dozen RSVPs, thank goodness... but STILL!

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  • Donna
    Devoted July 2019 Ontario
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    Its like a guessing game. Our photographer is another niece of my Groom did u invite Uncle Dan's . Like what kind of question is that. We explained that who we invited isn't really her business. Well Shyla said she coming OK where's her R.S. V.P but she's coming doesn't mean a thing to us cut is April 15. I believe we sent out 100 we only have received 40 back . Scary because April 17 we meet up with the Catering @ the Legion. It's not so much our friends but family that doesn't answered us. Guess you can't do much there forth after. With getting everything ready n working I'll have to not think about it.
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  • Julie
    Expert March 2019 Ontario
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    It's so annoying. We've put our address on the envelope and added a stamp, I mean we can't make it any easier! Our cut off date is Feb 20 & the Country Club needs seating chart Feb 22... I found this out Fri. We have received 26 Rsvps and we sent out over 90 Invitations. Several went to good Friends and Family in B.C that we know can't come but there's always a chance. We haven't received my FHs Parents, Brother, my Brother or anyone in our 12 Person Wedding Party yet except my 1 MOH. My Mom and MOH dropped theirs right at our house the day they received them, they were so excited. I don't understand why People don't send them.... boggles my mind.
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  • H
    Curious October 2020 Ontario
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    I haven't hit this point but I really agree they should RSVP properly. If they don't you may miss them when doing your final counts
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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
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    Wow, you're giving your guests tons of time to reply, that's great! If your guests don't send you their RSVP's by April 15th, then maybe you don't want them at your wedding lol.

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  • Donna
    Devoted July 2019 Ontario
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    Late December into the New year
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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
    Bianca ·
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    Oh god, I’m not at that part of my planning yet but I’m dreading the stress and drama!

    How early did you send out your invitations?
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  • Casey
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    I agree with Stephanie.
    I know some close family are coming for sure. But that doesn’t mean I still don’t need your RSVP card with your meal selection on it!
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  • Stephanie
    VIP May 2019 Ontario
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    Oh no I agree! If you sent an invite they should respond either yes or no! Theres a POINT to the invite! My FHs sister is my bridesmaid and shes like "you know I'm coming!" Nope! Made her RSVP online still hahah!!! Now I just gotta get my other bridesmaids to RSVP lol!!
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