Priest suggestions

View quoted message Church's don't really care anymore if you follow the religion, are married before kids, are part of the church etc. My friend had her baby baptized at a Catholic Church near us in Montreal and she's an unwed single mother. Like all religion, they just want your money really. You might have to make an extra "donation" when having your children baptized.

You no longer have to get married in the church to be part of the church, if you get what i mean. So for future children, they will be perfectly fine.

Thank you!!!!! Definitely looking into this route 👏🏼

View quoted message Where I originally started looking before I found the Romanian orthodox priest, I spoke to a Catholic priest who suggested I could get married by an officiant at the ceremony, and then on another day after the wedding to preform the Catholic part of the marriage and then it would be done and he could register the marriage in the Catholic Church. It would cost us a bit more that way because we could have had to pay the officiant and the priest and different times but it was a solution to something that was important to me. something to consider if you need another solution.

View quoted message Do you know if I’d be able to baptize my future child/children if I did that ?
I really don’t want my ceremony held at a church so I’m trying to avoid it

Officiants are not part of the church and could look to get one to come out tp the restaurant. He can get you tp sign without beinf at the church.

View quoted message Lol you have a point there, what's one more lie added to their list 😂

View quoted message Right!? So y not help me out and lie one more time

View quoted message Ya it’s a long story. Not really doing this for me but I know. It’s all lies . So y not do one more for me ? (so bad )

View quoted message Yes they are, main reason why I'm not religious..too much lies. But I think it's funny that priests will lie because it goes against the whole "religious morals"

I’m dying laughing at everyone’s comments saying priests won’t lie! 😂😂 priests are some of the greasiest most unhonest people in the world! 👌

View quoted message Goodluck! 😊

View quoted message I’ll find one. Thanks

I'm not judging, but if you're to jump to conclusions then okay. Im sorry I couldn't recommend a lying preist. Have nice day sweetheart 😉

View quoted message I'm still a bit confused by this? I mean I totally understand wanting the ceremony and reception in the same spot, we booked a venue that have both in the same place. I just find it hard to believe that a priest would lie on a government document, but I'm not religious so idk lol

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There's more to religion than following sacraments but I won't get into that.

I think it's more about what is included in the ceremony than where the ceremony is held. You can have a religious ceremony not in a church. Are you still going to include the traditional catholic things in your ceremony? If so, I think you will have an easier time finding someone who will do it.

Another thought I had is maybe there is a reception hall that has a church nearby. It won't be the exact same, but if it's close guests could walk there between the ceremony and reception.

View quoted message I want my future child(ren) to go through the sacraments but really want to be married and eat in the same spot like my sister did. She had a priest do it for her but he passed away. I’ll keep looking .. and find one

We are having a pastor marry us and we are not getting married in a church. It depends on the denomination and the individual if they will officiate outside a church.

I'm curious though why it matters that the paperwork says you got married in a church.

Depends on the priest. If it’s a catholic priest, it is unlikely they can go outside of their venue. If you look for a non denominational priest or pastor then they can do it. On the marriage certificate, it will say your location that the ceremony took place.

View quoted message Thanks for responding ! I knew a priest who did it for a donation to the church for my sister but he passed away sadly. I will keep searching lol

Thanks for your response Laura. There was a priest in my area who did it for my sister years back but he passed away. I won’t do it in a church .. want it all done in the same place . I’ll keep searching lol

Thanks for your response. My sister got a priest to do it for a donation but he passed away . I’ll keep looking lol

I'm Catholic and the priests will not go to a ceremony site. I tried. My fiance is Romanian orthodox, and they will go off site but they have to get permission from the archdiocese.
And no priest is going to make paperwork look like you were married in a church......that would be lying. Lol

I believe most prefer to do it in their/your own church. However they may be open to different venues, but I doubt they will lie on paper to say you got married in a church. Is there not a chance you can just get married in your church?

Are you talking about a Catholic priest? Unfortunately I don't think that you would be able to find one that would do that. Most of the time, they are very strict about the sacrament. Hope you can find someone though, that would be great for you!