What? I've never heard of this. I wish I hadn't. That sounds like an awful thing to even suggest. I don't know if I'd even go to a wedding that had that. I don't expect anyone to do anything in the way of gifts. I just want the people I invite to come and have a good time.
I did not include an account number because I do not want to give out the impression that I am money or gift-grabby, to some people it could come across as distasteful. I do not want my guests to feel obligated to give us money and we understand that not everyone can. We do not expect to make up all of the money that we spent putting into the wedding and we are perfectly fine with this and simply wish everyone to have a great time and I am happy that they could celebrate with us.