Into It or Over It: Wedding Party Proposals?

Clearly I’m super into it. All my girls got glasses, wine, handmade earrings, bath bombs and handmade soap. Nice little spa-like boxes with cheeky messages pending who it’s going to. The picture is the box I made my best friend of 11 years!

I can't lie...I'm really into it!

I just think they're fun and celebratory!

I just told my daughter that we were getting married and wanted her to stand up for me. i dont feel a gift to ask is necessary.

I did it for my girls. Just a little box with some earrings, a photo of us and nail polish in the wedding colours and a ring pop. Simple.

I got each of my girls a bottle of wine and a little card asking if they would be in my party. I didn't consider it an elaborate proposal so much as asking so they could know I wanted them and they could decide if they were able to commit to it.

Over it. It's neat idea for sure, but not for me.

Into it! I found it was a lot of fun for my fiance and I to sit down and do these together. Then our wedding parties reactions were great!

Very much over it.

Never been to one were it was used or using it myslef, so over it

So over it! Another industry excuse to make brides feel guilty if they don't do it and spend extra money. Weddings are already expensive enough.

I loved them because it made our party feel special.

Over it. I asked my girls with a simple card that they could keep if they wanted.

I don't really understand this to be honest. Weddings are SO expensive as it is, plus you typically do bridal party gifts as well. I'm not really sure why this huge expensive thing has been added on. I think you can do smaller and simple but just as meaningful.

I got a little box, filled it with confetti and put a ring-pop in it. On the inside of the lid asked them to be my bridesmaid. So small thing.

Into it. I proposed to all my bridal party and they each loved it. I kept it small but each one included a note about why the person was special to me and why I wanted them at my side on my wedding day 😊

Into it! I didn't do it, but there are some super cute ideas out there!