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Into It or Over It: Wedding Party Proposals?

Lynnie, on February 12, 2018 at 10:05 Posted in Before the wedding 0 47
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This week we’re talking all about wedding trends! Long gone are the days of simply asking someone to be in your wedding party - now it's all about elaborate wedding party proposals! Smiley heart

Are you into it or over it?


Into It or Over It: Wedding Party Proposals? 1

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Latest activity by Nelly, on September 25, 2019 at 17:19
  • Nelly
    Devoted October 2021 Ontario
    Nelly ·
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    Over it I didn't think it was necessary

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  • Andrea
    Devoted January 2021 Ontario
    Andrea ·
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    Over it, I didn't do this for my bridesmaids and I didn't think it was necessary!

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  • Leanne
    Expert September 2018 Ontario
    Leanne ·
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    Totally into it!

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  • Emily
    Devoted February 2020 Ontario
    Emily ·
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    I am definitely into it - but the boxes cost a lot of money so I don't know if I will be doing it.

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  • Kelsea
    Frequent user October 2019 British Columbia
    Kelsea ·
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    Into it Smiley smile I wrote cute little poems for all my bridesmaids and made cards for the groomsmen. Just a little keepsake!

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  • Vinod
    Featured August 2017 Ontario
    Vinod ·
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    Over it!

    It seems to be a great idea to do of you want go out that much. Personally, i find it more of an expense with things that will be half used and wasted. I like simple and useful thoughts if given anything. Materialistic gifts get put on online to sell or given away eventually.
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  • E
    Expert December 2018 Ontario
    Emma ·
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    Over it. It’s way to over the top.
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  • Jessie
    Expert September 2018 Ontario
    Jessie ·
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    Into it! I did the same thing for my girls last summer!

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  • Melissa
    Frequent user September 2018 Quebec
    Melissa ·
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    Into it! We all went out for brunch and I gave my bridal party boxes with a champagne glass that had a decal of a dress, their name and title along with some face masks and a proposal card I made. I personalized everything so every box was different. I loved making them and the bridal party loved it.
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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
    Tori ·
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    INTO IT! lol I am doing bridesmaids proposals around the one year mark but my FH will probably not Smiley sad He thinks that it's corny and "weird".

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  • Leah
    VIP April 2019 British Columbia
    Leah ·
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    Totally into it...but we’re leaning towards not having a wedding party at all.
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  • BunnyBride
    Super August 2022 Nova Scotia
    BunnyBride ·
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    I love this idea and totally am into it! It's just a fun way to show how much the people you pick for the bridal party mean to you.

    I am doing it for my side of the bridal party, and leaving whether or not my FH does it for his groomsmen to him.

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  • Marcia
    Super August 2018 Manitoba
    Marcia ·
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    I love the wedding party proposals! I'm definitely into it!

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  • Brittany
    British Columbia
    Brittany ·
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    Into it! We didn't go overboard, but my fiance got super into it to. I do vinyl letter printing, so we made stemless wine glasses (girls) and whiskey glasses (boys) for our "proposals".

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  • Stacey
    Frequent user October 2019 Ontario
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    I love the idea! Even if my future bridal party hates the idea- they better put on that fake smile and “ongs!” Lol Smiley laugh
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  • Sara
    Devoted October 2018 Ontario
    Sara ·
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    Into it. Totally did it. They absolutely loved it which makes me happy.

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  • Sammie
    Frequent user July 2018 Alberta
    Sammie ·
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    I'm kinda over it. I'd rather take em out for dinner or just ask.
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  • Becky
    VIP September 2019 Ontario
    Becky ·
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    Into it! I did it for the girls, the guys don't care for it though and I will just do something little bigger as the thank you

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  • Jessica
    Newbie December 2018 Ontario
    Jessica ·
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    I think it's cute! You don't have to spend exorbitant amounts of money on it for it to look sweet. Plus PINTEREST is a god send!

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  • Amber
    Devoted September 2018 Alberta
    Amber ·
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    Over it. I am getting them an amazing wedding day gift as a thank you. I asked each girl in person over lunch so it was still personal and special.
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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
    Bianca ·
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    I’m surprisingly into it.
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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
    Stephanie ·
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    This note is super cute! I love how "won't" is crossed off to "might".

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  • Jocelyn
    Expert August 2018 Ontario
    Jocelyn ·
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    Totally not into this! i just asked, knowing that i was gonna get a yes from them.
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  • Melissa
    Frequent user November 2019 Ontario
    Melissa ·
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    I'm definitely into it! It shows that you put thought and time into the decision. You'll be asking a lot from these special people in your lives, might as well show your appreciation!

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  • Peggy
    Super May 2019 Alberta
    Peggy ·
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    I was never into it, so I guess I'm over it? I just had a special moment with each of my girls - asked them over coffee, made it personal. My fiancé asked all his guys via text - such a sentimental guy! LOL

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  • Chloe
    Super May 2018 Ontario
    Chloe ·
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    Over it. I’m going to get my bridesmaids gifts, but I just asked them to be bridesmaids in person.
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  • Holly
    Frequent user September 2018 Ontario
    Holly ·
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    I think it's a bit over the top. Never been into it, so I guess I'm over it!

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  • Sydney
    Expert August 2018 Ontario
    Sydney ·
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    Into it! I know a lot of people say that weddings are already expensive, and this is an unnecessary expense, but I kept it super small for all of them. I didn't go all out. It was just a fun way to ask them, and with a cute little keepsake!

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  • Lydia
    Devoted June 2019 British Columbia
    Lydia ·
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    I love it.
    I am making boxes, though I'm not sure yet if Id give them while asking or after they said yes cause I don't want them to feel obligated to accept because of it
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  • Joyann
    Curious July 2018 Ontario
    Joyann ·
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    Over it! I just took them out to lunch and asked. Simple and easy.
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  • Veronique
    Curious September 2018 Alberta
    Veronique ·
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    I did it for my girls, into it
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  • Kaleen
    Curious October 2018 Ontario
    Kaleen ·
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    My FH and I didnt get put wedding party gifts but its such a cute idea I wish I had. Into it.
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