Into It or Over It: Wedding Party Proposals?

Over it I didn't think it was necessary

Over it, I didn't do this for my bridesmaids and I didn't think it was necessary!

Totally into it!

I am definitely into it - but the boxes cost a lot of money so I don't know if I will be doing it.

Into it I wrote cute little poems for all my bridesmaids and made cards for the groomsmen. Just a little keepsake!

Over it!

It seems to be a great idea to do of you want go out that much. Personally, i find it more of an expense with things that will be half used and wasted. I like simple and useful thoughts if given anything. Materialistic gifts get put on online to sell or given away eventually.

Over it. It’s way to over the top.

Into it! I did the same thing for my girls last summer!

Into it! We all went out for brunch and I gave my bridal party boxes with a champagne glass that had a decal of a dress, their name and title along with some face masks and a proposal card I made. I personalized everything so every box was different. I loved making them and the bridal party loved it.

INTO IT! lol I am doing bridesmaids proposals around the one year mark but my FH will probably not He thinks that it's corny and "weird".

Totally into it...but we’re leaning towards not having a wedding party at all.

I love this idea and totally am into it! It's just a fun way to show how much the people you pick for the bridal party mean to you.

I am doing it for my side of the bridal party, and leaving whether or not my FH does it for his groomsmen to him.

I love the wedding party proposals! I'm definitely into it!

Into it! We didn't go overboard, but my fiance got super into it to. I do vinyl letter printing, so we made stemless wine glasses (girls) and whiskey glasses (boys) for our "proposals".

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I love the idea! Even if my future bridal party hates the idea- they better put on that fake smile and “ongs!” Lol

Into it. Totally did it. They absolutely loved it which makes me happy.

I'm kinda over it. I'd rather take em out for dinner or just ask.

Into it! I did it for the girls, the guys don't care for it though and I will just do something little bigger as the thank you

I think it's cute! You don't have to spend exorbitant amounts of money on it for it to look sweet. Plus PINTEREST is a god send!

Over it. I am getting them an amazing wedding day gift as a thank you. I asked each girl in person over lunch so it was still personal and special.

I’m surprisingly into it.

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This note is super cute! I love how "won't" is crossed off to "might".

Totally not into this! i just asked, knowing that i was gonna get a yes from them.

I'm definitely into it! It shows that you put thought and time into the decision. You'll be asking a lot from these special people in your lives, might as well show your appreciation!

I was never into it, so I guess I'm over it? I just had a special moment with each of my girls - asked them over coffee, made it personal. My fiancé asked all his guys via text - such a sentimental guy! LOL

Over it. I’m going to get my bridesmaids gifts, but I just asked them to be bridesmaids in person.

I think it's a bit over the top. Never been into it, so I guess I'm over it!

Into it! I know a lot of people say that weddings are already expensive, and this is an unnecessary expense, but I kept it super small for all of them. I didn't go all out. It was just a fun way to ask them, and with a cute little keepsake!

I love it.
I am making boxes, though I'm not sure yet if Id give them while asking or after they said yes cause I don't want them to feel obligated to accept because of it

Over it! I just took them out to lunch and asked. Simple and easy.

I did it for my girls, into it

My FH and I didnt get put wedding party gifts but its such a cute idea I wish I had. Into it.