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Joey
WeddingWire Admin May 2015 Maryland

How long before the wedding did you send Save The Dates?

Joey, on March 5, 2018 at 08:55 Posted in Plan a wedding 0 34

I want to ask you about your wedding planning timeline - I'm curious to know how long before the wedding you crossed various planning tasks off your to-do list, or when you're planning to have the tasks finished. So play along to have some fun comparing timelines, while sharing your advice with those who are still building their own!

Did you mail out Save The Date cards to your guests? If so, why did you choose to send them? How long before your wedding date did you send them out?

How long before the wedding did you send Save The Dates? 1

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34 Comments

Latest activity by Vinod, on December 24, 2018 at 23:13
  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    Save the dates was skipped since it was an unnecessary expense.

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  • Brittany
    British Columbia
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    My bridal shower was quite early (5 months out from the wedding)... so my mom figured some Save the Dates should be sent out before the bridal shower invites went out... so we did them in July. I just used Photoshop to create a JPG and sent it by e-mail, text or FB messenger to everyone. It wasn't formal... just to give everyone the date for sure, so they knew if they were going to get an invite later.

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  • M
    Devoted August 2018 Ontario
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    To be honest I didn't know "what save the dates were" before. So I ended up just sending out the full wedding invitations.

    I would suggest sending them out about a year in advance.

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  • Jessie
    Expert September 2018 Ontario
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    We sent them about 9 months to 10 months before the wedding.

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  • Lydia
    Devoted June 2019 British Columbia
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    We're gonna send them about a year before our wedding date, but only to the people that are in the Netherlands. They got to travel far and it's also a summer wedding so most wanna build their vacation plans around it and it's way cheaper to get your tickets early
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  • Becky
    VIP September 2019 Ontario
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    We won't be doing them. Since we have a long time all of our friends and family know.

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  • Tracy
    Devoted September 2018 Ontario
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    We sent ours out 9 months before the wedding. They were mailed and looked like postcards Smiley smile
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  • Michelle
    Super September 2018 Alberta
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    Didn't send any out but made a FB group about 10 months prior

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  • M
    Expert July 2018 Alberta
    Marina ·
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    Our wedding is fairly intimate. So instead of sending save the dates, we just informed each of them insividually, approximately 7-8 months before the wedding day, or the moment we booked the venue.
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  • Megh
    Curious January 2019 Ontario
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    We will be sending out save the dates in April for our January 2019 wedding. As our date is on the tail end of the holiday season, I want to make sure as many people as possible are able to attend!

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  • Alexandra
    VIP November 2019 British Columbia
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    Exactly the same situation here! My family lives in England as I was born there so with the hopes as many people can make it we sent ours out in January and don’t get married until November 2019.
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  • Mandy
    Devoted July 2019 Alberta
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    We sent them out this January we don’t get married till 2019. But because a lot of our family lives out of country we wanted them to be able to save up money for the wedding.
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  • Chloe
    Super May 2018 Ontario
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    We chose not to send out Save the Dates.
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  • Amber
    Devoted September 2018 Alberta
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    We sent save the dates out by mail 9 months brfore the wedding. 90% of ny guests are out of town and its on a long week end so i wanted to give lots of notice.
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  • Emily
    Devoted October 2018 Ontario
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    For sure!! ❤️❤️
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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
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    Planning to send them this upcoming May which would be 15 months before the wedding. We want to send them early due to lots of out of town guests on my fiancé’s side.
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  • Laura
    Frequent user October 2018 British Columbia
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    That's awesome! It's going to be a great day! Smiley smile
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  • Emily
    Devoted October 2018 Ontario
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    Hey we are getting married on the same day!!
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  • Jennifer
    Super August 2018 Alberta
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    We didn’t send save the dates, we just sent our invites out a bit earlier.
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  • Courtney
    Super July 2018 Ontario
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    We sent ours out 10 months before the big day. We have some overseas guests so I wanted to give them tons of notice.

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  • Sydney
    Expert August 2018 Ontario
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    We opted out of save the dates! I really liked the idea of them, but they were just another added cost

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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
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    9 months before
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  • Erin
    Master September 2017 Ontario
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    We sent save the dates 9 months before the wedding via e-mail.

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  • Jodi
    Frequent user September 2018 Alberta
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    We sent them over facebook about a year in advance since we were having a long weekend wedding.

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  • Amanda
    Super August 2018 Alberta
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    We didn’t send out save-the-dates
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  • Laura
    Frequent user October 2018 British Columbia
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    We sent our Save the Dates by email in early February. Getting married in October so 8 months in advance.

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  • Valérie
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    We won't be sending save the dates, since only a handful of our guests are coming from out of town and we live in the same town as them. We've updated them already! Our parents have already updated everybody else on our wedding date anyway haha.

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  • Stephanie
    Frequent user May 2018 Ontario
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    We are getting married in may and we sent them in december.

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  • Breanne
    Expert August 2018 Ontario
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    We just sent out the save the dates between February 20-27th and we are getting married August 18th - so around 6 months in advance. We plan on sending out invites around the beginning of May if I can wait that long (I already have them and LOVE them).

    We chose to send out Save-the-dates due to the busy time of year and also because we are having an adults only wedding so wanted to give parents notice to make arrangements.

    I put our website on the Save-the-Dates so people can start checking out the details (I made sure to have our website up an running in advance, with the basics) and we've already had a few people RSVP, so that's pretty exciting!

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  • K
    Expert September 2018 British Columbia
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    We decided not to do save the dates - we're a small 40 family member wedding so everyone already knows the date! We'll send invites a bit earlier just to confirm the date.

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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    We'll send some around the holidays, at that point it will be 10 months before.

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  • Jen
    VIP June 2018 Ontario
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    In August of last year, which was 10 months before the wedding.

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